Ngoba ukukhala kuyimpendulo engokomzwelo ngesimo ukucindezeleka noma ukuhlupheka. Kumele sikunikeze ukubaluleka kokukhala ezinganeni, ngoba ziyakwenza lapho uzwe ukwesaba, intukuthelo, ubuhlungu, ukukhungatheka, ukudabuka, uma kukhulunywa, lapho bengakwazi ukuveza imizwa yabo.
Kuyiqiniso lokho kwabanye abazali kungasanganisa futhi kusenza senze amaphutha amakhulu ekuphenduleni ukukhungatheka kwethu. Lokhu kuphetha ngokuthi singanikeza impendulo embi noma cindezela ingane ngokumphika ukuthi angakhali. Kepha izikhathi eziningi awudingi ngoba kungalimaza ukuzethemba kwakho.
Kufanele uchaze ngokubaluleka kokukhala ezinganeni zakho
Ingane ihlukile, ingane enekhono elincane lokuqonda ukuziphatha okunjalo inzima nikeza isisombululo esisebenzayo nesinengqondo kule mpendulo. Ingane isivele inamandla okukwenza nezingane eziningi bacindezela ukukhala kwabo. Abaningi babo bahoxa futhi bathukuthele, abakuvezi ukukhungatheka kwabo futhi bangaholela esikhathini eside kuya isimilo esingesihle nesingenampilo.
Ngakho-ke, kubaluleke kakhulu lokho Ukukhala kungafundisa kakhulu. Izingane zigxila ekucindezelekeni ngaleli khono futhi kuyiqiniso ukuthi njengoba zikhula, abafana sebevele bakhale kakhulu kunamantombazane. Lolu lwazi lubalulekile ngoba babhekene nokuziphatha okufundiwe kakade.
Lapho bekhala kufanele ukuqonde lokho basize ukuhambisa ukungakhululeki kwabo, ukubenza bakhale kubenza bakhiphe leyo ngcindezi emzimbeni wabo futhi zisenza siyiqonde kangcono leyo ndlela.
Ukukhala kusiza ukukhulula ingqondo yakho futhi uzizwe ingcindezi encane yokukhungatheka, kuzobasiza bazizwe bekhululeke ngokwengeziwe ngokomzimba ngoba bahumusha ngokunengqondo imizwa yabo, uzothola ukulingana kwengqondo.
Kubalulekile ukuthi ungazamukeli lezi zimilo
Siphethe ngokuthi ukubaluleka kokukhala ezinganeni, ukuthi lapho uzizwa ungaphatheki kahle akudingeki ucindezele imizwa yakho ukuze imiphumela ingaholeli kuyo izinkinga zempilo yengqondo isibonelo ulaka. Ngakho-ke kulula zama ukungasho , “Ungakhali” noma “kufanele ube nesibindi kakhulu”,… ngoba sicindezela imizwa yabo futhi ingane idinga leyo ndlela yokuphunyuka. Ukukhala kuyindlela yemvelo okufanele wonke umuntu ayisebenzise.
Cha akufanele sisebenzise imishwana kanjani "ungenzi ihaba" noma "abafana abakhale" Sifundisa futhi ukuthi ukukhala kubi. Lapha bacindezela imizwa yabo futhi bona kumele bafunde ukudedela. Ngendlela efanayo, inkulumo ethi "abafana abakhali" iphinde inikeze isisombululo ekufundiseni ukuthi izingane akudingeki zikhale, lapho kuyinto ejwayelekile. Abafana, amantombazane ngisho nabantu abadala bayakhala futhi akekho umuntu ocwaswa ngenxa yocansi.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi ukukhala ngaphandle kwenduduzo nayo ayiyilungele impilo yakho. Ngiyazi ukuthi kuyindaba ephikisanayo. Kuhle ukuthi ukhale umzuzwana ukudedela lowo mzuzu wokuxineka, kodwa uma ukukhala kwakho kuqhubeka kakhulu kufanele kubekhona. Akukuhle ukumyeka akhale akhale kuze kube ukukhathala kwakhe. Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi kungaholela ekuphefumuleni kancane kwegazi ebuchosheni bakho noma kungadala ukopha ebuchosheni ngezigcawu ezahlukahlukene.
Akhale nengane nayo kukwenza kungabi nempilo ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, kungadala ingane ukuthi ikhathazeke kakhulu noma ingabambisani kakhulu nalokho okuchazwa ukuthi kulimele ikhono lakho lokuxhumana nabanye. Kubalulekile ukwazi ukuthi ungahlukanisa kanjani ukuthi akufani ukuya kuye ukhala ukuze unikeze konke akufunayo ngokuphelele.