Ilukuluku ezinganeni yisifiso sokwazi, ukuthola nokuthola okuthile. Le ntshisekelo yokuthola umhlaba oyizungezile izoba ithuluzi elihle kakhulu ekuziphendukeleni kwayo, bathuthuka ekucabangeni kwabo kwesayensi. Kuyinto ethile engokwemvelo ngoba isebenza njengesivikelo ukuze zisebenze kuzo zonke izici, kodwa kunezingane lapho le mfanelo ingaba ngaphansi.
Ilukuluku elincane ezinganeni kungakhawulela ukukhula kwabo ngendlela yezenhlalo neyomuntu siqu. Izingane zingakhombisa ukungakuthandi ukwenza abangane, azinandaba nezimo ezizungezile, azifuni ukwazi ukufunda incwadi, futhi esikoleni kungabiza uthisha kakhulu ukuyifundisa. Kufanele ukwandise ugqozi lwabo futhi ubashukumise ngokwemvelo ukuze uzizwe ubabaza izinto.
Izinzuzo zokulangazelela ezinganeni
Lapho izingane eziningi ziqala ukukhuluma seziqala ukuzwa zifuna ukwazi, kusukela manje kuvele imvula engapheli yemibuzo namehlo anelukuluku. Ukwazi ukuthi banomuzwa wokuthi kungaletha izinzuzo ezinkulu:
- Khulisa indlela yakho yokufunda, njengoba kuzokwenza ufunde ngokushesha okukhulu.
- Kuthuthukisa inkumbulo yakho, ukunaka futhi kwenza noma isiphi isiyalo sijabule kakhudlwana.
- Vikela ubuchopho bakho futhi lokho kuzokwenza ukuthi ubhekane nezinkinga kangcono kakhulu.
- Izisiza zikhule ngokuzwana okukhulu Njengoba bezoliqonda kangcono izwe elibazungezile, kungumusa omuhle ukuxhumana nabanye.
Ungalivuselela kanjani ilukuluku
Ukufundisa indlela yokuvuselela ilukuluku lengane kuzoncika kakhulu kubazali bayo, kubaluleke kakhulu ukukhanyisa leyo ntambo bese unikeza isibonelo esincane sokuthi kusho ukuthini. Ungakwazi thola ukuchaza zonke izinzuzo ezilethayo:
- Mababheke konke okubazungezile, lokho kuvusa umuzwa wakho wokufuna ukwazi. Ukusetshenziswa ngokweqile kobuchwepheshe obuningi kungabakhawulela ekutholeni umhlaba wabo wemvelo futhi yize kubonakala kungakholeki kuhle ukuthi bazizwe izikhathi zesithukuthezi.
- Yenza ukuvela kuvele. Uma ingane inentshisekelo esihlokweni esithile, ungenza leli lukuluku livuthe, wenze imininingwane ingapheleli ngokuphelele ukuze le khwalithi ivuke.
- Bayeke bazenzele izinto, ungabasizi. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi bathole futhi bahlole njengoba kubenza bakhulise ukuzimela kwabo.
- Bakhuthaze ukuthi bathuthukise intshisekelo yabo. Uma bezwa ukuthi kukhona okungabajabulisa, ungalokothi wehlise okulindelwe kubo Khuthaza intshisekelo yabo futhi ungazami ukufaka izinto ozithandayo ngaphezu kwazo. Zama ukungasebenzisi imishwana efana nokuthi "manje angifuni wenze ...", "manje awukwazi ...", "yeka ...". Okubalulekile ukuthi uma ubekade enentshisekelo, angayithathi kuye.
- Bafundise ukuthi bangahlakulela ilukuluku labo besebenzisa izindlela ezithile. Ezinganeni ezindala zingafunda ukusebenzisa i-intanethi futhi zibuze imibuzo yazo, esikhundleni sokubuza abazali bazo kakhulu, lokho kuzobenza bakwazi ukuzimela ngokwengeziwe.
- Bameme ukuthi babe nokuxhumana. Vuleleka kunoma imiphi imibuzo futhi ubenze bazizwe bekhululekile lapho kufanele babuze okuthile. Amazwana ajwayelekile afana nokuthi "yeka ukubuza", "manje akusona isikhathi esihle" noma "uzokwazi uma usumdala" angavela. Kumele sizame ukwenza isimo sengxoxo nabo sibonakale ngoba ngaphandle kwaso akukho okunganciphisa ukukhathazeka kwabo.
- Ivela Kubalulekile ukuthi isimo sabazali sigcizelele ilukuluku labo. Mhlawumbe ukwesaba kungumthombo oyinhloko wokungavusi ilukuluku elikhulu. Ungabakhawuleli ngezimpendulo ezifuna ngenkani, njengohlobo oluthile lokungavunyelwa. Zama ukubenza bazizwe bephelezelwa njalo lapho bedinga izimpendulo ngoba lokhu kuzobanikeza ukuphepha okuningi.