I-babymoon iwukubaleka kwezothando benzani obaba besikhathi esizayo ngaphambi kokuba umntwana azalwe. Izingane sezivele ziyazi ukuthi ziletha injabulo enkulu, kepha nezinguquko eziningi emndenini. Ngeke sibe khona isikhathi esiningi (noma cishe lutho) ukwazi ukunikela kumlingani wakho, ngakho-ke lezo zikhathi zangaphambilini zilungele ukuthatha uhambo njengezithandani ngaphambi koshintsho olukhulu.
Igama elithi babymoon livelaphi?
Noma kungabonakala kuyigama lakamuva, igama elithi babymoon sebenzisa okokuqala eminyakeni engama-20 edlule ngudokotela wezenhlalo waseNgilandi ogama lakhe linguSheila Helena Elizabeth Kitzinger owakhuluma ngalesi simo: isidingo sokuthi lezi zithandani zibaleke nengane ukudala ukuxhumana phakathi kuka-3. Lokho kusho ukuthi hlanganisa uhambo lokuqala lomndeni. Ngemuva kwalokho yaqala ukusetshenziselwa uhambo lwezithandani ngaphambi kokufika kwengane.
Abesifazane abakhulelwe abadumile yibo abenze lesi simanga saba semfashinini, esizohlala lapha. I-Babymoon livela egameni elithi i-honeymoon ngesiNgisi (honeymoon).
Ngubani owenza i-babymoon?
Iningi lemibhangqwana eyenza le honeymoon ngabazali bokuqala abangakaboni impilo yabo iguqulwa yizingane zabo. Ungenza futhi uhambo lwe-babymoon ngaphambi kokuba uqale ukufuna ingane, akudingekile ukuthi ulinde uze ukhulelwe. Kepha kunemibhangqwana enezingane eziningi ezinquma ukuthatha uhambo oluncane ndawonye, zishiya izingane zihambisana nogogo nomkhulu wazo.
Ngakho-ke masingazikhohlisi, izingane ziyamangalisa futhi kungokuhlangenwe nakho okuhlukile kepha isikhathi esinaso siba yikho konke kubo. Lo mbhangqwana ungemuva futhi nawe kufanele unakekele leyo nyunyana. Futhi yisikhathi sokuxhuma futhi sikujabulele ukukhulelwa kwakho, imvamisa singenza ngemodi yesidleke futhi asiwujabuleli lo muzwa omuhle kakhulu njengoba kufanele.
I-babymoon isikhashana sokuxhuma nalezi zithandani ngaphambi kokufika kwe-maelstrom yamanabukeni nobusuku bokungalali.
Uma sengivele ngikhulelwe, ngingakwenza nini?
Uma ukukhulelwa kwakho kungenangozi, ungakwenza nganoma yisiphi isikhathi. Okufanelekile ukukwenza phakathi kwamasonto ayi-12 kuya kwangama-28, okungukuthi, ngesikhathi se- trimester yesibili. Ngakho-ke, ingozi ye-trimester yokuqala isidlulile futhi uvikela ukungakhululeki kwezinyanga zokugcina zokukhulelwa. Kufanele uqaphele ngoba ezinye izindiza zinqanda izindiza kusuka enyangeni yesikhombisa yokukhulelwa. Hlola nenkampani ukuze uqiniseke ukuthi ngeke kube nankinga. Ukundiza kwezinye izindiza uzodinga isitifiketi esivela kudokotela wakho nosuku lwakho olulindelekile lokulethwa nohlobo lwegazi lakho.
Okuhle kakhulu yilokho thintana nodokotela wakho wezifo zabesifazane ngohambo Yini ongathanda ukuyenza: indawo, ezokuthutha, imisebenzi, isimo sezulu ... ukuze ngincome okufanelekile ngokusho kwesimo sakho.
Uhlobo luni lokubaleka ongalwenza?
Yebo, leyo wena nomlingani wakho eniyithandayo. Kungaba yindawo ethule yolwandle yokuphumula, ukuyothenga, i-spa noma indawo yezivakashi ofuna ukuyazi. Ngaso sonke isikhathi ubheka ukuthi ukuthwala kanjani ukukhulelwa kwakho nohlobo lohambo oluthandeka kakhulu kuwe, ukugwema izindawo ezingajwayelekile ezingaba sengozini yokutheleleka nezindawo ezinokushisa okuningi.
Bheka kahle ukuthi yini imisebenzi ongathanda ukuyenza phakathi nohambo ngoba ezinye azinconywa kwabesifazane abakhulelwe, njengokukhwela noma ukutshuza emanzini. Kuneminye imisebenzi eminingi ongayenza njengokuthola ukubhucungwa umzimba, ukuhamba ngezinyawo, ukuyothenga, ukudla ... Qaphela ukudla, ikakhulukazi ukudla okuluhlaza okungaqukatha ama-parasites. Phuza kuphela amanzi asebhodleleni nezithelo, okungcono kuphela lezo ezinesikhumba esijiyile kakhulu.
Ama-ejensi amaningi ezokuvakasha namahhotela asevele asizakala ngalo mkhuba futhi asevele ekhona Amaphakeji eholide e-babymoon akhethekile awo wonke amabhajethi nokuthandwayo. Xhumana nomenzeli wakho ojwayelekile ukubona ukuthi yiziphi izinketho abanazo.
Ngoba khumbula… kungani ungaphumuli futhi ujabulele isikhathi lapho impilo yakho isizoshintsha?