Izinkimbinkimbi kumuntu zinzima ukuzilawula futhi azihlali zenzeka lapho esekhulile. Izingane eziningi zibonisa lolu hlobo lokuziphatha kusukela zisencane, ukuntula ukuzethemba, ukuzethemba okuphansi, ukubhekana nezimo eziyinkimbinkimbi esikoleni nezinye izingane, yizimo ezingenza ingane izicabangele.
Lokhu kwenzeka eminyakeni ethile lapho izingane ziqala ukuzazi. Lokhu ngokuvamile kwenzeka lapho eneminyaka eyisithupha, nakuba Khumbula ukuthi ingane ngayinye ihlukile. futhi ngaso sonke isikhathi kufanele uhloniphe isigqi salowo nalowo, ngaphandle kokuqhathanisa. Ngoba mhlawumbe ayikhathazeki, mhlawumbe idinga isikhathi esithe xaxa.
Injani ingane ezidlayo
Ukucabangela izidingo zezingane kubalulekile ekukhuleni kwazo. Kwesinye isikhathi abazali ababoni ukuthi kukhona okwenzekayo, kusetshenziswa izinsiza eziphelelwe yisikhathi njengalezo ezisetshenziselwa ukuklelisa izingane ngaphandle kokucabanga ngezidingo zabo. Ngenxa yalesi sizathu, izingane ezinezinkinga ezingokomzwelo zivame ukubizwa ngokuthi amahloni, ayinqaba, angahlali nabanye abantu kanye namanye amagama aneshwa elifanayo.
Uma kutholakala inkinga enganeni, kubalulekile ukuthola indlela yokuyixazulula ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka, okuhlanganisa nokuphendukela kusazi sokusebenza kwengqondo uma kunesidingo. Ukwenza ukwelapha akuyona into embi, kuyindlela yokunikeza izingane amathuluzi eziwadingayo ukuze zilawuleke imizwelo. Ngakho-ke, Uma unengane ezicabangelayo, kubalulekile ukufuna usizo lochwepheshe kwencane. Izinkimbinkimbi ezinganeni zivame ukwenzeka ngezizathu ezahlukahlukene futhi enye yezinkinga ezinkulu namuhla amanethiwekhi omphakathi. Ngokuvamile amasayithi angamanga lapho kuboniswa khona okungokoqobo okungajwayelekile. Lokho kwenza abafana bakholwe ukuthi impilo yakhe noma umuntu wakhe isezingeni lesibili.
I-inferiority complex
Eminyakeni ethile izingane zithola ukuthi indlela yazo yokuphila. Umuntu wakhe, umndeni wakhe noma amasiko akhe awafani nawabanye abantwana. kungaleso sikhathi baqale ukuziqhathanisa nabanye futhi i-inferiority complex ibonakala. Kwesinye isikhathi kubangwa okuthile okungokwenyama, kokunye kubangwa yilokho omunye anakho kanti omunye angenakho. Mhlawumbe kuyingxube yazo zonke izinto, okwenezelwa ukuzethemba okuphansi okwenza ingane ingakwazi ukuzazisa kahle.
Ukuthi ingane ine-complex kuwuphawu lokuthi idinga usizo, ngoba uma ingalawulwa ingaba kubi kakhulu futhi kuholela ezinkingeni ezinkulu. Izinkimbinkimbi zomzimba zihambisana nokuphazamiseka kokuziphatha ekudleni, phakathi kokunye futhi akuyona into okufanele ithathwe kancane, ngoba ayizixazululi ngokwayo. Kufanele futhi ukunakisise kakhulu ukuziphatha kwengane ezinkundleni zokuxhumana, lapho yonke into ibonakala iphelele futhi yenza izingane zibe nombono ongalungile weqiniso.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, izingane nazo zingaba yinkimbinkimbi ngenxa yezinye izizathu, njengesikole. Ezinye izingane zizizwa ziphansi kunezinye ezithola amamaki angcono, ikakhulukazi lezo ezizama kanzima kodwa zingawutholi umphumela eziwufunayo. Bese, kubalulekile ukusebenza kahle ocwaningweni wengane, ngoba maningi amathuba okuthi ingakwazi ukufunda kahle. Lokhu, ngaphezu kokumenza azizwe ephansi, kungabangela inkinga yokukhungatheka ingane engeke yazi ukuthi iphathwa kanjani.
Zonke lezi zinkinga zingaxazululwa ngokubonisana nomelaphi. Yilokho abalungiselwe kona, ukuze kuvinjwe izinkinga zezingane zibe izinkinga zabantu abadala. Gxilisa ezinganeni zakho inhlonipho kubelaphi, ungabenzi bacabange ukuthi ukuya kudokotela wengqondo kuyinto embi noma eyinqaba, ngoba ngaleyo ndlela bayothatha umbono njengento evamile. Funa usizo uma ucabanga ukuthi unengane ezicabangelayo, ngoba akujabulisi ukuzizwa ungelutho futhi ingane yakho izohlushwa ukuzizwa ngaleyo ndlela. Ngosizo oluncane kanye namathuluzi adingekayo, omncane uzofunda ukuzithanda nokuzazisa ngendlela efanele.