Ukuba ngumama kuyinto enhle kakhulu. Kepha ngemuva kokubeletha, omama bachitha izinyanga ezimbalwa nosana futhi impilo yethu yomphakathi iyaphela ngokuphelele. Ezikhathini eziningi, omama bayaphuthelwa ukukwazi ukukhuluma nabanye abantu abadala, ngoba ukuba ngumzali kuhilela ukuzihlukanisa nomphakathi othile, ukuzwa isizungu kanye nokukhathazeka okuthile ngokunakekelwa kwengane okuxhomeke ngokuphelele kithi.
Kepha lokhu kungashintsha, ungathanda ukuba nakho kanjani ithuba lokuya kumabhayisikobho nengane yakho? Futhi hamba nabanye omama abasesimweni esifanayo futhi bakuqonda kahle... Yilokho "Isikhathi se-Tit" futhi yisikhumbuzo, ngoba ngonyaka owedlule umqondo waqhamuka kumhlengikazi esikhungweni sezempilo eBarrio del Pilar eMadrid nokuwugubha bahlangana kwelinye lama-cinema eLa Vaguada (eMadrid) cishe omama abayi-100 abanezingane zabo futhi baye baba noTania Llasera njengonkulunkulukazi wabo.
En Madres Hoy sikulethela eyodwa ingxoxo no-Alicia García, "Umphathi wekhasi le-Facebook kusuka ku- «Teta Session». Usosayensi wamakhompyutha oneminyaka engama-34, unentombazane enezinyanga eziyi-18 futhi ulindele enye. Kuyaphuma kuma-akhawunti ekupheleni kuka-Agasti futhi Ubheke phambili ukubuyela eTeta Session emabhayisikobho eLa Vaguada lapho indodakazi yakhe izalwa".
Madres Hoy: ¿Cómo surgió la idea de la “sesión teta”? ¿Con qué periodicidad se realiza?
U-Alicia García: NgoFebhuwari 17, owokuqala Isikhathi se-Teta ngiyabonga UCarmen Maderuelo, umhlengikazi ovela kwi-workshop yokuncelisa izingane ubisi esikhungweni sezempilo saseCastroviejo ngaseLaVaguada
UTania Llasera noCarmen Maderuelo
Ngalesi sinyathelo, omama banikezwa izikhathi zokuzithokozisa ukuze babelane ngamava abo wokuba ngumama, kwakheka ngasikhathi sinye isikhala sokwakha izibopho ezintsha zobungani.
MH: Bekulula yini kosomabhizinisi beshashalazi lama-movie ukwenza izingqondo zabo? Uyithole kanjani?
AG: Ngemuva kokuthi uCarmen ekhulume nengcweti yengane ye-ENT, waya ematiyetha wayokhuluma nomphathi, wayitshela ngalombono omuhle. Abasebenzi be-cinema, ubelokhu ezimisele njalo ukusisiza.
MH: Uhluke kanjani kunoma yisiphi esinye isikhathi sama-movie sasekuseni?
AG: Kukuphi igumbi liguqulelwe ingane ngomsindo nasekushiseni. Futhi, akunandaba ukuthi ingane iyakhala yini nomama kufanele asukume ayithule futhi uma ekhala kakhulu, phuma egumbini ubuyele ngaphakathi. Njalo uhlonipha abanye.
MH: Ingabe izidingo zengane ziyabhekwa, ingabe zikhona izimo ezithile zokushisa, ukukhanya noma ivolumu yomsindo, ngokwesibonelo?
AG: Benza igumbi lilingane nezinga lokushisa nomsindo ukuze ilungele ingane.
MH: Ngabe kwenzelwa omama kuphela noma bangeza behambisana nabalingani babo noma izihlobo?
