Amaholide e-Easter yizinsuku ezikhethekile futhi ezibaluleke kakhulu kubantu abaningi. Ikakhulukazi lapho sisanda kushonelwa umuntu esimthandayo, izinhliziyo zethu ziyajabula lapho kukhulunywa ngoDisemba. Kodwa-ke, futhi sezinsukwini ezigcwele imizwa emihle nokuhlangana kabusha nomndeni nabangane ebesikade singakuboni isikhathi eside.
Mhlawumbe usanda kulahlekelwa ngoKhisimusi, uzithola ungazi ukuthi wenzeni. Ngakho-ke, kusuka Madres Hoy Sifuna ukukusiza ukuthi ubhekane nakho futhi ujabulele umndeni wakho njengakuqala.
Ungabhekana kanjani nokulahlekelwa ngoKhisimusi futhi ujabulele umndeni?
Sisezinsukwini ezithile ezingaba zinhle kakhulu, kepha futhi zisilethele izinkumbulo ezibabayo. Impela, ngomthetho wempilo, ukulahlekelwa kokuqala esinakho ngokomkhulu nogogo. Labo bantu esibathandayo abasipha lonke uthando nobumnene kusukela sisebancane, esasigubha nabo uKhisimusi endlini yabo futhi namhlanje abekho. Kulezi zinsuku kuvamile kulokho okwaziwa ngokuthi yi- isihlalo esingenalutho syndrome.
Yini engingayenza ukubhekana nayo?
Ngaphandle kokungabaza, ukulahlekelwa okubuhlungu kakhulu yilabo esibathandayo abancane kunabo bonke. Kulungile ukukhala ngokulahlekelwa nokukhala, ukucindezela yonke leyo ntaba-mlilo yemizwelo akusisizi ngalutho empilweni yethu. Ngaphandle kokuthambekela esinakho kokugwema le ndaba futhi singakhulumi ngomuntu ongasenathi, okuphambene nalokho abanye abantu abakucabangayo, kuyaqinisa kakhulu futhi kuyaphilisa ukukhuluma ngalowo muntu lapho sinomndeni nabangane. Ukukhumbula izikhathi ezimnandi nama-anecdotes owasebenzise ndawonye nalowo muntu, uzohlala uphuthelwa ukuhleka okungajwayelekile. Ngoba noma engasekho, ungahlala unenkumbulo yakhe futhi ubonge izikhathi ezimnandi lapho ukwazile ukuhlala ndawonye naloyo muntu okhethekile.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, ungacabanga ngento encane kunazo zonke endlini. Izingane zikhombisa umdlandla omkhulu ngalesi sikhathi futhi zigcwele injabulo nomdlandla. Abawafanele amaholide ukuba baphenduke imizwelo engemihle futhi edabukisayo, ngoba abaqondi ukuthi kwenzekani. Sithemba ukuthi lokhu okuthunyelwe kube wusizo kuwe. Ukugona okuvela eqenjini Madres Hoy.