Njengoba wazi, namuhla Usuku lomndeni, okuthi yize kuvame ukuchazwa njengeqembu labantu elihlanganiswe ubudlelwano bokuzwana ngezinga elithile noma kwelinye, ingaqondakala futhi ngothando, inhlonipho nokunakekelwa. Akusizi ngalutho ukuthi kukhona labo ababheka abafowabo abangekho ngokwemvelo (noma ngokutholwa), noma kukhona omama ababa njalo ngokuthola isivumelwano nomuntu oletha izingane ebudlelwaneni, njll.
Ukuba ngumndeni the i-ejenti yokuqala neyinhloko yokuxhumana nabantu, nokuxhumana nezwe elingaphandle, izici ezicishe zingabonakali emphakathini wanamuhla zibaluleke kakhulu, njengokukhuliswa, amanethiwekhi wokuxhasa ngokwemvelo omama noma obaba; Futhi lokhu kungenxa yokuthi kusukela ebuntwaneni obunempilo nokukhula okulinganiselayo, singalindela abantu abanozwela, abazinikele emhlabeni futhi abanikezwe amandla.
Emndenini kuzalwa oyedwa noma oyedwa, noma mhlawumbe umndeni utholwa ngenqubo yokutholwa noma yokutholwa; kanye emndenini, kungaba umzali ongayedwa, noma imodeli yenuzi, futhi bangahlala ndawonye (noma okungenani abazali bahlala eduze kakhulu) namanye amalungu omndeni akhulisiwe njengogogo nomkhulu, omalume noma abazala. Ngikholwa ukuthi ubukhulu bomndeni nokuziphatha okuhle kuyasiza, futhi ngiyaqiniseka ukuthi umama okhulisa yedwa angathola ukusekelwa, mhlawumbe ngomzamo omncane.
Ukudla okunomsoco, ubudlelwano nendawo yokuhlala
Njengezinye izilwane, sifuna ukuphendula emisebenzini enjengokondleka noma ubudlelwano, umndeni uba ngumsizi. Ukudla okunomsoco nokunomsoco (okuqala ngobisi lwebele) kufanele kunikezwe izingane ukuze zikhule kahle. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, sizosebenza njengabalamuli (noma okuphambene) ebudlelwaneni nemvelo, nasekwakhiweni kwamakhono ahlukahlukene okuxoxa ngaphesheya kweqembu lomndeni.
Kepha umndeni ubuye ukhosele, njengoba kwenza impisi: uyakhosela lapho kufika ubusuku, futhi uyakhosela lapho ingane isencane kakhulu kangangokuba akadingi ukuhlangana nezinye izingane; noma lapho kunezinkinga, noma lapho kungekho mpendulo kwimizwa enamandla esihlangabezana nayo ngesikhathi sobuntwana. Hlala uvikele, njengoba izidalwa zingakwazi ukuzivikela, ezimweni ezinzima njengokuhlukaniswa wedwa epaki, nakwezinye izimo ezinzima (ukuxhashazwa, ukuphathwa kabi, njll.)
Ungalokothi ubeke eceleni ukusekelwa okuncane
Kwake kwenzeka kuwe ukuthi ucabange ukuthi 'uyawa' ngomqondo ongokomfanekiso kanti ufuna umuntu oncika kuye? Yebo, uma ukhumbula umuzwa wosizi, futhi ucabange ngabantu abasakhula ngokugcwele ngomqondo ophelele wegama, uzokuqonda ukubaluleka 'kokwesekwa'. Ezokuphepha zisenza siqine, 'ukungabi nalusizo' kungamboza kakhulu igobolondo obekungafanele lakhiwe.
Amanye amandla womuntu ayatholakala emndenini
Njengoba leso saga sase-Afrika sisho: "kuthatha isizwe sonke ukukhulisa ingane", kulezi zinsuku imindeni isiphelelwe yizizwe, empeleni izikhathi eziningi asinayo ngisho nomndeni owandisiwe. Kodwa-ke, ukwazi ukuthi uyathandwa, ukwesekwa kukababa nomama abakhathele, izindlela zokuziphatha ezihlukile, nothando olwandisiwe kuyaqinisa amantombazane nabafana.
Kunoma ikuphi, ukukhuliswa ngomusa nangokulinganisela, imfundo ehlonipha izidingo zezingane futhi isimo esincishwe ubandlululo nokwesaba, sizonikeza ukuphepha ezidalweni, futhi nokuvikeleka kufinyelelwe, kuzoba lula ukwakha amandla athuthukisa ubudlelwano nemvelo, futhi okuvumela ukunikela ngohlobo oluhle kakhulu lwentombazane ngayinye nomfana ngamunye, njengamanje nalapho sebekhulile.
Ngiyakholelwa emndenini: azikho izincazelo eziqinile, azikho amalebula, azikho izigaba, kepha ngenhlonipho enkulu… Futhi ngaphandle kokukhohlwa ukuthi enganeni ngayinye kuzalwa nomama, futhi ngenkathi ukunakekelwa kuqondiswe ekuqaleni, umama kufanele futhi avikelwe futhi asekwe. Futhi ngiyakholelwa emndenini ngoba yilokho esikushiye ngaphambi kobuntu obunobudlova obungasinaki njengabantu esingabo.
Usuku oluhle lomndeni.