Into yokuqala esingathanda ukukutshela yona ukuthi Ubuntwana nobusha akusizo nje izikhathi zokuphila, ziyimiqondo ngokwesiko, nomphakathi lapho umuntu akhula khona. Ngakho-ke kule ndatshana sizozama ukucacisa ukuthi yini umehluko phakathi kobuntwana, nobusha noma ukuthomba esimeni sethu senhlalo.
ULeon Tolstoy wabhala Ubuntwana. Ubusha incwadi ethokozisayo esiyincomayo ukuyifunda ukuze siqonde ukubaluleka kobuntwana nobunzima bentsha. Umbhali usho udinga ukugcina ingcebo yobuntwana, njengaleso sikhathi lapho injabulo ihlala khona isikhathi esiningi. Kugcizelela isidingo sokugcina leyo ngxenye yobuntwana futhi siyivikele ngazo zonke izindlela.
Umehluko "Osobala" phakathi kobuntwana nobusha
Uma sizokhomba umehluko phakathi kobusha nobuntwana, okokuqala okubonakala kusobala yiminyaka, noma okungenani iminyaka. umkhawulo weminyaka. Ngelinye ilanga umfana noma intombazane ibhekwa kanjalo, kuthi ngosuku olulandelayo lokuzalwa kwakhe angene, abhekane nabanye ebusheni. Vele, inqubo yokukhula ngokomzimba kanye nokukhula ngokomzwelo nangokwengqondo akuyona into esheshayo, kepha ukuqonda kokuvela komhlaba ozungezile.
Ngokuvamile singasho ukuthi kubhekwa njenge- isikhathi sobuntwana kusukela ekuzalweni kuye eminyakeni eyishumi nanye, Kunamasiko angafika eminyakeni eyi-7, ngakho-ke asikwazi ukukhohlwa lesi sici. Kusukela eminyakeni ebekiwe emphakathini, umfana noma intombazane uthathwa njengomuntu osemusha. Endabeni yamantombazane, uma uke wadlula esikhathini sokuthomba phambilini, uzolahlekelwa "isigaba samantombazane" kuqala.
Endabeni yabafana namantombazane, izinguquko ezenzeka ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo ziyabonakala impela. Izinguquko zangaphakathi nezangaphandle ziyamangalisa. Isimo sengqondo somuntu omncane, ebuntwaneni, siyashintsha lapho ngesinye isikhathi siqala ebusheni. Olunye lwalezi zinguquko lwenza ukungabaza ngayo yonke into abazali bakhe ababemfundise yona phambilini. Umbono wakho uyavela.
Ubuntwana, izici zalesi sigaba
Njengoba i- ubuntwana yisigaba esiqala kumuntu kusukela ekuzalweni kuya ekuthombaneni. Ngokusho kokudluliswa kwamalungelo ezingane, ingane iqondwa njengomuntu ongakafiki eminyakeni eyi-18, ngaphandle kokuthi ifinyelele eminyakeni yobudala, ngokuhambisana nezinhlinzeko zomthetho. Esimweni saseSpain, labo abaneminyaka engaphezu kwengu-16 ubudala babhekwa njengabadala ngokomthetho.
Ezinye ze izici kusukela esigabeni sobuntwana sithola:
- Ubuhlobo be-Yo-yo: Into yokuqala ingane efundayo maqondana nezwe ubuhlobo bayo be-yo-yo.
- Ubuhlobo nami-mina-abanye. Ngobudlelwano nabanye, umuzwa wokulondeka, ukuzethemba nokuzethemba kuzovela kuye.
Ngaphezu kwalokho kunefayela le- ukuthuthuka kwengqondo lokho kusho ukutholwa kolwazi namakhono okuqonda; okucacile, isuka ekukhaleni iye ezinkulumweni eziyinkimbinkimbi ngolimi. A ukuthuthukiswa kwe-sensory-psychomotor, lapho ingane ithola khona amakhono nezimfanelo zezimoto; kwezenhlalo-kwezobudlelwano, ngokutholwa kwazo zonke izinhlobo zamakhono nokuziphatha.
Ubusha, isikhathi sokulungiselela izindima zabantu abadala
Noma ngabe kubhalwe malini ngobusha, ngeke kuze kwanele, ngoba indawo yonke yalesi sigaba esibalulekile iyinkimbinkimbi kabi. Ihlobene futhi nezwe langaphandle, isimo esishintsha kakhulu futhi esingaqondakali. Noma kunjalo singachaza, Ubusha njengesikhathi sebhayoloji, somqondo, sezocansi nesenhlalo esenzeka ngemuva kobuntwana. Kuqala ngokuthomba, okwenzeka cishe eminyakeni eyishumi kuya kweyishumi nambili ubudala.
Ubusha bunezinkinga ezi-3 ezibalulekile, kwenzeka ngendlela elandelanayo. Ngamanye amagama, ezinye izici zomzimba zivela ngaphambi kwabanye. Ubulili ngabunye bunesikhathi sokuqala. Ezingeni lomzimba, umehluko owaziwa kakhulu ebuntwaneni ukwelula komuntu, ngoba amafutha omzimba anda kubo bobabili abesilisa nabesifazane, ubuso buqala ukushintsha buqale ukuthatha isimo somuntu omdala. Ukukhula kwemisipha kwenzeka.
Njengesiphetho singakusho lokho umehluko phakathi kobuntwana nobusha bungumzamo oqondile wokuzibona futhi uthole indawo yakho kulo mhlaba. Ngaphezu kwalokho kukhona ezibalulekile izinguquko ezingokomzwelo, ezinye zazo zibangelwa ama-hormone, kepha ezinye azibangelwa.