Uma ingane yakho yesaba ukuhamba ngendiza, mhlawumbe ingomunye wabo khombisa ukukhathazeka okukhulu nokukhathazeka ngisho nezinsuku ngaphambi kokuthatha indiza. Iqiniso lokukhuluma ngokundiza selivele liyazenza wethukile futhi ungaphumuli ngabazali Ngoba isikhathi sifika futhi abakwazi ukuqhubeka, kukhuthaza okuningi kakhulu.
Iningi lezingane basabela ekwesabeni ukundiza ngendlela efanayo. Ukubasiza ukuze bangahlupheki, kufanele usebenze ezicini ezimbili, ingxenye engokomzwelo, okuwukwesaba, nengxenye enengqondo, lapho kufanele uchaze ukuthi indiza isebenza kanjani.
Kungani ukwesaba ukuhamba ngendiza kuvela?
Eziningi zalezi zinhlobo zokwesaba kudluliselwa ngqo futhi ngokungazi ngabantu abamzungezile. Yize ezimweni eziningi lolu hlobo lwesimo luyinto esabisayo noma edala ukwesaba ngendlela ejwayelekile, kulezi zimo asinakukufihla futhi sikudlulisela kuwe ngaphandle kokufuna.
Enye indlela yokwesaba ukundiza yikhono cabanga ukuthi kusho ukuthini ukugibela ibhanoyi ubone ukuthi wehlukene nezwekazi, nethuba lokuwa futhi ngenxa yalokho ukubona isihloko sokufa. Sebevele baqala ukuqonda umqondo wokufa kusukela eminyakeni eyi-6 futhi lapho bahlobanisa ukwesaba ukuthatha uhambo nokwesaba yengozi eyinhlekelele.
Amathiphu okusiza ingane yakho
- Lindela isimo sokuhamba kusengaphambili. Kufanele wenze indlela kusuka lapho uzobamba khona indiza lapho uya khona. Kufanele uhlele futhi ujabule ngendawo ozoyivakashela ukuze uqale ukucabanga futhi uphuphe ngemininingwane.
- Ukubukwa okudala kwendiza. Ungathatha umzuzwana wokuzindla ukuze ngokubambisana sikwazi ukucabanga ukuthi ingaphakathi lendiza linjani, ukuthi liyindawo ephephile, ukuthi ngeke uqaphele okuhlukile kunanoma yikuphi lapho ungahle ube khona ngaleso sikhathi. Kepha kuyindawo lapho kufanele uhlale uthule khona ngoba awukwazi ukweqa noma ukugijima. Vele, kufanele umnikeze inkohliso yokuthi ungadweba, ufunde, udlale ngamathoyizi amancane noma imidlalo yevidiyo noma ubuke ama-movie.
- Gcina ujatshuliswa futhi uzolile endizeni. Kunezinye izindlela eziningi zokugcina ingane ijabule phakathi nohambo: singaletha amathoyizi amancane, imidlalo yokuzijabulisa, izincwadi zokupenda, amaphakheji amancane omaki nopende, izincwadi okufanele zifundwe, ubuchwepheshe obuncane ukuze bakwazi ukudlala ngohlelo lokusebenza noma ukubukela ibhayisikobho noma uchungechunge oluthandayo, noma ulethe amaswidi ... konke kuzoncika lokho ingane ngayinye engakwemukela kangcono maqondana nobuntu bayo.
- Menze azizwe ephephile ohambweni. Zama ukuthi ngikwazi hlala phakathi kwabantu abadala ababili hhayi eduze kwewindi lendiza, ngakho-ke awukwazi ukubona ukuthi uphakama kangakanani futhi uvalo lukhulu. Ezinganeni ezinesibindi esikhulu, ukuma eduze kwewindi kuyinto enhle.
- Uma phakathi nohambo ucabanga ukuthi uzokhala izinyembezi. Kufanele ube nohlobo oluthile lokuphikisana olulungiselelwe ukwehlisa lesi simo. Ngaphezu kwakho konke kufanele udlulise ukuthula futhi ungethuki ngoba ingane iyakhala. Ungavumeli noma yikuphi ukuphawula noma izikhalazo ezivela kwabanye abagibeli zikuthinte. Thuthukisa nganoma yiziphi izinto ozilungisile ukuze ukhohlwe isikhathi. Awudingi ukumcindezela ngalokho azizwa ngakho kepha kungcono uphelezele ingane ngesikhathi sayo sosizi futhi uyiqinisekise.
- Uma ingane yakho iba nesiyezi, Kukhona njalo izindlela ezinhle zalolu hlobo lwesimo, njengamasongo wokulwa nolwandle noma imishanguzo yokunciphisa lokhu kungakhululeki.
- Thintana nodokotela wezengqondo uma isimo sichichima. Uma ucabanga ukuthi awekho amathuba okuxazulula lokhu kukhathazeka, ungahlala uthintana nochwepheshe.