AG: Bakhuluma ngomama, ngoba yithina esijwayele ukuthatha ikhefu futhi sichithe isikhathi esithe xaxa nengane, kepha kukhona nobaba abakulesi simo, futhi-ke bangafika. Kunjalo Bangaphelelwa yinoma ngubani abamfunayo. Umuntu ohamba nabo kufanele azi ukuthi abayi kumamuvi ojwayelekile, ngomsindo omkhulu, futhi ngaphandle komsindo, uma kungenjalo, ukuthi konke kulungiselelwe inhlalakahle yengane.
MH: Ngabe iyakuthuthukisa ukululama kukamama ngemuva kokubeletha nganoma iyiphi indlela, kusho ukuthini ngokululama kwakhe ngokomqondo?
AG: Noma kungashiwo okwanele ngalesi sihloko, kukhona isizungu esihlasela omama ezinyangeni zokuqala zomama, lapho ingane incike kuzo amahora angama-24. Omama abanayo impilo yomphakathi futhi impilo yabo yonke iyingane. Kungakho kubalulekile ukuthi ube nemizila yokuphunyuka ukuze unqamule.
MH: Ingabe omama bayaphinda, bayabakha ubungani phakathi kwabo?
AG: Yebo omama abaningi abaya esimisweni bavame ukuphinda. Uma bebonana, cishe njalo ngesonto, ekugcineni isibopho siyakhiwa futhi baqala ukukhuluma futhi baphuze nasekupheleni kweseshini.
MH: Izingane ziyisebenzisa kanjani? Ngabe basebenzisa iseshini bezolile noma banokwesaba ngokudlula kwesilinganiso?
AG: Izingane, kulesi sigaba, zithanda kakhulu ukuba semfudumalweni konina (noma umuntu obanakekela kakhulu), ukuze zidle futhi zilale, ngakho-ke lezi zingane, bajwayele ukuchitha iseshini sengathi basekhaya.
MH: Usazisa kanjani isipiliyoni, ungaphinda futhi? Ngabe uyakwazisa ukuthi kungenzeka ukwethula noma yiluphi ushintsho ekusebenzeni?
AG: Okuhlangenwe nakho kuhle!l! Impela bengizophinda futhi. Eqinisweni, omunye womama abakha iqembu leseshini le-boob uzobuye abe khona ekupheleni kuka-Agasti, futhi ubheke phambili ukuphinda abuye esimisweni se-boob, ngoba ingane yakhe manje inezinyanga eziyi-18 ubudala, futhi yena, Ngeminyaka engu-Baby, ungakwazi ukuya kuma-movie manje.
MH: Ikhangiswa kanjani? Bangaziswa kanjani omama ngosuku nangesikhathi "sesikhathi se-boob"?
AG: Sizama ukwenza i-cinema ngayinye ukuthi ibeke iseshini yayo yekhasi ekhasini layo futhi senze lesi seshini esinye isikhathi, kepha kuze kube manje kuze kube siyasithola, konke okubikiwe kwenziwa Facebook. Sikhuluma nomkhombe, futhi uma kungekho sicelo, basikisela ama-movie, okungcono kakhulu okungalawula umsindo wengane. Kuwo wonke amanye ama-cinema, sishicilela yonke imininingwane abasithumela yona ukuze ifinyelele kuwo wonke ama-cinema aseSpain. Lokhu kungaba yinto enhle, nokuthile okungenza uCarmen ajabule kakhulu.
Ngokusho UChristophe Edeline, umqondisi wezamabhayisikobho eLa Vaguada, umkhawulo kuphela ukuthi awekho ama-movie wesabekayo noma wesenzo akhonjiswayo, ukugwema izinguquko zomsindo ongazelelwe futhi ungeqi ama-decibel angama-65, ngenkathi okujwayelekile kungu-100. Iseshini nayo ine- Intengo eyehlisiwe (€ 6).
Kuze kube manje ingxoxo no-Alicia García. Ngokwethu ngiyabonga ngokubambisana kwakho nangomusa. Ngingakukhuthaza ukuthi ulandele ikhasi le- Facebook kweseshini se-tit, futhi sikukhuthaze ukuthi uzame, uzophinda nakanjani.