Yintoni abafanele bayazi abazali malunga nempilo yengqondo?

Bekusoloko kusithiwa umntwana ophilileyo ungumntwana owonwabileyo, ngakumbi kwinqanaba lengqondo. Abazali kufuneka bazi ukubaluleka kwempilo yengqondo ekukhuleni ngokweemvakalelo okufanelekileyo kwabantwana babo. Emva koko siza kuthetha ngempilo yengqondo kunye nendlela abazali ekufuneka bajongane ngayo neempawu ezibhengeza iingxaki zengqondo.

Impilo Yengqondo

Kuqhelekile ukuba bazali Ndiziva ndilahlekile kwaye andazi ukuba ungajongana njani neengxaki ngengqondo wabantwana babo. Mamaxesha amaninzi Lo mbandela awubalulekanga ngokwaneleyo okanye awaziwa ukuba ungajongana njani nawo okanye uvavanywe ngokufanelekileyo. Abantwana abaneengxaki zengqondo kubuntwana babo baya kuba neengxaki zokukhula kwinqanaba lokufikisa kwaye nakubomi babadala.

Ukuchongwa kunye nonyango ngamanqaku aphambili ukuze umntwana angabikho yedwa kuluntu. Izinto ezahlukeneyo kufuneka ziqinisekise impilo-ntle yomntwana ngenxa yokuba ingumba ochaphazela wonke umntu. Ukuthintela ukonakala kwengqondo, abazali bafuna iingcebiso kwiinkalo ezahlukeneyo zentlalo.

Bobabini abazali nabantwana kufuneka bazi ngakumbi ngalo mbandela ukuze bakwazi ukuxoxa nokujongana nawo. Ungenelelo kwangethuba kunye nokufikelela kunyango kubalulekile kubuntwana ngokwengqondo unyango lwangaphambili lweyeza. Unyango ngokuziphatha lunokunceda bobabini abazali nabantwana.

Iingcebiso zokujongana neengxaki zengqondo ebantwaneni

Impilo yengqondo kuthiwa ibandakanya impilo-ntle yomntu ngokwasemoyeni, ngokwasentlalweni nangokweemvakalelo kwaye ibuchaphazela njani ubomi bakho bemihla ngemihla. Imeko ekumgangatho ophantsi wentlalo noqoqosho, imeko yemfuza, ukungqubana ekhaya ..., imeko yempilo yomntwana, ihlala ingaphantsi kweminyaka eli-10 ubudala. Eminye imiba enokunceda ekunyangeni le ngxaki:

• Umntwana akufuneki abekelwe bucala Ukusebenzisana ukuze kulungelwe intlalo kuya kukhulisa ukuqonda kwakho kokunyaniseka nokuzithemba. Kuya kufuneka abe nethemba kwaye avulele abanye abantu kwaye anxibelelane nabantwana abakwiminyaka yakhe. Ngentsebenziswano phakathi kwabazali nootitshala, kuya kufezekiswa ukuba umntwana aphendule kwiinjongo kwaye azive ngathi uyaphumelela kwimiba yomdla wabo.
• Abazali mabafundise umntwana ukuba oyise kwaye ajongane neengxaki zemihla ngemihla: Umntwana kufuneka akhuthazwe xa eziva engakwazi ukulandela ukuzibophelela kwakhe kuye. Ngenxa yoko umntwana kufuneka azive ukuba angangcono kwaye aphume emgodini.

• Omncinci kufuneka azive ekhuselekile: Imeko yosapho kunye neyesikolo sisiseko sempilo yomntwana kunye nokukhula kwengqondo. Umntwana akufuneki ajongane neemeko zobundlobongela, ukukhathazwa, uxinzelelo okanye ukungahoywa, kodwa kufuneka azi izilogeni zobuhlobo, intlonipho kunye nokuphucula Imithetho yokuhlalisana ebusayo ekhaya nasesikolweni kufuneka icace.
• Izakhono zentlalo, ubuchule bokucombulula ukungavisisani kunye nokwenza izigqibo kufuneka kukhuthazwe emntwaneni: Ukubhiyozela isimilo sabo esihle, isenzo esiphumeleleyo kunye neenjongo ezifezekisiweyo ziya kuqinisa umsebenzi wabo olungileyo.
• Ubomi kufuneka bukhuthazwe enempilo, ezemidlalo kunye nokutya okuchanekileyo: Inceda ukunciphisa uxinzelelo. Ukuphumla kubalulekile, kunciphisa uxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo, kwaye kuphucula impilo yengqondo.
• Izazi ngengqondo zesikolo okanye abacebisi banokucebisa umntwana nomzali ngeenkonzo ezikhoyo zempilo yengqondoUkuchongwa kweengxaki, ukungenelela ... Izikolo mazisebenzisane neenkonzo zempilo yengqondo. Kuya kuba lula ukuba bathumele umntwana ngemvume yabazali babo kwaye bacebise ukuba baqwalasele.

Ulwazi lwezempilo yengqondo yabantwana

Kuluntu Kufuneka kubekho ulwazi ngempilo yengqondo kwiqela lamalungu kunye nezinto ezinxulumene nemfundo yomntwana. Ukuqeqesha ootitshala ngezixhobo zokukhangela, ukusebenza nabantwana kunye nokuxhasa iintsapho yinto efanelekileyo yokufezekisa. Ngenxa yoko, abazali kufuneka babenolwazi kwaye ngenxa yoko intetho ezingapheliyo kunye nolwazi luyimfuneko. Abazali mabangalibali:

• Misela imigangatho.
• Sebenza kulwalamano kwaye unxibelelwano nonyana wakhe.
• Ndikufundise ngokuqinisekileyo.

Ulwazi kubazali lunokuqokelelwa kwiiseshoni zemfundo, kunye neengcali zezempilo, iiphilisi ... kufanelekile jongana nemiba enje ngoxinzelelo, ixhala okanye suicidio, imixholo edla ngokuchukunyiswa phezulu okanye ingahoywa Ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo umxholo we impilo Ingqondo ithathe isigqibo sokufezekisa umgangatho wobomi.