Ukungalaleli ezinganeni kuqala ukwenzeka kusukela eminyakeni emithathu. Ngaphambi kwaleyo minyaka, bathambekele ekwamukeleni imithetho ebekwe ngabazali babo kangcono kakhulu. Lapho sebekhulile baqala ukunqikaza kakhulu futhi abazali abaningi baphelelwa yithemba ngokuziphatha okunjalo.
Lokhu kungenxa yentuthuko yokuziphendukela kwemvelo abanayo, ngakho-ke abazali kufanele balandele uchungechunge lweziqondiso kwezemfundo ukuqinisekisa ukuthi balalela ngangokunokwenzeka futhi ukwazi ukwamukela imithetho ebekiwe endlini.
Ukulalela ezinganeni ezineminyaka emi-3 kuya kwengu-6
Kujwayelekile ukuthi kusukela eminyakeni emithathu ubudala ingane iba yisihlubuki kakhulu kuzo zonke izici futhi kunzima ngaye ukwamukela imithetho ebekwe ngabazali bayo. Ukuthukuthela nokuthukuthela kungumkhuba wosuku futhi ukungalaleli kudlula ukulalela. Kungumsebenzi wabazali ukuqinisekisa ukuthi ingane yabo ihlonipha uchungechunge lwemithetho kanye nemiyalo kokubili emndenini nasenhlanganweni yomphakathi.
Lapho uzama ukwenza ingane Lalelani, kuhle ukuhlala eduze kwakhe futhi uchaze ngomoya ophansi imiphumela yokungalaleli noma ukuhlonipha imithetho ebekiwe. Uma kwenzeka ukuthi ukuziphatha kwakhe kuhle, kubalulekile futhi ukumncoma ngokulalela okukhonjisiwe.
Abazali kufanele bahlale bekhumbula ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuthi yize ingane isencane, Usevele uyakwazi ukwazi ukuthi wenza okuthile okungalungile noma okuthile okulungile. Lapho ubeka amazinga, kufanele kubhekwe izinto ezimbili:
- Kumele uhlale phansi nengane uyifundise imithetho.
- Abazali kufanele bangaguquguquki ngaso sonke isikhathi futhi bagcine izwi uma benza okuthile okungalungile, basebenzise imiphumela ebekiwe.
Izingane eziphakathi kweminyaka emi-3 nengu-6 ubudala ziqondiswa kuphela ngombono wazo ngakho ziphikisana nanoma imuphi omunye umbono ongewona owazo. Kungumsebenzi wabazali ngakho-ke, ukukwazi ukubafundisa ngendlela engcono kakhulu futhi zibenze baqonde ukuthi kumele baqondiswe uchungechunge lwemithetho.
Imihlahlandlela okumele ilandelwe izingane ezineminyaka emi-3 nengu-6 ukuba zilalele
Intukuthelo yezingane nokuthukuthela kuqala eminyakeni emithathu ubudala. Bafuna yonke into futhi uma bengayitholi, bayathukuthela. Njengoba bebhekene nalokhu, abazali kufanele bahlale beqinile futhi bangalokothi bavumele ukuziphatha okunjalo. Ngemuva kwalokho sikunikeza uchungechunge lweziqondiso okufanele uzilandele ukuze ugxilise ukulalela ezinganeni:
- Ukuqina kwabazali kubalulekile lapho izingane zingalaleli. Kufanele usebenzise ukuqiniswa nokuziphatha.
- Kufanele kusetshenziswe imithetho kokubili ekhaya nalapho bephuma.
- Abazali kufanele ngaso sonke isikhathi babe yisibonelo esihle ezinganeni. Ukuziphatha kwabantu abadala nakho kufanele kube yisibonelo.
- Ukubekezela kungenye iphuzu elibalulekile abazali okufanele babe nalo. Ukulalela kuzothatha isikhathi futhi izingane ngeke zikwamukele ngesikhathi sokuqala.
- Noma nini lapho ingane ikwenza kahle, indlela yayo yokuziphatha kufanele iqiniswe futhi mdumise ngokwenza ngokulalela.
- Ukumemeza akucebisi ngoba kungenza izinto zibe zimbi kakhulu. Lapho ukhuluma nengane, kufanele ukwenze ngendlela ezolile futhi ngaphandle kokuphakamisa izwi lakho.
- Ulimi lungesinye isici esibalulekile maqondana nokwenza izingane zilalele. Kunconywa ukuthi ungavumi kuyo yonke into. Iphimbo elibalulekile nalo alilihle ekumqeqesheleni ngokulalela.
Ubudala obuphakathi kweminyaka emi-3 nengu-6 yisigaba esinzima ngokwedlulele sengane. Kufanele ubekezele kakhulu ekuziphatheni kwengane ngoba kulesi sikhathi izingane zizibheka zona kuphela futhi zikuthola kunzima ukwamukela imithetho. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi nokulandela imihlahlandlela echazwe ngenhla, uzothola ingane yakho ukuthi ilalele futhi ilandele imithetho ebekiwe.