Ngemuva kwesibhicongo eGaza ngesonto eledlule, ngazibuza kwenzekani ezinganeni zethu lapho zibona izithombe ezinjalo ezidabukisayo. Futhi akusona ukuphela kwesimo lapho ngenza khona lokhu kucabanga: izinhlekelele zemvelo, ukudubula esikoleni, umlilo esakhiweni, ukuphahlazeka kwendiza, njll.
Ikhanda elincane elihlelelwe kanjani ukushesha nokuzijabulisa lithathe izithombe zokufa nokubhujiswa? Singakugwema kanjani futhi / noma sinciphise umthelela? Eqinisweni, izingane zethu zivezwa inani elikhulu lezinto ezingafanele ezingaphazamisa ukukhula okunempilo. Uzongitshela ukuthi akukho okunye okumele ukwenze: ukuthi bahlala kulo mhlaba nokuthi sifuna noma cha ukuthola ukuthi kwenzekani kuwo.
Kodwa-ke, umndeni uyisithiyo sokugcina sokuvikeleka, ngoba ngaphakathi kwawo ubudlelwane obusekelwe othandweni nokwethembana buyasungulwa, ngoba ngenxa yalokho amanani amahle angadluliselwa, futhi futhi ngoba evela emndenini angakwazi futhi kufanele abe khombisa izinyathelo ukuze ubuntwana bezingane bufane ngangokunokwenzeka nendawo enomlingo nethemba… Okungenani ngesikhathi sokwazi "njengasebuntwaneni."
Ngokwe-American Academy of Pediatrics, noma ngubani owenza umsebenzi wokufundisa nezingane kumele ikwazi ukuhlunga imininingwane ukuze izingane zikwazi ukumumatha, zivumelane nezimo futhi zibhekane nezimo ezahlukahlukene. Izimo ezizoba seduze noma ezikude, kepha lokho ngokungangabazeki zizobathinta lapho besebancane kakhulu ngoba ngemuva kokuzibona kunokwesaba, ukungabaza okungalungisiwe nokungaqiniseki.
Singaminyaka emingaki lapho singavumela abancane ukuba bazichaye ngolwazi ngezinhlekelele?
Ukubheka ukuthi kuze kufike ebusheni ngeke babe nokucabanga okungaqondakali, futhi bazivumelanise nalokho ukukhula kwemvelo komuntu okuyikho eminyakeni yokuqala yokuphila, izingane zethu kufanele ziqhelelene (futhi ngenxa yalokho zikhululeke) ezithombeni nokuqukethwe okungenathemba.
Kepha lelo akusilo iqiniso lethu, ngakho-ke okungenani, masigweme ukubuka izindaba uma zingaphansi kweminyaka engu-7/8 ubudala, futhi sikhawulele okuqukethwe ifinyelelwe nge-Intanethi. Kungumsebenzi wethu, ngoba ngokwazi noma okuncane, inhloso enkulu yomama nobaba (ngaphezu kokukhathalela) yilokho bakhule bephilile, bejabule futhi bekhululekile, futhi bakhela ikusasa labo lokuba ngabantu abadala esikhathini esizayo kulezi zinsika.
Kulezi zinsuku kunezindlela eziningi kakhulu zokwazi okwenzekayo emhlabeni, okuthi kithina akufanele kube yinkinga ukucisha ithelevishini noma ukuqeda izinqamuleli zeziteshi zolwazi ezihlelwe kudeskithophu ye-smartphone yethu. Sizohlala sinomzuzu wokusondela eqinisweni: ngaphambi kokuba bavuke, ngemuva kokulala, engxenyeni yamahhala yehora ngemuva kokubashiya esikoleni, ngesikhathi sekhofi, njll.
Ngibatshelani futhi ngithula ini?
Futhi ngaphezu kwalowo mbuzo, ukuthi 'kanjani' kubalulekile, futhi ngalokho nganoma yisiphi isikhathi (khumbula ukuthi empeleni kunempilo ukugwema la maqiniso uma besebancane kakhulu) Into yokuqala ukubabuza «uzwe ini? Yini abayibonile?. Akukhathalekile ukuthi bazibonile yini izindaba ngenkathi useduze kwabo, okubalulekile umbono noma ukutolikwa kwengane.
Lokho kungukuthi uma bebuza, futhi singasungula inkhulumomphendvulwano enemininingwane eyisisekelo, futhi sigweme ukunikeza imininingwane eminingi kakhulu. Umuntu onakekela ingane kumele aqotho (angafihli kodwa angakhulumi kabi) futhi akhulume ngomoya ophansi, okubandakanya ukubalula (uma kunjalo) ukuthi indawo yemicimbi ikude kakhulu, yize lokho akusho ukuthi 'asikhathazekile'.
Kusukela eminyakeni eyi-10, kuyalulekwa futhi ukubakhuthaza ukuthi babuze futhi babuze imibuzo, futhi khuthaza ukucabanga okunzulu, ikakhulukazi uma kukhulunywa ngezinhlekelele zomhlaba wonke, noma izenzo ezikhuthazwa imibono ethile yezombangazwe noma yezenkolo. Kule minyaka kufanele singabi yizikhombisi-ndlela, ngoba izingane zingabantu abancane abazimele kithina, futhi ukuze bakwazi ukuveza umbono wabo ngokuzayo, manje yisikhathi sokuyiqinisekisa nokuyihlonipha, futhi sikhombise nokuthi siyini amanani ethu.