Njengayo yonke i-20 kaNovemba namhlanje kubhiyozelwa ngomhla USuku lwaBantwana lweHlabathi. Usuku apho wonke umntu ekhunjuzwa ngokubaluleka kokulwela amalungelo abo bangabona basesichengeni, abantwana. Nangona oku kunokuba ngumsebenzi wemihla ngemihla kuwo wonke umntu, kukho lo mhla kwikhalenda njengesikhumbuzo kuwo wonke umntu. Kubalulekile ukuba sonke silwe njengamntu mnye, senzela abo bangakwaziyo.
Ngokubanzi, ootata noomama bathanda ukwahlula abantwana babo kubo bonke ububi behlabathi, ngaloo ndlela kuthintelwe ukubandezeleka kwabo. Kwaye oku kuqhelekile, akukho mntu ufuna ukuba umntwana wabo azi ukuba abanye abantwana baphila kweyona ndlela imbi. Kodwa ngaphakathi kokunokwenzeka, Kuyimfuneko ukwenza isazela eluntwini ebantwaneni. Ukuze bazi ukuba bangaphi abantwana emhlabeni abasindayo.
Ungabachazela njani abantwana into ebhiyozelwayo namhlanje?
Ukuba uyazibuza ukuba ungabachazela njani abantwana bakho ukuba lo mbhiyozo wanamhlanje uquka ntoni, impendulo yeyona ilula, ngokudlala. Yindlela abantwana abafunda ngayo yonke into, ngokudlala. Ngokubanzi, yemidlalo edlalayo, kunye namabali okufunda, kodwa kananjalo, ukwenza iminyhadala yentlalo.
Abantwana abaya kumaziko emfundo yabasaqalayo okanye esikolweni sele befumana ulwazi ngamalungelo abantwana. Kumaziko emfundo, Iziganeko zesikhumbuzo kwezi ntsuku. Thatha ithuba lokungeniswa okufutshane ukugqibezela ekhaya kunye neminye imisebenzi eyongezelelweyo.
Imisebenzi yokubhiyozela uSuku lwaBantwana lwaBantwana kunye nabantwana bakho
Ukuze abantwana bazi intsingiselo yalo mbhiyozo, kubalulekile ukuba ubaxelele ngendlela efanelekileyo ngokobudala babo nokuqonda kwabo, imeko yabantwana abaninzi emhlabeni. Ngale ndlela, abantwana bakho baya kufunda ixabiso lezinto abanesifundo esisemgangathweni kwaye bazakusifumana uvelwano. Ukongeza, unokwenza imisebenzi ekhethekileyo kunye nabantwana bakho ukubhiyozela umlo wamalungelo abantwana.
Cula iculo
Iingoma zibambe imiyalezo ebalulekileyo. Ngemibongo yomculo, unokufumana indlela yokuchaza izinto ezinzima kubantwana bakho. NgoSuku lwaBantwana lweHlabathi, fundisa abantwana bakho le ngoma imnandi eyayifundiswa ezikolweni kwiminyaka emininzi eyadlulayo.
Ikwayara yengoma, Bayeke abantwana bacule, nguJosé Luis Perales
Bayekeni abantwana bacule, mabaphakamise amazwi abo,
Yenza umhlaba umamele,
Mabadibanise amazwi abo bafike elangeni;
Kuzo kukho inyaniso,
Mabacule abantwana boxolo;
Kwaye abo baneentlungu,
Bavumeleni abo bangayi kuvuma,
Kuba balicimile ilizwi labo.
Yenza udonga
Imisebenzi yezandla ilungele abantwana ukuba basebenze ngokupheleleyo kuzo zonke izakhono zabo. Kodwa kwakhona, bayabanceda babonakalise iimvakalelo zabo kunye neemvakalelo zabo ngendalo yabo. USuku lwaBantwana lweHlabathi lixesha elifanelekileyo lokwenza eludongeni nabantwana bakho. Abantwana banako zoba ezo zinto bacinga ukuba zibalulekile kubo, iithoyi zakhe, usapho lwakhe, indlu yakhe, zizinto ezifunwa ngabantwana ukuba bonwabe.
Wakuba ugqityiwe udonga, cela abantwana bachaze izinto abazizobileyo. Bayeke benze ifilosofi kwaye ucacise izinto ngendlela abavakalelwa ngayo. Ukwenza oku, kuya kufuneka ubuze umbuzo ovulekileyo, umzekelo, Kutheni le nto izinto zakho zokudlala zibaluleke kangaka kuwe? Emva koko sebenzisa loo mpendulo ukucacisela abantwana bakho ukuba baninzi abantwana ehlabathini abangenazinto zokudlala. Kungenxa yoko le nto kubhiyozelwa uSuku lwaBantwana lwaBonke abantu minyaka le. Ukuze kungabikho mntu ulibalayo ukulwa ukuze bonke abantwana babenezinto ezifanayo abanazo.
Abantwana abangobemi beklasi yesibini
Abantwana abancinci ayingobemi abakudidi lwesibini. Akukho mntu unelungelo lokudumisa okanye ukubabetha ngenxa yento yokuba mncinci. Ngendlela efanayo ukuba ulwela ukukhuselwa kwamalungelo abantwana abangenanto, Kuyimfuneko ukulwela amalungelo abo bonke abantwana. Nokuba bahlala kwilizwe elingaphuhliswanga okanye kwelinye lehlabathi lokuqala.