Kunabazali abakuthola kunzima impela ukusebenza nentsha yabo ngamakhono okuxhumana nabantu. Lawa makhono abalulekile lapho abantu abasha bekwazi ukuxhumana ngaphandle kwenkinga nabanye abantu. Ukwazi ukuthi ungalandisa kanjani kusiza osemusha ukuthi athuthukise izindinganiso ezibalulekile ezinjengokuzwela noma ukuzethemba.
Amakhono okusebenzelana nabantu kumele kusetshenzelwe kuwo kusukela lapho izingane zincane baze bafike esigabeni sobusha.
Ayini amakhono omphakathi
Amakhono enhlalo ayadingeka futhi kubalulekile ekuziphatheni uma kukhulunywa ngokusebenzisana nokuhlobana nabanye abantu. Lawa makghono ahlukile futhi ahlukile ngokuya ngomongo lapho lowo osemusha ezithola ekuso.
Ubusha yisigaba esiyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu kunoma yimuphi umuntu osemusha, njengoba benza uchungechunge lwezinguquko ezizokusiza ukuthi uzenzele ubuwena. Ngakho-ke, kubalulekile ukuthi ukwazi ukusebenza kula makhono kuzikhungo zemfundo nasemndenini uqobo. Izinto ezinjengokuhlonipha noma ukubekezelela abanye kumele zikhuthazwe ngaso sonke isikhathi.
Kunezindlela eziningi zokusebenza ngala makhono okuxhumana nabantu abasha, njengamandla weqembu. Ngabo, umuntu osemusha uyakwazi ukuxhumana nabanye abantu abalingana naye futhi uzifake ezicathulweni zabo ukuze uxazulule izinkinga ezahlukahlukene.
Yimaphi amakhono ezenhlalo okufanele athuthukiswe
- Kumele baqale bafunde uchungechunge lwamakhono ayisisekelo omphakathi njengokukwazi ukubamba iqhaza engxoxweni, bonga okuthile noma wazi ukulalela abanye.
- Ngaphandle kwalokhu okungenhla, kuhle ukusebenzela kolunye uchungechunge lwamakhono athuthuke kakhulu, njengokucela usizo lapho beludinga noma ukucela intethelelo ngento embi abayenzile. Kulokhu kubanzima kakhulu ngoba kunzima ngabantu abasha ukuthi babone lapho benze iphutha futhi kumele bacele intethelelo. Intsha kumele ibone ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuthi wonke umuntu unephutha futhi kuhle ukuxolisa ngakho.
- Kukhona namakhono amaningi okuxhumana nabantu ahlobene nemizwa. Kuhle ukuthi bafunde ukuqaphela imizwa yabo, i zwelana nabanye futhi ubonise uthando lapho kunesidingo. Imfundo engokomzwelo ibalulekile emphakathini wanamuhla, yingakho kubalulekile ukuyifunda. Ngeshwa, kunentsha eningi engasebenzi kule mizwa nokungabi naluthando nozwelo kusobala impela.
- Ukuhlela amakhono ezenhlalo nakho kubalulekile emfundweni yabancane kakhulu. Kuhle ukuthatha isinyathelo, ukufinyelela ezivumelwaneni nabanye abantu futhi ukwazi ukuxazulula izingxabano ezahlukahlukene ezingavela empilweni yakho yonke. Lezi zinhlobo zamakhono zibalulekile uma usebenza eqenjini ekilasini noma esikhathini eside emsebenzini. Kufanele wazi ukuthi usebenza kanjani eqenjini futhi ukwazi ukuxazulula izinkinga ngendlela enengqondo.
- Uhlobo lokugcina lwamakhono omphakathi umuntu omusha okufanele awafunde yilawo amele enye indlela yokuhlukumezeka okungenzeka. Ngale ndlela kuhle kakhulu ukuthi uyakwazi ukuvikela umngani ngokukhuluma noma ukugcina ukuzithiba nokuzola ngaso sonke isikhathi.
Njengoba ukwazi ukubona, amakhono ezenhlalo abaluleke kakhulu kunalokho abantu abangakucabanga ekuqaleni. Yize isikhathi sobusha siyisikhathi esinzima empilweni yomuntu omusha nasemndenini uqobo, ukukwazi ukufundisa la makhono kubantu abasha kubalulekile. Lokhu kuzokusiza ukwazi ukuxhumana kahle nabanye abantu. Ukufundisa nokukhulisa ingane akulula neze futhi ikakhulu lapho esemusha, kodwa-ke kungumsebenzi okumele wenziwe ngabazali kanye nochwepheshe ukuqinisekisa ukuthi esikhathini esizayo bangaba nochungechunge lwamagugu abalulekile bakha ubuntu babo.