Ukukhathazeka kuvamile kubazali abasha. Bavame ukuzibuza lapho ingane ikhasa, lapho uqala ukunambitha ukudla okuqinile, uzothatha nini izinyathelo zakho zokuqala ... Futhi uhlu lude. Ihlanganisa noma yiziphi izinyathelo ezincane ezikhuluma ngokukhula komntwana.
Iqiniso liwukuthi empeleni singakhuluma ngamapharamitha athile lapho sihlaziya isikhathi lapho a ingane iqala ukukhasa. Kuyaziwa ukuthi ezinye izinyathelo ezibalulekile kufanele zenzeke kuqala ezizoholela kule nqubo yokuzimela kwezimoto. Futhi uma sikhuluma ngezenzakalo ezibalulekile emhlabeni wobuntwana sibhekisela kulezo zinguquko eziphawula ukuvela kwengane.
Ukukhasa kokuqala
Ukukhula komntwana akubonakali nje ubude noma isisindo kodwa nalezo zinqubo zemvelo ezikhuluma ngokuvuthwa komntwana. Ingane izalwa inomuzwa wemvelo wokuncela kodwa phakathi namasonto ambalwa iqala ukugqolozela, bese ikhombisa ukumamatheka kwayo kokuqala okuqotho. Kamuva, uzozama ukuphakamisa nokusekela ikhanda lakhe, embule izandla zakhe, futhi azame ukucosha izinto. Uzosilandela ngamehlo futhi kancane kancane athole ukuthi angakwazi ukuxhumana nomhlaba.
Cishe ezinyangeni eziyisithupha ubudala, izingane ziqala ukuhlala zodwa. Kwezinye izimo, lokhu kwenzeka ezinyangeni ezi-5, kwezinye ezinyangeni ezingu-7. Yisinyathelo sokuqala esikhulu esibheke enkululekweni. Uma sebebodwa, bangakhasa ukuze babheke izinto futhi ukusuka lapho ukuze bakhase kunezinyathelo ezimbalwa. Ukukhasa yisigaba esilandelayo somntwana. Kwenzeka phakathi kwezinyanga eziyisi-6 neziyi-10, kuya ngomntwana kanye nokukhula kwakhe kwengqondo.
Ekuqaleni ukukhasa kungaba kancane ... budlabha mhlawumbe? Ungalindeli ukuthi zonke izingane zikhase kahle futhi zithande ezikhangisweni zethelevishini. Kukhona izingane eziqala ngo-a ukukhasa okungajwayelekile, lapho zinyakaza noma ziphushe ngomlenze owodwa. Kwezinye izimo, okuthiwa Ngiyakhasa ngibuyela emuva, okuyinto evamile ezinganeni eziningi. Bese kuba khona izingane ezihlanganisa ukukhasa nokukhasa.
Ikhasa nini?
Okubalulekile ukwazi ukuthi izingane ziyaqhubeka nenqubo yazo yokuziphendukela kwemvelo nokuthi zibonisa izimpawu zokuthuthuka kwemoto. Ngemva kokubamba ikhanda, ukuthatha izinto nokuhlala yedwa, lokhu kukhasa kufika ukuthi, ngisho nasezimeni lapho kungahlelekile, kukhuluma ngesinyathelo esisha esibalulekile ekuthuthukisweni kwemoto yengane.
Futhi kungani ungafanele ukhathazeke kakhulu ngezikhathi kanye lapho ingane ikhasa? Ngoba okudingeka kuhlaziywe ijika lokuziphendukela kwemvelo. Kunezingane ezengeziwe ezinesibindi nezingokwenyama ezenza konke kusenesikhathi kuyilapho ezinye zizothile futhi okulindeleke eminyakeni ethile kwenzeka kamuva. Okubalulekile wukuqopha ukuthi imiqophi iqhubeka nejika elilindelekile.
Ngakho-ke, cishe izinyanga ezingu-8 kulindeleke ukuthi ingane iqala ukukhasa: emuva, phambili, emaceleni. Kodwa uma lokhu kungenzeki ngendlela ethile, into ebalulekile ukurekhoda amanye amaphethini akhuluma ngokuziphendukela kwemvelo nokwandisa ukuthuthukiswa kwezimoto. Isizathu? Kunezingane ezingakaze zikhase kodwa zeqa lesi sinyathelo esiphakathi nendawo lapho ezizobe zihamba khona.
Kunezingane okuthi uma sezihlezi phansi zinyakaze nokunye kodwa azikhase. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, baqala ukuma bebambelele efenisha noma abantu bese beqala ukuhamba. Nakuba izingane eziningi zenza lesi sinyathelo esiphakathi, akwenzeki njalo. Njengoba kunezingane ezihamba ngezinyanga ezingu-10 kanti ezinye zinonyaka owodwa nesigamu.
Ezweni lobuntwana azikho izikhathi eziqondile njengoba ziningi izinto ezinomthelela ekukhuleni kwengane. Okubalulekile wukunaka ijika lokuziphendukela kwemvelo lomntwana ngamunye. Futhi uma ungabaza, njalo uthintane nodokotela wezingane olandela ingane, ozokwazi ukubona noma iyiphi inkinga engenzeka.