Izingane zomama abangabodwa: nazo zijabule

Owesifazane onquma ukuba nengane eyedwa uzokhipha inkohliso nokuzethemba kwakhe enganeni yakhe esinqumweni asithathile.

Noma ngabe siyini isizathu, abanye besifazane banquma ukubhekana nokuba ngumama bebodwa. Kulesi sihloko sizokhuluma ngezingane zomama abangabodwa ngoba nabo bangajabula njengabanye.

Ukuba ngumama yedwa

Umndeni wendabuko futhi oyinhloko ubandakanya ubaba, umama nezingane. Namuhla ukuba khona kwezinhlobo ezahlukahlukene zemindeni kwaziwa yibo bonke futhi bonke bafanelwe ukucatshangelwa okufanayo. Kufika engqondweni uma izingane zomama abangabodwa ziyajabula futhi zikhululeke futhi zibe sendaweni efanelekile izimfuno zakho. Ngokusobala, umama oqinile futhi oqinisayo obonga ngokuba nengane yakhe futhi olwela ukuzithuthukisa nsuku zonke uzodlulisela wonke amandla nokuvumelana kwakhe enganeni.

Owesifazane okhetha ukuba ngumama yedwa kungenzeka ukuthi ukwenze lokho ngenxa yezinkinga ezithile noma ngoba ethathe isinqumo phakamisa yena uqobo lwakhe endodaneni yakhe ngaphandle kosizo lomlingani. Noma ngabe yisiphi isizathu Uma owesifazane eqiniseka ngokuba ngumama, kusho ukuthi ufisa ukulwela inhlalakahle futhi injabulo lendodana. Yize ungenaye umaqondana, uma unomndeni osondelene noma abangani imvelo, ngokuqinisekile uzoba nokuxhaswa okuzokuvumela ukuthi uqinisekise kabusha ukukhetha kwakho kwempilo.

Injabulo yezingane zomama abangabodwa

Kwesinye isikhathi umama uzizwa engavikelekile futhi enovalo, kepha uthando olujulile ngendodana olufisa kangaka kungaba yisikhuthazo esisiza ukuthi baqhubeke.

Ukuba ngumama wedwa nakanjani kuzoba nzima futhi kukhathaze. Kodwa-ke, izinyanga zokuqala nezinamandla kakhulu zizodlula futhi zizoxazulula izikhathi ezingalingani neze nemilingo. Uthando luhlukene kabili phakathi kukamama nengane. Isibopho sikhulu futhi uthando nokuzinikela kunikezwa ngokuphelele endodaneni kwasekuqaleni. Ingane ibona kuye isibalo sayo esihle futhi esiyingqayizivele sezingubo zansuku zonke. Uzobona ukuthi kuyinto eza kuqala kuye futhi uzothola izici ezizosebenza njengesisekelo sempilo yakhe yesikhathi esizayo. Sizogcina engqondweni ukubaluleka komndeni nothando lweqiniso, umthwalo wemfanelo, usizo ekhaya, ukuhlukaniswa kwemisebenzi kanye nokufaneleka kokulwa nokubhekana nokuphila wedwa.

Umama uzoqoqa amandla ngenxa yendodana. Impumelelo enkulu yomama abangabodwa ukuthi bafuna ukunika okungcono kakhulu izingane zabo. Kwesinye isikhathi bazokwesaba noma baqambe amanga bazizwe benecala lokuthi abaneli. Yibo okufanele benze konke futhi bahlangabezane nezidingo ezijwayele ukwabelwa izithandani. Owesifazane angazizwa enesizungu kaningi, ekhathele noma enesidingo sokuphathisa abanye. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ingane iyojabula ngoba ngeke iswele lutho eduze kukamama ophana ngokuphelele, ozilungiselele futhi ozimisele.

Isibonelo sendodana

Indodana kamama ongashadile ubona umuntu onesibindi nonamandla elwela ukuvumelanisa umsebenzi, ikhaya, ukuba ngumama…, Futhi uyakwazi ukwakha ikhaya eliqinile. Yize ukuba wedwa ngomqondo wozakwethu, umndeni noma abangani, bazokukhombisa ukwesekwa okudingayo kwesinye isikhathi futhi nengane izozizwa ivikelekile nakubo. Ingane ibona yonke imizamo nokuzidela kukanina futhi izomnika indawo emfanele.

Njengoba ukuqhathanisa kuvame ukwenziwa phakathi kwezingane kusuka ku- umbhangqwana labo abanomama kuphela, kungashiwo ukuthi akukho mehluko ophawulekayo. Uma umama engaphasanga noma ehlangabezana nomzuzu wokungaxhunywanga, ukwesaba ..., ingane ayizukuqina ngokomoya futhi ibuthakathaka. Lo mama uyakwazi ukuhlangabezana nezidingo zengane kuzo zonke izici futhi ingane ngeke ibe nokusilela yanoma yiluphi uhlobo.