Ulimi nendlela khuluma yabazali endaweni yomndeni, kuzoba nomthelela oqondile ekukhuleni kwezingane. Ulimi olusetshenziswa nsuku zonke lunomthelela ezinganeni ngoba zivame ukuthola imikhuba lokho ezikubona kubazali bazo, kungaba kuhle noma kubi. Kungakho kubalulekile ukusebenzisa isilulumagama nolimi oluhle kakhulu lapho uphambi kwabancane endlini.
Ngale ndlela, izingane zizofunda ukuphatha isilulumagama esifanele futhi ukuyisebenzisa ngendlela engcono kakhulu. Esihlokweni esilandelayo sikunikeza uchungechunge lwezinkomba ukuze ulimi olusetshenziswa ngabazali lube ngcono kakhulu ezinganeni zabo.
Ukubaluleka kolimi lwabazali ezinganeni zabo
Okwamanje lapho ingane encane ifunda ukukhuluma, ulimi lwayo luzoqondana ngqo nalokho oluzwa nsuku zonke endaweni eseduze kakhulu. Indlela nendlela yokukhuluma kuyinkomba yokuthi kukhulunywa kanjani endlini. Kungakho kubalulekile ukuthi abazali balusebenzise kahle ulimi nolwazimagama nsuku zonke.
Abazali bayizibonelo ezinganeni zabo, yingakho kubaluleke kakhulu ukusebenzisa ulimi olufanele nolufanele. Ulimi olusetshenziswa ngabazali kufanele luhlale luhle futhi lususelwa kunkuthazo. Ngale ndlela, izingane zizosebenzisa uhlobo lwesilulumagama olususelwa ku-positivism, into ebalulekile lapho ubhekene nosuku nosuku.
Okufanele abazali bakugweme lapho bekhuluma
Lapho bekhuluma, abazali kufanele bagweme izinhlobo ezimbili zokuziphatha:
- Izingane akufanele zibone ulimi olubi nolungenathemba nganoma yisiphi isikhathi. Ukusho ngawo wonke amahora ukuthi impilo ayinabo ubulungiswa futhi igcwele izinkinga kuzodala ukuthi abancane balwe kanzima futhi bangenzi mzamo uma kukhulunywa ngokufeza izinhloso zabo.
- Abazali akufanele basebenzise ulimi ukugxeka abanye abantu. Kubalulekile ukugxilisa kubo izindinganiso ezisuselwa ekubekezeleleni nasekuhlonipheni abanye. Izingane akufanele zibone abazali bazo begxeka ngaso sonke isikhathi ngoba kuyinto okungafanele bayithole njengenjwayelo empilweni yabo yansuku zonke.
Okufanele kugcizelelwe ngabazali maqondana nolimi olusetshenzisiwe
- Ngokuphathelene nolimi, abazali akufanele bathathwe yimizwa ngaphansi kwanoma yiziphi izimo. Izingane akufanele zibone abazali bazo bethukuthele noma becasukile.
- Uma kwenziwa noma yiluphi uhlobo lokugxekwa, kufanele luhlale lwakha. Ukungavunyelwa komunye umuntu kuyilimaza ngqo ingane.
- Uma kwenzeka ukuthi ingane yenze into engalungile, gxila kokubi eyikwenzile futhi ugweme ukusola ingane uqobo. Ukugxekwa kwezingane akulutho futhi akulungisiswa.
- Ingane akufanele yahlulelwe ngaphambi kokuba izwakale kuqala. Kubalulekile ukuyivumela ukuthi ivezwe futhi ichazwe bese kusuka lapho yenze ngendlela enhle kunazo zonke.
- Ulimi nolwazimagama kufanele kusetshenziswe njalo njengokuqinisa okuhle maqondana nokuziphatha kwengane. Lokhu kubalulekile uma kukhulunywa ngokwenza ingane ikholelwe kuye nokufeza izinhloso ezifunwayo.
Ngamafuphi, ulimi olusetshenziswa abazali ezimpilweni zabo zansuku zonke luzoba nomthelela oqondile ekuziphatheni nasekuthuthukisweni kwezingane zabo. Ulimi olusetshenzisiwe lubalulekile uma kukhulunywa ngokudlulisa uchungechunge lwamanani avumelekile nsuku zonke, njengokuhlonipha, ukugqugquzela noma ukubekezela. Kungakho abazali belulekwa ukuthi balunakekele ulimi lwabo lapho bephambi kwezingane zabo.