El isihloko of the izidakamizwa ukuyigxila ku ingane, kuyinto yinkimbinkimbi, kodwa kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi bazi, ngoba akufanele silinde baze babe yintsha ukuze bajwayelane nalokhu isihloko esibucayi. Lapho ingane ifuna ukwazi nganoma yisiphi isihloko, uma abadala abaseceleni kwabo bengabaniki ukuzethemba okudingekayo, bazobheka izimpendulo kwenye indawo, lapho benganikeza khona impendulo engalungile noma bachazwe kahle ngendlela abazali abakwazi ngayo yenza. Kungcono ukwazisa ingane ngalezi zinkinga ngokushesha okukhulu, ngisho kusukela eminyakeni yobudala yasenkulisa (iminyaka emi-3 kuye kwengu-6). Awudingi inkulumo enesicefe ongeke ukwazi ukuyiqonda, kepha ukumane ulungiselele indlela yolunye ulwazi olukhulu ozodinga ukulazi kamuva, okokuqala, kufanele ubeke izisekelo zokuzethemba kwakho.
Ithuba kungaba lapho egula bese bemnika umuthi othile. Lesi kungaba yisimo esikahle kuso, isibonelo esihle kakhulu sokubakhombisa ukuthi yimiphi imithi engabangela ukulingana okufanele noma ngobuningi behaba.
Indlela enhle yokubafundisa ngezindaba zezempilo ukuthi basiphelekezele ukuvakashela isiguli esaziwayo, izinsizakalo zomphakathi ... ngale ndlela, ingane izozibonela yona uqobo bese izenzela iziphetho.
Izingane ziqaphelisisa futhi ngezingqwembe, zingafundiswa, isibonelo, lezo zomkhankaso wokulwa nogwayi. Lesi yisimiso sokukhuluma ngezidakamizwa.