Lapho uqala ukulungiselela ukufika kwengane yakho, kubalulekile ukuthi uhlele kahle ukuthi yini edingeka ngempela nokuthi yini engafanele. Ngaphandle kwalokho ubungakwazi chitha imali eningi ezintweni ongazidingi ngempela nokuthi imali ingadingeka kwezinye izinto ezidingeka kakhulu. Kepha enye yezinto ozoyidinga, ukuthola induduzo yengane neyakho, kubhavu.
Manje namhlanje kunezinhlobo eziningi zamabhavu okugeza abantwana Futhi ngaphambi kokuyethula ukuyithenga eyodwa, kubalulekile ukuthi uzazise zonke izinketho zokukhetha leyo evumelana kangcono nezidingo zakho. Isibonelo, unayo indawo eyanele yokubeka ubhavu? Ungayisebenzisa uma uwedwa nengane? Ingane yakho izokwazi ukuyisebenzisa isikhathi esingakanani?
Ungayikhetha kanjani ibhavu lokugoqa elifanele kakhulu
Emakethe ungathola izinhlobo eziningi ze izingane zokugeza, kodwa akuwona wonke amamodeli afanele yonke imindeni. Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuthi funa ubhavu ongawusebenzisa isikhathi eside, elingana kahle endaweni onayo ekhaya lakho futhi engabandakanyi utshalomali olukhulu, ngoba luyisitsha esinesikhathi esilinganiselwe.
Phakathi kwazo zonke izinhlobo zamabhavu ezingane okwamanje asemakethe, kunamabhavu okugoqa. Ngabe ufuna ukubheka ukuthi lolu hlobo lomkhiqizo luyahlangabezana yini nezidingo zakho?
Izinzuzo nokungalungi
Enye yezinzuzo zokuqala ze- ubhavu wokugoqa ukuthi uthatha isikhala esincane. Ungayigcina kunoma iyiphi ikona futhi ngomzuzwana uyilungiselele ukugeza ingane yakho. Ngaphezu kwesikhala, ubhavu wokugoqa unezinye izinzuzo:
- Kuthuthwa kalula: Uma uhamba njalo, ungahambisa ubhavu kalula njengoba unamathisela kuthatha isikhala lapho kugoqiwe. Ngale ndlela uzohlala unebhavu elifanele lokugeza ingane yakho nsuku zonke.
- Uma ungenayo ubhavu ekhaya: Ezindlini eziningi akukho bhavu wokugeza, kodwa ishawa, futhi lokhu kungadala ukungakhululeki lapho ugeza ingane. Ubhavu wokugoqa ingafakwa eshaweni, ukuze ukugeza kwengane kukhululeke ngokwengeziwe.
- Ungayisindisa noma kuphi uma ungasayidingi: Lapho ingane yakho ikhula kancane futhi ingasadingi ukugezwa okukhethekile kwengane, ungayigcina kunoma iyiphi indawo ekhaya lakho. Okuthile okwenziwa yibo bonke omama abasha, ikakhulukazi uma uhlela ukuba nezingane eziningi.
Yize zisebenza kakhulu, kungenzeka zingabi inketho engcono kakhulu kuyo yonke imindeni. lokhu kuyinkinga:
- Azilungele noma nini lapho uzidinga: Kwesinye isikhathi ingane iyavuza bese uzithola usesidingo sokuthi uyigeze ngokushesha. Ukungabi nebhavu lokuhlala uhlale ulungile kungakwenza kuthathe isikhathi eside ukulungiselela ukugeza futhi omncane uphelelwa yithemba.
- Bahlala bancane maduzane: Ingane ikhula ngezinga elihlasimulisayo futhi ubhavu wokugoqa uba mncane kakhulu maduzane. Ukuze ngesikhathi esifushane kuzodingeka wenze utshalomali olusha kwenye inketho efanelekile.
- Akukusizi ukushintsha ingane: Obhavu abanamathele etafuleni elishintshayo bathokomele ngoba bayakuvumela ukuthi ugeze futhi gqoka ingane endaweni ephakeme lapho ungadingi ukukhathaza ukuma kwakho. Okuthile okubaluleke kakhulu ukunakekela umqolo wakho, ovele uzolimala ezinyangeni zokuqala.
- Zingaba yingozi njengoba ingane ikhula: Ngokwe ingane ifunda ukusukuma, ubhavu wokugoqa ungaba yingozi.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ukhetha ini, cabanga ukuthi ingane yakho ayinandaba nokuthi ubhavu wakhe muhle noma mncane. Okudingayo ukuthi ikhululeke futhi iphephe, okukuvumela ukuthi ugeze ingane yakho ngendlela elula futhi evumela ukuthi omncane ajabulele isikhathi sakhe sokugeza sansuku zonke. Njengoba lesi ngesinye sezikhathi eziyintandokazi zazo zonke izingane ngaphambi kokulala.