Lokho okubizwa ngokuthi ukweqisa kuyinkinga abantu abathile ababhekana nayo lapho bezizwa bengaphansi kwabanye. Isakhiwo esiphansi sivame ukwenzeka ebuntwaneni futhi uma ingelashwa ngesikhathi, ingaba nomthelela omubi ekukhuleni kwe- ingane.
Ingane enokuxakaniseka okuphansi ube nezinkinga ezinkulu uma kukhulunywa ngokuphathelene nabanye nokuqhubekela phambili ngezifundo zabo. Esihlokweni esilandelayo sizokhuluma ngezimbangela eziyinhloko zale nkinga nangendlela engcono yokuyelapha.
Inkinga ephansi ezinganeni
Ngesikhathi sobuntwana, izingane zidinga inani elithile lothando nothando kubazali bazo.. Lolu thando lukunika ukuphepha nokuzethemba. Ngale ndlela bayakwazi ukukhula ngendlela enempilo futhi bathuthukise wonke amakhono abo. Kwezinye izimo, imvelo yomndeni ayiyona efiselekayo noma eyanele, okuholela ekubalukeni okungenhla okukhulunywe ngakho enganeni, okunomthelela omubi empilweni yabo yansuku zonke. Kunezici noma imicimbi eminingi engaholela ekutheni ingane ikhule ibe yinkimbinkimbi enjalo:
- Thola imfundo enegunya.
- Ukuvikelwa ngokweqile ngabazali, okuzokhiqiza ukuncika okukhulu ngayo yonke indlela.
- Unohlobo oluthile lokukhubazeka kungaba ngokomzimba noma ngengqondo.
- Ukukhulela emndenini ongafanele futhi lapho kutholakala khona uchungechunge lwamagugu abaluleke kangako njengokuhlonipha noma ukwethemba.
Izimpawu zobunzima bokuphansi
Kunezimpawu eziningi ezingakhombisa ukuthi ingane inenkinga yokuphansi:
- Ukuntuleka okucacile nokusobala kokuzethemba.
- Ubuntu obungenile namahloni, kuvimbela amandla abo okuxhumana nabanye.
- Ukuzethemba okuphansi, okunomthelela omubi esikoleni nasemvelweni yezenhlalo.
- Ubunzima obukhulu ekwenzeni izinqumo.
- Ukwesaba ukuthi kungenzeka wenze amaphutha amaningi.
- Akuboni ukufaneleka kanye nempumelelo etholakele.
Uma ingane ihlushwa ezinye zalezi zimpawu, kungenzeka ukuthi inenkinga enkulu yokungabi namandla, okwenza kube nzima ukukhula kahle kwayo. Inkinga ngobunzima baphansi ukuthi uma ingelashwa ngesikhathi, kungahamba nomuntu impilo yakhe yonke nazo zonke izinto ezimbi ezibandakanya lokhu.
Ungayiphatha kanjani into ephansi enzima ezinganeni
Uma abazali benokusola okukhulu ukuthi ingane yabo inenkinga yokungabi namandla, kubalulekile ukuyiyisa kusazi sezengqondo sezingane esaziyo ukuthi kufanele siyiphathe kanjani. Uchwepheshe omuhle kulo mkhakha ubalulekile lapho ingane inganqoba le nkinga enkulu engaholela emiphumeleni emibi ngokuzayo. Ngaphandle kwalokhu, abazali nothisha kumele balandele uchungechunge lwemihlahlandlela esiza ingane ukunqoba ubunzima obunje:
- Kuhle ukuthi uzihalalisele ngokuqinisekile impumelelo nezinjongo ezifinyelelwe yi umfana.
- Imisebenzi yeqembu kufanele ikhuthazwe ukuthuthukisa amakhono akho kwezenhlalo.
- Amaphutha enziwe ngumuntu osemncane akufanele abhekwe njengento embi futhi Yebo, njengethuba elihle lokufunda.
- Ungenzi alukho uhlobo lokuqhathanisa engenayo enye ingane.
- Abazali nothisha akufanele bafune nengane ehlushwa yinkimbinkimbi.
- Ingane kufanele isizwe ukuveza imizwa nemizwa yayo.
Kungani kubalulekile ukuphatha ukwedelela okuyinkimbinkimbi
- Isakhiwo esiphansi sivame ukwenzeka ebuntwaneni futhi Uma ingelashwa ngesikhathi, ingahamba nomuntu omdala impilo yakhe yonke, okuholela ekungavikelekeni nasekuzethembeni okuzokuthinta kabi impilo yakho yonke.
- Kungakho iqiniso lokuthi ingane inenkinga enjalo nabazali besusa insimbi kulolu daba lingabukelwa phansi. Kufanele ufune usizo kochwepheshe ozovumela ingane ukuthi ixazulule inkinga enjalo.