Izingane azidingi ukufundiswa ukudla, ukuhamba, noma ukulala, ngoba zingafunda ukukwenza ngaphandle kosizo; Mhlawumbe ungadla nengane yakho ukubona ukuthi isipuni sigcinwa kanjani, noma ukusungula izindlela zangokuhlwa ezenza kube lula ukulala noma uyibambe ngezandla ngenkathi ithatha izinyathelo zayo zokuqala ... Kepha inkululeko ifika yodwa, futhi kwesinye isikhathi ize isibambe singazelele, njengoba ngisho, lapho omama nobaba sebezokwazi konke mayelana nobuntwana, sekuyisikhathi sokuthi bashiye ikhaya 😉; Kepha masingasheshi, ngoba manje sizokhuluma ngezinyathelo zayo zokuqala.
Uma ubheka kahle, izingxoxo phakathi kwabazali bezingane ezineminyaka efanayo zigcwele ama-nuances, kepha iningi labo abalingiswa abaphambili yilabo abancane abaphendukise izimpilo zethu, futhi abasenza sibuze yonke into ebesiyiyo ngaphambili. Ngakho-ke uma sikhuluma ngokuthi baqale kanjani nokuthi baqale nini ukuhamba sizohlangana nomama oqinisekisa ukuthi ingane yakhe yathatha izinyathelo zokuqala iyodwa ezinyangeni eziyi-9, nobaba othi indodakazi yakhe ayimyekelanga yaze yaba neminyaka eyi-15. Zombili lezi zimo zivamile, noma ngabe siqhathanisa kuhlala kukhona umuntu osenkingeni, kepha lelo akulona yini iphutha lezinto ezilindelwe ngabantu abadala?
Ukuhamba okuyi-gerund.
Isinyathelo sokukhula kwengane esiza ngokushesha noma kamuva, kepha phakathi kokuthola amandla ngemuva, ukwenza ngcono ukulingana kwezitho, ukwenza izingqondo zabo nokunqoba ukwesaba kwabo ... Ochwepheshe bayavuma ukuthi akunandaba ukuthi ezinyangeni eziyi-12, 13, 14, 15 ingane ayihambi, empeleni kuze kube izinyanga eziyi-18 lapho kunconywa ukuhlolwa okuphelele uma kwenzeka ingane ingahambi. Kulezi zimo kungaba khona ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo noma ukukhula kwengqondo; Kukhona nokukhulunywa ngezinkinga zokudla okunempilo njengezimbangela, isibonelo, ngabe uyakwazi lokho i-anemia Kungathinta amakhono we-psychomotor?
Ekutholakaleni kwamakhono emoto kunezinhloso okufanele zifezekiswe, kepha ngaphandle kokubeka isikhathi, noma ukuzizwa ukhungathekile, futhi-ke, ngaphandle kokufaka ingcindezi ezinganeni. Isibonelo, kujwayelekile ukuthi ezinyangeni eziyishumi bakhase, kuthi ngo-10 bavuke bahlale endaweni emi, ukuthi baqale ukuhamba phakathi kwezinyanga eziyi-12 kuya kwezingu-12 ... Ngemuva kwesikhashana bazokwazi ukubuyela emuva (ukutholakala impela! futhi kumnandi kwabancane!) nezitebhisi ezenyukayo nezansi ezikhasa ukukhuphuka nokukhasa ukwehla 🙂.
Kuthiwani ngokungafundiswa ukuhamba?
Yebo, kusobala impela, kuya ngokuthuthuka komuntu ngamunye, Ongakwenza ukuphendula izimpawu futhi umenze abone ukuthi uyajabula ukuthi uyaguga. Uma ukuqaphela lokho ngidinga ukukhasa, ungaphikeleli ekutshaleni ukuze ikwazi ukuhamba, uma ifuna ukubambelela ukuze 'isukume' iqiniseke ukuthi iseduze nefenisha noma izinto eziphephile okufanele zenziwe ngazo, okusho ukuthi, zinesisindo esanele ukuthunjwa yisiqalo sengane Uma ihamba kodwa ingazizwa iphephile, ayisize.
Ungakhathazeki uma ewa futhi esaba ukuhamba, yiba nesineke kakhulu futhi uhlale njalo esimweni sakho sokusekela, kepha ngaphandle kokumphoqa ukuthi adlule ezigabeni zokuthuthuka. Kuzoba lula kakhulu, futhi-ke uzoyithokozela kakhulu.
Usuvele uhamba ngezinyawo! Manje yisikhathi sokufunda okwengeziwe ngokuvimbela ukulimala.
Uma behleli, bekhasa noma bekhasa bekufanele ukhase endlini ukuze uthole imithombo yokulimala noma yezingozi (amapulagi, izintambo, izinto ezincane) Manje yisikhathi sokucabanga ngokuvikela izitebhisi ukuze zingakwazi ukwehla noma ukunyuka zize zilunge ngempela.. Kufanele futhi ulungiselele ukuhlala uqaphile lapho bethatha izinyathelo zabo zokuqala bebodwa, ngoba kusukela ngosuku olulodwa kuya kolandelayo bathatha ijubane elikhulu futhi uma usemgwaqweni kunengozi yokuhamba kwezimoto noma ukulahlekelwa ukubona kothile okuncane '.
Uma behamba, bafinyelela ezindaweni eziningi futhi kungenzeka ukuthi bazokwenza ukwanda kokubi, ngokwesibonelo ukuthatha izinto ezincane ematafuleni bazifihle (okhiye, i-USB, njll.), Ukuvula nokuvala iminyango (banganyathela iminwe yabo ) ... Lokhu kumayelana nokulindela ukunyakaza kwabo, nokucabanga ukuthi ngaphezu kokuba ngumsizi, uzoba ngumondli noma umqaphi.
Iseluleko sethu ngukuthi uthathe umoya ojulile futhi ujabulele ingane yakho noma ngabe isiphi isikhathi sayo sokukhula, uma ingakahambi okwamanje kungadingeka ukuthi uyithwale ngokwengeziwe ezingalweni zakho, uma ime mpo futhi inentshisekelo yokuthatha izinyathelo, kufanele chitha isikhathi ugoba phambili ukumbamba, lapho esebona ukuthi udedela ngaphandle kosizo, uzohlanya 'umjahe. Ngiyaphinda ngithi, jabulela! Futhi khohlwa ngokuqhathanisa, ngemuva kwakho konke, ukukhula kwezingane kamuva akuhlangene nakancane lapho ziqala ukuhamba njengezingane.
Izithombe - UGustavo Devito, Indwangu ye-Chhe