Imininingwane evela ku-National Institute of Statistics isitshela ukuthi ngonyaka wezi-2014 (ngowezi-2015 awukakashicilelwa maqondana nalokhu) izinga lezigwebo zokuchithwa, ukwehlukaniswa nesehlukaniso lalingu-2,3 kubantu abangu-1000, okulingana nengqikithi ye-105.893 amacala. Izehlukaniso zimelela amaphesenti angama-95,1 esamba; futhi uma sizibuka ndawonye nokwehlukaniswa, ama-76,5% ayenziwe ngokuvumelana. Uma kuqhathaniswa nonyaka owedlule (2013) sithola umehluko wephesenti wamaphesenti angu-5,4, okuzoqinisekisa ukuthi unyaka nonyaka ukwehlukana noma idivosi kuyanda, iningi lalemishado inezingane.
Imithombo eyahlukene okukhulunywe ngayo iqinisekisa ukuthi imishado engama-30% iphela ngokwehlukana noma ngesehlukaniso, okuyisibalo esiphakeme kakhulu, yize siphansi kunamaphesenti angama-40 e-United States. Kunoma ikuphi, lezi zibalo ezibalulekile, okusiholela ekuboneni ukuthi lezi zinqubo zizithinta kanjani izingane, lapho umndeni usuthole inzalo; ngoba - yize - kwamukelwa ukuthi amalungu alo mbhangqwana angabona ukuthuthuka komuntu siqu ngoshintsho lwempilo, ezinganeni zabo kuzoba yisimo esinzima kakhulu uma imizwa yabo inganakekelwa futhi ingaziswa.
Sithole okuthunyelwe (ngikusho ezansi kwekhasi) lapho kuboniswane khona nemithombo ehlukene, futhi ikhombisa imidwebo ehlukene eyenziwe izingane, ezinabazali abahlukanisayo, noma esezenzile kanjalo. Njengoba ukwazi ukubona kugalari yezithombe, bebonke bazizwa bengenakuzisiza futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke kunikeza umuzwa wokuthi babona impilo yabo 'njengokuhlukaniswa' kabili. Kepha ngizihluphile ngokubuyekeza imibhalo eminingi ekuyo, futhi kubonakala sengathi kulwazi lwezingane, isimo kanjalo nezinto ezihambisana naso kubalulekile.
Izici ezonakalisa izinto.
Ukuhlukaniswa kwabazali, izimpi ezingapheli, ukulahleka kwamandla okuthenga, izinguquko zokuhlala nokuhlukaniswa nemvelo yezenhlalo, ukuhlala ndawonye komunye wabazali, ukungabi nokuxhumana nomunye umzali, abalingani abasha babazali.
Konke lokhu kufaka ngqo iqiniso lokuthi izingane zihlangabezana nezinkinga zobudlelwano nontanga, imiphumela engokwengqondo noma engokomzwelo efana nokwesaba noma ukudangala, izinkinga zokuziphatha, futhi wehle nasekufundeni. Noma kunjalo, ukwahlukana noma isehlukaniso akuyona imbangela ngayinye yezinkinga ezingokwengqondo ezinganeni, kepha kuzenza zibe sengozini kakhulu, okungenani yile ndlela okuvela ngayo kulolu cwaningo olushicilelwe ngu IVangyseghem ne-Appelboom, ngo-2004.
Ukusabela ngokomzwelo ngokweminyaka.
Abasafunda esikoleni.
Ukuvela kokuziphatha okuphindayo, okutholwa yizingane eziningi njengoba zikhula, akufanele kusimangaze, noma ngabe abakutholi ukwahlukana: phakathi kwabo singabala i-enuresis yasebusuku, isidingo sokusizwa ukuba sidle sengathi sincane; Kungenzeka futhi ukuthi babonisa ubuhlungu obungokomzimba. Eminye imiphumela ukungeniswa noma ukuphazamiseka kokulala.
Abancane bangazizwa benecala, futhi lokho kuyingozi kakhulu, ukwesaba ukushiywa kuvela
Phakathi kweminyaka engu-6/7 nokuphela kweMfundo Ephansi: iminyaka eyi-12.
Ochwepheshe bayavuma ukuthi yisigaba sengozi enkulu kakhulu
Kunezingane ezizamayo bakhohlisa futhi bazame ukucindezela ngokomzwelo ukuze babuyise abazali babo; Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukuzethemba kwabo kuhlupheka kakhulu futhi kungenzeka ukuthi bakhombise isimilo esinolaka. Ukusebenza kahle kwezemfundo kubonisa ukuthi ingane inezinkinga ezisuselwa kulesi simo, futhi kufanele zinakwe kakhulu.
Intsha.
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