Ungahle ungazi. Ungathi ezinganeni zakho cishe izikhathi ezingama-50 usuku lonke “UNGAKWENZI lokho”, “UNGAKUSHO lokho”, “lokho AKWENZIWE”, “lelo akulona ithuba lakho” ... Kuyakhathaza uze uyifunde, akunjalo? Futhi ngokuqinisekile ngeke kube nomthelela ezinganeni zakho, ezilalela kuphela u-CHA Cha cha kodwa ezingazi ukuthi kungani noma enye indlela ezuzisa kakhulu. Ukukusiza ukuthi uphumelele ngokwengeziwe ngemingcele esikushiyela yona amathiphu okuthi ungathi kanjani enganeni ngendlela enhle.
Amandla ka cha
Iphuma ngokuzenzekelayo. Cha cha cha. Sikholwa ukuthi kuyasiza futhi kuyasebenza, ukuthi ngale ndlela sibeka imingcele, ukuthi sitshele izingane zethu lokho ezingakwazi ukukwenza. Futhi bayifunda ngokushesha okukhulu, lapho ufuna ukuyazi bazobe bethi cha njalo. Angisho ukuthi azidingeki, ukude nakho. Kumele sithi cha kwesinye isikhathi, nangezinye izikhathi yebo. Isibonelo, okuthile okubeka engcupheni impilo yengane yakho njengokuwela umgwaqo wedwa, ukudedela isandla sakho, noma ukuphuma efasiteleni. Kokunye usuku nosuku kufanele simake kahle imikhawulo yabo ukuze bazizwe bephephile, ngaphandle kokuchitha cha. Njengoba sithi cha kaningi, akusizi wena kuphela, kepha futhi akusiniki imiphumela esiyilindeleyo. Kumele sithole ibhalansi phakathi kuka cha no yebo.
Uma uhlala ulalela okuthile, kuyeka ukuba nencazelo yangempela. Umqondo omuhle kungaba ukufeza imiphumela elindelwe yokuthi cha ngaphandle kokuphimisela igama cha.. Ngale ndlela besizofundisa ngendlela enhle, sizothola imiphumela engcono futhi bazoba nesibopho ekuziphatheni nasemiphumeleni yabo.
Izingane nokukhungatheka
Izingane zinokubekezelela okuphansi kakhulu ukukhungatheka. Bafuna okuthile futhi bayakufuna manje. Abaqondi isikhala sesikhathi sokulibazisa ukuzanelisa futhi abazi ukuthi bazilawule kanjani. Sivele sikubonile esihlokweni "Ungazifundisa kanjani izingane ukuphatha ukukhungatheka" Lokhu akuwona umsebenzi olula, kepha ngochungechunge lwezincomo ungabasiza bafunde ukuphatha lokho kukhungatheka.
Ngakho-ke bangakwenza kuzofanele babhekane naye. Okusho ukuthi, uma singakaze sithi cha kuye, ngeke akhungatheke. Futhi ngeshwa impilo ayihlali ikutshela yebo. Udinga ukuthi ufunde ukuthi kunezinto ezingenziwa nezinye ezingeke zenziwe.
Ungasho kanjani ukuthi cha enganeni ngendlela enhle
- Shintsha ulimi olubi ngolimi oluqondile. Ngaphandle kokuthi, imishwana iyasusa, bayasusa. Uma siyiguqula futhi sakha ibinzana ngendlela enhle siyinika enye incazelo ngokuchaza into efanayo. Isibonelo: esikhundleni sokuthi "asikwazi ukuya epaki namuhla" bese silindela ukuqhuma okuthe xaxa, singasondela kuye ngokuhlukile bese sithi "Ucabangani uma sidlala ndawonye ekhaya namuhla?" Enganeni unikezwa enye indlela esikhundleni sokuthatha okuthile. Impela uzofuna ukudlala epaki kepha kukhona nemidlalo emnandi ongayidlala ekhaya.
- Chaza imiphumela yezenzo zabo. Ngokuya ngeminyaka yengane, ungakwazi chaza imiphumela yezenzo zabo. Esikhundleni sokuthi “ungashayi umfowenu”, mtshele ukuthi “uma umshaya ngeke afune ukudlala ngawe” noma “kuzokulimaza kakhulu ngoba lokho kubuhlungu”. Ngaleyo ndlela, esikhundleni sokunaka ngoba bayakutshela, uzokwazi ukulawula imizwa yakho ucabangele imiphumela yayo.
- Sula imithetho. Imithetho ekhaya kufanele icace futhi ibe mfushane. Kumele sibachazele futhi iyini leyo mithetho. Futhi kumele babe nemiphumela uma kungalandelwa, futhi kumele kusetshenziswe.
- Kuhlehlise isikhathi. Kwesinye isikhathi abakufunayo akunakwenziwa ngaleso sikhathi. Singakubeka emuva futhi sikwenze (Akufanele ukukuhlehlisa ucabange ukuthi bazokhohlwa, ngoba ngeke kube njalo). Ngale ndlela bazofunda nokuphatha ukukhungatheka kwabo.
- Mnikeze ezinye izindlela. Beka isikhalazo kwenye indlela ehlukile, kunokuba ufune lokho abakufunayo. Lokhu kuzogxila kwenye inketho futhi eyokuqala izolahlekelwa ukunakwa kwayo. Sebenzisa ukumaketha.
Ngoba khumbula ... ungathi cha ngendlela enhle.