Imfundo yilungelo eliyisisekelo lezingane ezifakwe eSimemezelweni Somhlaba Wonke Samalungelo Ezingane, njengoba sibonile ku-athikili "10 amalungelo ayisisekelo ezingane". Futhi hhayi nje njengemfundo ebonwa njengokukhumbula idatha, kepha a imfundo ephelele kuzo zonke izindawo, ngokusekelwe kumagugu namakhono enza impilo ibe lula kubo. Ake sibone ukuthi yiziphi izinsika zemfundo ezinganeni.
Ukuzethemba
Ukuzethemba izonquma impilo yakho engokomzwelo Kungakho kubaluleke kangaka. Kuthinta zonke izingxenye zempilo yethu nokuzethemba kwethu kwakheka kwazise sibancane. Okuhlangenwe nakho kwethu nokuthi sikuhumusha kanjani kwenza ukuzethemba kwethu kube kuhle noma kubi. Futhi ekuzethembeni kwezingane thina bazali sinomthwalo omkhulu wemfanelo, yithi izibalo eziyinhloko zokunamathiselwa ukuthi abancane banakho.
Imfundo kufanele isize izingane zifunde ukuzazi kangcono, ukuzazisa kanye nokuzithanda. Ukuphathwa ngolimi olufanele ngaphandle kokuzigxeka noma ulimi olubi. Bafundise ukuthi ngamunye wethu wehlukile futhi ukhethekile, ukuthi sinezici zethu ezikhethekile nokuthi lokho kusenza sehluke.
Ungaphuthelwa yindatshana "Ungakukhuthaza kanjani ukuzethemba ezinganeni" lapho ngichaza khona ngokujulile ukuthi ukuzethemba kuqukethe nokuthi ungabasiza kanjani ukuba bathuthuke futhi basebenze kukho.
Amanani
Impela, thina bazali kumele sihlaziye ukuthi yimaphi amagugu esifuna ukutshala ezinganeni zethu futhi sisebenzele kuwo, kepha othisha futhi bangasebenza ngamanani ekilasini. Lokhu kuzoqinisa ukufunda kwabo futhi bazofakwa ngaphakathi, ngoba bazokubona kwezinye izingane njengokujwayelekile.
Amanani afana nobumbano, inhlonipho, umusa, ukulingana… Abakwenzayo ukulawula indlela esiziphatha ngayo ohlangothini oluthile. Ngokwezindinganiso ebesinazo emndenini wethu, kuzoba kanjalo-ke lapho sesikhulile.
Esihlokweni "Ukubaluleka kokufundisa ngezindinganiso" Ngikutshela ngamagugu amakhulu akhona, ukuthi athonya kanjani izimpilo zethu nezeluleko ezithile zokuthi ungafundisa kanjani ngamanani.
Uhlakaniphile ngokomzwelo
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukufundisa izingane ukuhlakanipha kwemizwa. Ngibonga izingane zakhe bazokwazi ukuphatha imizwa yabo, ukwazi ukuthi ungaziqamba kanjani igama ngalinye, ukubabona kwabanye (okuthuthukisa ukuzwelana) nokwazi ukuzikhipha ngaphandle ngendlela enempilo.
Ukubaluleka kwayo kunjengokuthi imfundo engokomzwelo ezonquma ngamathuba amakhulu ukuthi sizojabula noma cha, njengoba sibonile ku-athikili "Imfundo engokomzwelo: isibikezelo sempumelelo empilweni". Izinkinga eziningi ezingokomzwelo ezikhona namuhla kubantu abadala bezingeke zibe khona sibonga ubuhlakani obungokomzwelo: ukudangala, ukukhathazeka, ukuluthwa ... Yingakho kubalulekile ukuqeqesha labo abakulo mkhakha, bazoba nempilo enhle ngokwengqondo nangokomzwelo, futhi bayojabula kakhulu.
Ngalokhu, ngokushesha lapho siqala ngcono. Sezivele ziqala ukuvela njenge amakilasi angaphandle, yize inhloso ukuthi bekuyisihloko esinqunyelwe sazo zonke izingane zeminyaka yonke. Lapho sibona ukuthi okubaluleke kakhulu akuyona idatha abayikhumbulayo kepha ukuthi bazichaza kanjani izimo abahlala kuzo nokuthi bangazilawula kanjani lezo zimo, sizokwazi ukuthi singakunikeza kanjani ukubaluleka kwempilo yethu engokomzwelo.
Isiphetho
Imfundo kufanele ibonwe iyonke, hhayi nje ukufunda amatafula okuphindaphinda nokubamba ngekhanda amaqiniso. Futhi ngalokhu kufanele kube nomsebenzi ohlanganyelwe we umphakathi wasekhaya-esikoleni, lapho imigqa yomsebenzi yabiwa phakathi kwabo bonke. Sekuvele kukhonjisiwe ukuthi kunezinhlobo ezingaphezu kweyodwa zezobunhloli yize imfundo iqhubeka nokugxila koyedwa kuphela.
Umfana nentombazane ngayinye kufanele bafundiswe ukuthola amandla abo aphezulu phakathi kokungafani kwabo, ngokuhlonipha izikhathi zabo futhi kufanele kube yinto ehlangene phakathi komndeni nesikole. Funda idatha, amasiko, intuthuko, umlando kepha futhi ukuze ukubekezelela ukukhungatheka, ukuphatha ulaka nobuhlungu besiteshi. Funda ukubumbana, unganyatheli noma ngubani futhi uhloniphe abanye nathi uqobo.
Ngoba khumbula ... imfundo liyilungelo eliyisisekelo lezingane.