Ngabe sikhona isikhathi esifanelekile sokuthi ingane iqale isikole? IngabeUyiyisa nini ingane enkulisa? Impikiswano ivulekile kunoma imuphi umzali omusha ocabanga ukuthi ingane ichithe amahora ambalwa ingekho ekhaya nezinye izingane. Kwezinye izimo, kuyindaba edingekayo ngenxa yezidingo zomsebenzi. Kepha kukhona nezinye izimo zempilo ezivelayo futhi ezisiphoqa ukuthi sicabange ngale ndlela.
Izingane zethu ziyinto eyigugu kakhulu esinayo futhi sifuna kuphela okungcono kakhulu kuzo. Ingabe ukunakekelwa kwasemini kungaba yinkinga enganeni? Ingozi empilweni yakho? Ezikhathini zamanje, phakathi kwama-run nemisebenzi, i-nursery yethulwa njengesinqumo esiyisibopho semindeni eminingi. Ukuphila njengeqiniso ngezinzuzo nezinkinga kungaba lusizo ukwenza isinqumo esifanele.
Isikhathi esihle kakhulu senkulisa
Kunzima ukwazi nini ukuyisa ingane enkulisa. Ekuboneni kokuqala, impendulo kungenzeka ingalokothi. Yini engcono enganeni ukuba ibe nomama wayo eminyakeni yokuqala yokuphila. Kepha leli qiniso akuyona into eyenzeka emindenini yanamuhla, impilo yanamuhla iphoqa abazali ukuthi baphume bayosebenza amahora amade. Ngubani onakekela izingane ngaleso sikhathi?
Kuze kube emashumini ambalwa edlule, imindeni ibiyimindeni eyandisiwe, ogogo nomkhulu nomalume bebekhona kakhulu ekunakekelweni nasekunakekelweni kwabancane. Leli qiniso laliguquka ngezizathu ezahlukahlukene, kufaka phakathi ukuhlangana kogogo nomkhulu manje abaqhubeka nokusebenza iminyaka eminingi, kungezwe ezifisweni zabo nasesimeni esihle somzimba. Kulesi simo, isimo somndeni siyinkimbinkimbi ngoba abasekho ogogo nomkhulu abahlala nezingane. Izikhungo zokunakekelwa kwezingane sezibe yisidingo sokuqala kwemindeni eminingi.
Kunabazali abasafuna ukunakekela izingane zabo, abanakho okunye abangakwenza ngaphandle kokubayisa enkulisa. Kwezinye izimo, ukuphela kwekhefu lokubeletha kuphoqa isinqumo ukuthi sithathwe ngisho nangaphambi kokuba kube yisikhathi esifanelekile. IngabeUyiyisa nini ingane enkulisa ngaphandle kwalokhu kubeka ingozi noma inkinga?
Ukukhetha inkulisa yengane
Okufanelekile, ingane kufanele ihlale ekhaya isikhathi eside ngangokunokwenzeka, okungenani kuze kube unyaka wokuqala wokuphila. Kuze kube yileso sikhathi, abantwana bathambekele ekubambeni amagciwane kanye namagciwane ngoba amasosha abo omzimba ayakhula. Ngenkathi le nqubo iqhubeka eminye iminyaka embalwa, ukugcina izingane ekhaya unyaka wokuqala kuzovimbela ukuvezwa ngokweqile.
Kepha yize lokhu kungaba iqiniso langempela, iqiniso ukuthi izingane eziningi ziya enkulisa ngezinyanga ezimbalwa zokuphila. Into ebalulekile kulezi zimo ukukhetha indawo egcinwe kahle, lapho ukunakekelwa nokuhlanzeka kuyinto ebaluleke kakhulu. Izingane zisencane kakhulu futhi kumele zinakekelwe izidingo zazo ngoba azikavezwa futhi kufanele sizole ngendawo esishiya kuyo izingane.
Al hambisa ingane enkulisa Ukuthembela esikhungweni kubalulekile ngoba lapho sizoshiya okuyigugu kakhulu emhlabeni. Kumele kuqinisekiswe ukuthi izingane zondliwa lapho kufanele, nokuthi azihlali enabukeni elingcolile nokuthi zigxilisa amahora okuphumula namahora okudlala nokuzilibazisa. Khetha indawo enomoya futhi enelanga, gwema izindawo ezimnyama ngokusakazwa okuncane nokuvuselelwa komoya.
Kubalulekile ukucela izinkomba zendawo nabangane nabantu obajwayele. Akukho lutho olungcono njengolwazi lwabanye abazali uma kukhulunywa ngalo khetha inkulisa yengane. Ngaphezu kwalokho, indawo ebonakalayo, kubalulekile ukukhetha inkulisa enabasebenzi abafanelekayo, abanesineke futhi abakwaziyo ukukhuthaza ukukhula kwengane. Futhi, khumbula ukuthi izindawo zokugcina izingane akuzona izindawo zokugcina izingane. Ngokuphambene nalokho, kufanele kube yizikhala zokuhambisana ezisebenza njengomphelelisi enkambisweni yengane, ngaleyo ndlela zihambisane nokukhuliswa nokukhula kwezingane.