Kwesinye isikhathi, ngokuzimisela kwethu okuhle, abazali bavikela ngokweqile izingane. Lokhu kunochungechunge lwemiphumela kubo ekukhuleni kwabo ngokomzwelo nangokwengqondo, abazokuhudulela ebudaleni babo. Yingakho kulula ukwazi ukuthi imingcele ikuphi, iyini imiphumela yalokho ukuvikela izingane ngokweqile nokuthi ungakugwema kanjani. Namuhla sikhuluma ngalesi sihloko esithakazelisayo.
Ukuzivikela ngokweqile
Hay izizathu ezahlukahlukene ngemuva ukuvikela izingane ngokweqile. Kungenzeka sesabe ukuthi uzobhekana nezinkinga zomhlaba, isifiso sokufuna ukuphelela, afune ukugwema izinkinga ebesinazo noma ngoba sikholwa ukuthi senza impilo ibe lula kuye. Lokhu kuholela ekubeni abazali abaningi bazame ukulindela izidingo nezidingo zezingane zethu, ngaphambi kokuba zenzeke, noma ukuqeda noma ukuxazulula noma iyiphi inkinga noma ukuphazamiseka okubonakala kubangela ukuthi izingane zingakwazi ukufinyelela kumathuluzi okuziphathela wona. Iqiniso ukuthi nge Lokhu kuziphatha kulimaza kakhulu kunokulungela izingane zethu.
Umsebenzi wethu njengabazali ukubathanda futhi sibanikeze lonke uthando lwethu, ukuze izingane zethu zingabi nokushoda ngokomzwelo. Uma kukhulunywa ngezinkinga okuzodingeka ubhekane nazo empilweni, ngeshwa asikwazi ukuzigwema zonke noma ukufaka igwebu kuzo ukuze sizivikele kubo bonke ububi. Kuzofanele babhekane nabo, ngakho-ke kumele sibanikeze amathuluzi adingekayo ukwenza lokho esikhundleni sokubasusa. Ngale ndlela uzoba nokuthuthuka okunempilo, uzokwazi ukuthi ubhekane kanjani nempilo futhi nezinga lakho lokukhungatheka ngeke liphansi kangako.
Imiphumela yezingane ezivikela ngokweqile
Njengoba sibonile ngaphambili, lapho sizama ukunciphisa izinkinga ezingase zibhekane nezingane, Sibaphuca amakhono namathuluzi okuzokwazi ukuwaxazulula bebodwa, kubavimbela ukukhula emoyeni, bazoncika kakhulu kwabanye abantu, ukuzethemba okuphansi, izinga eliphansi lokukhungatheka, ukuzethemba okuphansi, ukwehluleka ukuxazulula izinkinga ...
Ekugcineni, kuzoba njalo umuntu obuthakathaka futhi ongavuthiwe, onamandla futhi othembekile. Ngayo yonke le miphumela ukucabanga ngokujulile ukuthi hlobo luni lwekusasa esifuna ukulunika izingane zethu. Lapho bangakwazi khona ukubhekana kahle nempilo, noma okunye lapho behlangabezana namashwa amaningi ngokungabi namathuluzi adingekayo.
Abazali bezindiza ezinophephela emhlane
Abazali bezindiza ezinophephela emhlane babizwa kanjalo abazali abavikelayo abahamba ngezimpilo zezingane zabo, kulindwe ukubhekelela zonke izidingo zakho nezifiso zakho. Kuyisitayela sabazali esivame kakhulu e-United States, futhi lokho kubonakala kaningi ezweni lethu.
Izingane zabazali bezindiza ezinophephela emhlane babe nezinga eliphakeme lokukhathazeka, ingcindezi, ukudangala, ukunganeliseki ngempilo, kanye nomuzwa ophansi wokulondeka nokusebenza ngempumelelo. Bazizwa bengenakukwazi ukuzilawula futhi bengazi ukuthi bangazithatha kanjani izinqumo ezibalulekile. Unale miphumela engqondweni, sekuyisikhathi sokubuyekeza isitayela sethu semfundo. Yeka ukudlulisa ukwesaba kwethu, ukubenza bakholelwe ukuthi ngemuva kwawo wonke amakhona kunengozi ebazungezile. Ukwenza lokho ngukubafundisa ukuthi baphile ngokungavikeleki nokwesaba, bakholelwe ukuthi umhlaba unobutha okufanele bacashe kuwo.
Se angaba nesitayela semfundo esinempilo nesinempilo, futhi abeke imikhawulo ngasikhathi sinye. Akunasidingo sokuyekelela noma ukunganaki emfundweni ukuze izingane zithole lamakhono. Kube nokulinganisela phakathi kokuba ngumzali okhona, onothando, onakekelayo kanye shiya isikhala sabo ukuze bathuthuke njengabantu abazimele ukuthi bayoba usuku olulodwa. Ngenkathi singahamba nabo kule nqubo, ngaphandle kokususa izithiyo ezivelayo futhi esikhundleni salokho sibasize bathole izixazululo. Kuyohlale kunezinkinga empilweni, asikwazi ukuziqeda kepha singazifundisa ukubhekana nazo ngempumelelo.
Kungani ukhumbula ... namuhla kubukeka sengathi kunezingozi eziningi kunakuqala, futhi kungaholela ekutheni sizivikele ngokweqile izingane zethu. Kufanele sithole imikhawulo phakathi kokubasiza nokubabambezela ekukhuleni kwabo. Ukuthi esikhundleni sokubasiza siyabalimaza.