Ubaba nendodana babelana ngesikhathi ngaphandle.
Ukuba ngumzali akulula. Kunezinsuku lapho ukhathala khona, lapho ucabanga ukuthi awukwazi ukuqhubeka. Izikhathi lapho ukuphelelwa yithemba kungakufica khona. Ukuba ngumzali kungumsebenzi wesikhathi esigcwele.
Noma kunjalo, ukuba umzali kuwumsebenzi ozuzisa kakhulu. Yonke imizamo nokuzinikela okudingekayo ekukhuliseni ingane kuletha ukwaneliseka okukhulu kumzali. Ukubona ingane ijabule kufanele konke.
Kusukela lapho siba ngabazali, izinto eziza kuqala kithi ziyaguqulwa. Abazali banamandla okwenza noma yini ukuhlangabezana nezidingo zabancane bethu. Futhi lapho konke kuhamba phansi isisusa sethu nokukhohlisa kwethu yizingane zethu.
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Gubha i- Usuku lukaBaba Kuyizaba eziphelele zokwenza izinto ezikhethekile njengomndeni. Usuku olumakwe ekhalendeni, lapho i-honoree ithola ingxenye yokunakwa engakaze ikufune. Futhi kungenxa yale mininingwane emincane lapho umzali angathola khona ugqozi nomdlandla wokuqhubekela phambili.
Izikhathi zomndeni zibalulekile, noma ngabe usuku lumaka ekhalendeni yini. Kepha uma nathi sisebenzisa ngokunenzuzo izinsuku ezibekiwe, sizoba nethuba elihle lokudala izinkumbulo ezihlukile eziyohlala ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Okubaluleke nakakhulu lapho inqubo yansuku zonke ingakuvumeli ukuthi wenze lokho.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ungasebenzisa leli thuba ukuhlela intambama yobuciko nezingane zakho, lapho uzolungisa khona izipho ezizotholwa ubaba. Futhi-ke uzochitha intambama emnandi nabo. Y kwesinye isikhathi sidinga ukukubeka konke eceleni futhi sichithe amahora ambalwa sidlala imidlalo yezingane ukuzikhumbuza ukuthi kungani kuwufanele umzamo omkhulu kangaka.
Njengomama, unamandla okuthonya izingane zakho ngendlela enhle. Umkhosi uyithuba lokuchitha isikhathi nomndeni, ukuqinisa izibopho phakathi kwabazali nezingane.
Ungaphuthelwa yithuba lokuqinisa ubumbano nobaba wakho, nogogo wakho, noma nanoma ngubani ocabanga ukuthi uyihlo. Izibopho zansuku zonke zisho ukuthi asinabo abantu ababaluleke kangaka ezimpilweni zethu abakhona njengamanje.
Thatha ithuba lokuthi ngiyakuthanda, Kujwayelekile ukucabanga ukuthi bayazi, kepha akukaze kube buhlungu ukusho ngokuzwakalayo. Nikeza abanye lokho okufunela wena. Fundisa izingane zakho ukwazisa umsebenzi wabazali bazo futhi uzobe ubanika isifundo esihle sempilo.
Usuku oluhle lobaba!