Nesithukuthezi ekhaya? Ngeke kusaba njalo! "Ukusinda" ngamaholide ehlobo ngempumelelo kanye nomndeni kungenzeka. Ukhiye ukulinganisile, ekwazini ukuvumelanisa isikhathi sokuphumula nezibopho. Ngaphezu kwalokho, akumele sikhohlwe okuthile okubalulekile: sekuyisikhathi sokuthi sabelane ngendlela eyakhayo ukukhuthaza ukuxhumana, nokuqinisa ubudlelwano nezingane zethu.
Kusuka ku Isikhungo Esiphezulu Sezifundo Zengqondo (ISEP) Basitshela ukuthi ihlobo njalo yisikhathi esihle sokufunda ukuhlala ndawonye, yisikhathi sokuhleka, ukuxhumana nokujabulela izikhathi ezisezingeni. Kodwa-ke, amaholide nabancane asinikeza izinto eziningi ezengeziwe. Siyaqiniseka ukuthi le mihlahlandlela elula "yokusinda" izokusiza nsuku zonke.
Izindlela zokuphila "ehlobo elihle kakhulu" nezingane zakho
Isikhathi sokuphumula nokungcebeleka, kepha kusenemithetho
Akufanele siwele ku- iphutha ukuhlela nsuku zonke yeholide lengane ngendlela eqinile. Njengoba nje sidinga isikhathi esithile sokuphumula ukuzikhulula ezinkingeni nasekucindezelekeni, izingane nazo zifuna amandla okuphumula ngezikhathi ezinzima zesikole.
Kuyabavumela nabo, ukuthi bafunde ukwehlukanisa phakathi kwesikhathi esiyimpoqo sesikole nesikhathi sokuzilibazisa. Manje, ngabe lokhu kusho ukuthi ukuphumula kufana nokwenza lokho abakufunayo? Impela.
- Kusekhona amashejuli, abalulekile ukukwazi ukujabulela i- inhlanzeko enhle yokulala, kanye nokondla.
- Amashejuli kufanele kuvunyelwane ngawo nezingane futhi gcwaliseka: kunehora elilodwa lokuvuka, elinye lokwenza imisebenzi yasehlobo, nelinye lokulala ukuze uphumule.
- I-Las Imisebenzi yasekhaya kufanele kwenziwe ekuseni. Izincwadi zokubhalela zasehlobo, ukubuyekezwa kwalezo zihloko ezisalindelwe ukuqiniswa, kufakwa kangcono emahoreni okuqala osuku. Ngaleyo ndlela banentambama mahhala.
- Phakathi kwalawo mahora kanye naleyo mithetho esunguliwe, izingane zingaba nethuba lokuphakamisa izinguquko noma izinto ezintsha okufanele zenziwe. Gwema okokuqala "Ukuthi bazizwa benengcindezi", nokuthi ukweqiwa kwemisebenzi kugcina kudala ukukhathazeka okukhulu kunokuphila kahle.
Yimiphi imisebenzi efaneleke kakhulu ezinganeni ehlobo?
Awukho umsebenzi ophelele wawo wonke umuntu ngokulingana. Ingane ngayinye inesidingo futhi ingaphakathi komjikelezo othile wempilo, lapho izodinga ukuqinisa ezinye izici kunezinye. Ngaphezu kwalokho, umndeni ngamunye, ngaphakathi kwamathuba akheUnganikeza izingane zakho into eyodwa noma enye.
Manje, kunamaphuzu ayisisekelo esingakwazi ukuwanaka:
- Kumele sikhuthaze futhi sithuthukise enganeni i ingxenye edlalayo.
- Sebenzela ubudlelwano phakathi kwabantu kanye nabo amakhono omphakathi.
- Yiba nokunye imihlahlandlela kucace usuku nosuku, kucacisiwe futhi kuzinzile.
- Thuthukisa i- umndeni.
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Njengoba ukwazi ukubona, kuyinto eyisisekelo futhi kulula ukuyithuthukisa. Ngakho-ke lokhu akusho ukuthi umsebenzi omuhle kakhulu, ngokwesibonelo, ukubathumela ekamu lasehlobo eNgilandi ukuyofunda lolu limi.
Ngaphakathi izinsiza zethu, futhi esivumelana nabalingani bethu, futhi ngokwazi izidingo nezifiso zezingane uqobo, sizokhetha into eyodwa noma enye.
