Iqhaza logogo nomkhulu ezimpilweni zezingane liyingxenye ebaluleke kakhulu. Ukudlula ekufeni kukagogo akusona isiphuzo esimnandi ngoba akekho noyedwa ezihlotsheni. Kubuhlungu okumele kwabelwane ngabo phakathi kwabazali nezingane, ngoba isibalo sakhe sabamba iqhaza elibaluleke kakhulu osukwini lwakhe, ngoba mhlawumbe bekufanele afake indima yesibili njengomama ezikhathini eziningi.
Ukushona kukagogo kungaphambi nangemva kokufunda ukukwazisa ukubaluleka kwesihlobo, kufanele wazi ukuthi uncike kanjani ekutheni bekuwuthando olukhethekile noluthandekayo ebesinalo ngaye. Kuliqiniso futhi yisimo okumele wonke umuntu abhekane naso ngakho-ke kufanele sazi ukuthi singabhekana kanjani nalezo zindaba ndawonye.
Ukunqoba ukushona kukagogo
Ngeshwa okungenakugwenywa kwenzeke, ukufa kuyingxenye yezimpilo zethu futhi lowo muntu akasenathi. Isibalo sikagogo simele kakhulu emkhakheni womndeni, kusukela Ngenxa yalo, sekuvele izizukulwane ezilandelanayo.
Kuyenzeka ukuthi lolu hlobo lokufa izikhathi eziningi zibhekwa ngokwemvelo, njengoba sebekhulile futhi sithatha ukulahlekelwa kwabo. Kepha hhayi bonke abantu bathonywe ngokufanayo ukulahlekelwa.
Uma beyizingane ezincane kufanele ukhulume ngokucacile ngokwenzekile ngokuqapha. Uma ungomunye wabantu abathintekile, ungabufihli ubuhlungu bakho, ukukhala phambi kwezingane akukubi, kufanele bazi ukuthi nabantu abadala bayazizwa futhi bazwakalisa ubuhlungu babo ngangokunokwenzeka.
Ngalesi senzakalo zizungeze ngomndeni osondelene kakhulu, lezi yizikhathi ezinzima futhi uze uze uzinqobe ukukhuluma ngobuhlungu bakho nabangani.
Sifanekiswa kanjani isithombe sikagogo?
Imele umuntu obaluleke kakhulu. Akwaziwa ngokuqinisekile uma isimo sakhe njengogogo othintekayo Kuvela kakhulu engxenyeni yomama noma yobaba, okuqinisekile ukuthi umndeni ngamunye nezimo zilawulwa ngezindlela ezahlukene.
Kumele kuqashelwe ukuthi kubalulekile uku sebedlulisele lonke ifa lofuzo esizukulwaneni sabo, ikakhulukazi amadodakazi akhe nabazukulu bakhe. Abazukulu bavame ukufana nogogo kunabomama uqobo. Kufakwa ngisho nofuzo konke okuhlangenwe nakho nokuhlukumezeka oke wabhekana nakho, kusukela kwesinye isizukulwane kuya kwesinye.
Izingane ezindala kufanele zidlule kanjani kulezi zikhathi?
Izingane ezindala zinengqondo kakhulu futhi mhlawumbe nolwazi lwazo Ngiyahlupheka kakhulu ngezikhathi ezinzima. Sebevele bekwazi ukukhumbula konke abakufundiswa ngakho-ke bona ukuthi ubenzeni.
Kubalulekile ukuthi omama nobaba kumele ngabe sebedlulisile amagugu kagogo futhi konke ukukhula ngokomzwelo akufake kubazukulu bakhe. Ugogo ubelokhu efuna ukubona abazukulu bakhe bejabule. Lokho kwamenza wazizwa kahle naye, ngakho kufanele umamatheke esimweni esinjalo, impela ugogo wakho uzofuna ukukubona unje.
Kuhle ukuthi ingane khuluma nabazali bakho ngesimo sikagogo wakho, ngoba yibo ababemazi kakhulu. Mtshele izindaba ezihlekisayo noma ama-anecdotes kusukela esemncane kakhulu. ukuyikhumbula ngomqondo wokuhlekisa kukwenza kujabulise kakhulu kuwo wonke umuntu.
Khulumisanani phakathi kwabazali nezingane ngokulahlekelwa okunjalo kuzosiza ukuqinisa ubudlelwano futhi uzinikeze uthando ngobuhlungu obunjalo. Ukuthi ingane ithembele kubangani futhi kuyindlela enhle yokuphunyuka, kumele uveze imizwa yakho futhi ungathola icala eliveza ulwazi lwakho.