Uncelise ingane yami ibele
Ezinyangeni ezimbalwa ezedlule ngifunde i- isihloko de UJulio Basulto okuqale ngokuthi: "Ngaphandle kokuncelisa, umuntu ubengeke abekhona". Kwakubonakala kudlondlobele kimi. Ngoba sihambile emlandweni wethu sakha inqwaba yokudla "kwezingane" kodwa ngaphambi kokuba kuhlale kukhona umama oncelisa ingane yakhe ibele. Yinto esobala futhi eyisidala njengoba ikhohliwe yizimboni nezintshisekelo zezentengiselwano.
«Ngaphandle kokuncelisa, umuntu ubengeke abe khona. Kuyadingeka ukuqala ngalokhu okusobala ukuqonda ukuthi ukuncelisa ibele kuyinto ejwayelekile njengokuhamba nokuthi, ngakho-ke, asidingi bufakazi bokucacisa izinzuzo zayo ngaphambi kokukukhuthaza noma, ngaphezu kwakho konke, ukukuvikela ekuphazanyisweni okuyingozi. Ngokuphambene nalokho, kuyadingeka ukuthi abathengisi bezinto ezithatha indawo yobisi lwebele (noma, lapho kufanele khona, isenzo sokuhamba) banikeze ubufakazi obuqinile ngokuphepha kwabo […] ».
UJulio Basulto (2017). "Kungani ukuncelisa izingane ezingaphezulu konyaka owodwa ibele akuyona imfashini". We bafowethu.
Bekuhlale kunceliswa kuqala
Umuntu uguqukele ekusindeni nasekuphikiseni amasiko, uzihlubukile yena futhi wamelana nohlelo, wazulazula ngokuhamba kwezincwadi kanye nemibuso yezepolitiki, waqoqa futhi wazingela, wadonsa izintambo zomnotho, njll. ukusinda kwakhe kwaqinisekiswa ngokuncelisa.
Kamuva kusungulwe ubisi lwefomula lwalezo zingane ezingakwazi ukondliwa ngobisi lwebele ngenxa yezinkinga zempilo. Kepha kuqala njalo kwakukhona munye ukuncelisa, futhi a kancane kancane iba ngenxa yokudla okuqinile okuwele esifubeni sikanina noma kuhlume phansi.
Ilungelo lengane ukuncelisa
Ingane inayo ilungelo lokunceliswa ibele inqobo nje uma yena nomama wakhe befuna. Uzoqeda nini ukuncelisa akusona isinqumo esihambisana nenkampani, ukuphika ukubuyisana noma ukubeka izithiyo kuye noma kumsebenzi wobungcweti kamama ngoba efuna ukuncelisa ingane yakhe ibele.
Futhi akusona lesi sinqumo okufanele sihambisane nobukhokho lokho kujezisa izingane ngokulumula okungazelelwe nokungahloniphi ngoba omama bazo bathathe isinqumo sokuhlukana. Kunemibuso yokuvakasha ehlonipha isigqi semvelo sokuvela kwezinsana.
ISpain, ngokwengxenye yayo, inganweba ikhefu lokubeletha noma ilawule umsebenzi wenkampani ukuze kunikezwe ithuba langempela lokubuyisana. Ngempela, ngaphandle kokulimaza impilo yobungcweti kamama. Ukuncelisa ibele kumele kuvikelwe.
«I-tit ayikhokhelwa»
Kusho U-Esther Massó, engqungqutheleni yeXV UFedalma 2018, ezinsukwini ezimbalwa ezedlule, lokho "I-tit imahhala, isono sonxiwankulu". Ngempela futhi ngeshwa, kunjalo. Akuhambelani emphakathini wethu lokho ukudla okungcono kakhulu kwezingane zethu kumahhala futhi ngaphezu kwalokho kunganwetshwa kakhulu ngesikhathi.
Ngakho-ke, kuyadingeka ukudala ubisi lokuqhubeka, olunamalebula anemibala nezincomo, isiko lezinganekwane ezingamanga mayelana nokwengezwa kwesikhathi sokuncelisa ibele, njll. Ngoba ingane encela ibele engadli ukudla "kwengane", ephuza ubisi lwebele futhi kancane kancane yethula okuqinile, ayidli futhi, ngakho-ke, imele ukulahleka kwemali engenayo ngohlelo lwethu longxiwankulu.
Ukuncelisa ibele kumahhala, kodwa futhi es esimeme. Ukudla okungcono kakhulu kwezingane zethu ivikela imvelo ngokukhipha uchungechunge lokukhiqizwa kokudla okungadingekile ebuntwaneni.
Impilo yomzimba nengokomzwelo
Izinzuzo zempilo yomzimba yengane ziningi futhi ziyaqashelwa wumphakathi wonke wesayensi; bayakugcizelela lokho iqukethe zonke izakhamzimba ezidingekayo ukuze ikhule futhi yini enakho izinzuzo zamasosha akho omzimba, ukuyivikela ezifweni.
Kuzuzisa nempilo yakho engokomzwelo. Ngokuncelisa ibele, i- Ubuhlobo phakathi kwengane nomama buyaqina: ingane izizwa ivikelekile esifudumele sesifuba sikanina, kuthi esifubeni yehlise umoya, ilale, izwe ukushaya kukanina njengalapho yayisesibelethweni sayo futhi ifane nokuphefumula kwayo nokwayo, njll. Isihloko uthando.
Bangaki omama abazizwa bephonswa inselelo ngokuncelisa izingane zabo ibele ngoba sezivele zihamba? Mangaki amaphampu obisi endlini yokugezela emsebenzini? Noma bangaki abacwaswa ngokomsebenzi ngoba becela ukuthi bakwazi ukuvumelanisa impilo yobuzali nempilo yokusebenza? Bangaki abalwayo ngoba ukwehlukaniswa kwesikhathi ezimeni zokwehlukana kuyakuhlonipha ukunceliswa kwezingane zabo?
Konke Silwela ukuncelisa izingane zethu ibele, silwela ilungelo lazo lokunceliswa, impilo yazo engokomzimba nengokomzwelo.