Ubuchwepheshe obuncane nomoya ovulekile ngokwengeziwe
Njengoba sesivele sazi, izingane ezisencane kakhulu zijwayele umhlaba wobuchwepheshe, amathebulethi, amakhompyutha kanye nomakhalekhukhwini.
Kubalulekile ukuthi kusukela zisencane sibafundise ukunakekela ibhalansi efanele ngalezi ziteshi zokuzijabulisa nezolwazi. Ziwusizo kakhulu usuku nosuku, futhi ngokungangabazeki zizoba ngamathuluzi omsebenzi amahle kakhulu ngokuzayo.
Manje, ngalesi sikhathi baseyizingane. Ngakho-ke, kumele balandise, badlala ukudlala ngokomzimba, bengaphandle, basebenzise, bezwe, bahleke, bawe, babhukude futhi bathuthukise amakhono abo okuxhumana nabantu.
Nika amandla wonke lawa masayizi. Ngokushesha nje lapho ubabona benesithukuthezi ekhaya, ungenzi iphutha ngokuvumela vula induduzo yakho. Manje yisikhathi sokuphumela ngaphandle, ukuhlela okuthile!
Isikhathi sokutholwa, izikhathi zemithwalo yemfanelo emisha
Ihlobo yisikhathi esihle sokuthola izintshisekelo ezintsha. Yize kuliqiniso ukuthi kumele "baxazulule" ulwazi oluyisisekelo nolwezinsimbi njengokufunda, ukubhala kanye nezibalo, amaholidi nawo asiza kakhulu ekuvuseleleni izici ezintsha nezinselele kuzo.
Kufanele kube yibo abahlola okungabathakazelisa, kepha nguwe okufanele ubaqondise, ongakwenza ikunikeze izikhuthazi ezintsha. Menze abe nentshisekelo ngomculo ngokwesibonelo Mkhombise ukuthi ikuphi izinkanyezi nokuthi yiziphi izinkanyezi ezakha isibhakabhaka.
Yihambise kumamyuziyamu, emaphoyiseni, ubenze babe nentshisekelo ngezinto, ukuthi bazama, bazizwe, basebenzise futhi bajabule. Imizwelo idala umkhondo futhi iyizisusa zakusasa.
Futhi unganqikazi ukunikeza izibopho ezintsha enganeni. Isikhathi sasehlobo yisikhathi esihle sokubanikeza ukuzethemba nokukhulisa ukuzethemba kwabo ngokusikisela imvume, nayo ehlotshaniswa nesibopho: “ungadlala isigamu sehora nabangane bakho uma unakekela ukuya ubathenge ngosuku ogogo nomkhulu ".
5. Yenza izinto ndawonye futhi ngokwehlukana
Uma unesikhathi seholide emsebenzini, sisebenzise ngokunenzuzo nezingane zakho zenza izinto ezintsha. Konke ukwabiwa kwesikhathi kuqinisa isibopho, kepha njengoba wazi, kufanele "kube yisikhathi sekhwalithi."
Gwema ingcindezi, noma isibonelo, unswinyo lwemiphumela emibi yezifundo. Leyo ngxoxo isivele yenzeka ngaleso sikhathi ekupheleni kwesifundo, ngakho-ke manje, esikhundleni sokuthukwa, sekuyisikhathi sokusondela. Ukusekela, ukuqondisa, ukuqondisa nokwethemba.
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Ngokungeziwe kuleyo misebenzi ethuthukisa ukuhlangana kwethu, nathi kudingeka izikhathi zethu zokuzimela, futhi lokho kuhamba thina nabancane.
Njengombhangqwana, futhi niyasidinga leso sikhathi sokusondelana, ngakho-ke akwenzeki lutho uma ngempelasonto nenza indlela yokuphunyuka kancane. Ngokuqondene nezingane, kubalulekile nokuthi bazijabulele izikhathi ezincane zokuzimela, ngalezo zinsuku esemzini wabangane bakhe, isibonelo.
Konke kuqinisa ukuzethemba, ngaphezu kokuhlanganisa kakhulu isibopho somndeni, kude nezinamathiselo ezinobuthi noma ukuvikela ngokweqile. Manje-ke manje uyazi…. Bored ekhaya ehlobo? Ngeke kusaba njalo! Isikhathi sokufunda, ukuzama nokujabulela njengomndeni.