Umfazi okhulelweyo ufumana umahluko kwiimvakalelo. Uyonwaba kakhulu ngokufika konyana wakhe, kwaye kwangaxeshanye kufuneka ajongane nokungaqiniseki ngekamva kunye neentlungu zesifo.
Xa umfazi eza kuba ngumama akanakonwaba. Iimvakalelo ezingaphaya kwamandla akho zinethemba, nethemba kunye nethemba, kodwa kwenzeka ntoni xa kufuneka ujongane nesifo somhlaza? Itshintsha njani imeko kumama nomntwana? Emva koko siza kufunda ngakumbi ngalo mzuzu unzima.
Isibhengezo se ukukhulelwa Ngumzuzu wovuyo kusapho nakubahlobo, nangona kunjalo, ukwazi ukuba unomdlavuza kunokubangela ukuba zonke iingqwalaselo kunye neengcinga zikhokelwe ngakumbi ukuya kwelacala. Kuya kuba nzima kumama ukumelana nayoAyisiyiyo kuphela ngenxa yemeko yabo, kodwa ngenxa yokuba imeko-bume yabo ingalufumani ulonwabo olufunekayo, kwaye bajolise ngakumbi kuloyiko lwesifo.
Umfazi ngendlela efanayo, uhlala ngokuchaseneyo neemvakalelo. Uziva onwabe ngokungathethekiyo malunga nokufika konyana wakhe, kwaye kwangaxeshanye ujongene noloyiko, ukungaqiniseki ngekamva, kunye neentlungu zokugula. Ezi mvakalelo zingakhokelela kwimeko yosizi olusisigxina, ukungabi nathemba kunye ukuxinezeleka. Ukongeza koku kufuneka kwenziwe izigqibo ezinzima malunga nonyango olulandelayo, isicelo soncedo kwizalamane nakubantu abasondeleyo ...
Ukujamelana nokukhulelwa nomhlaza
Kumama wafumanisa ukuba unomhlaza Imibuzo eliwaka elinanye iyavela, uloyiko, ukungazithembi kuyamhlasela… Kukwalungele ukuba uzazise, ukhangele kwaye ubuze imibuzo. Yazi malunga nonyango olunokwenzeka, iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokwenza, yazi ifuthe eliza kubakho kwesi sifo kuwe bebe…, Inqanaba lokubandezeleka kwakho liza kuncipha. Inkqubo ye- yogaInokuba lunyango, hayi unyango, ukukunceda uphumle kwaye ufumane uxolo endleleni yakho.
Uncedo nenkxaso yosapho mihla le ibalulekile ukuze umama angaziva elilolo kwaye elahlekile. Kuya kufuneka babe nolwazi malunga nayo yonke inkqubo ukuze basebenzisane ngaphandle kokubukela nje. Isayikholojisti ikwangumntu ophambili onokunceda umama ukuba ahambe kolu luvo kwaye uyixhobise ngezixhobo eziyimfuneko. Umsebenzi wakhe uya kusekelwa ekumfundiseni kwinqanaba leemvakalelo. Ngamanye amaxesha nokuba yimfihlo, ukumamela uloyiko lwesigulana nokungxama, ukusinika isandla… oko kuthetha lukhulu. Oku kuyakwazi ukubandakanya abo bahamba naye kunye nokwakha ubudlelwane obuqinileyo kunye nobusisigxina.
Ngaphandle kobukrakra bomzuzwana, umnqweno kunye nomsebenzi olungileyo wabasetyhini ekugqibeleni uya kunika iziphumo kwaye kuya kubangela ukuba imeko inyamezeleke ngakumbi. Umngcipheko owongeziweyo wenqanaba, utshintsho lwehomoni kunye neemvakalelo, uxinzelelo, amanyathelo amatsha okuzikhathalela imihla ngemihla ... ngamanqaku amatsha okusebenza kunye nokuqalisa.
Ukunyanga umhlaza ekukhulelweni
Uluvo lukamama, kunye nokuthatha inxaxheba kwezonyango, ngokubhekisele kwindlela emayilandelwe, zibalulekile.
Omnye kwabasetyhini abakhulelweyo abangama-1000 unokufumana umhlaza. Ngokuhamba kwexesha, oku kuxilongwa kuya kuxhaphaka kubafazi abakhulelweyo ngenxa yeminyaka yabo yobudala, inqanaba loxinzelelo lobomi abakhokelayo ... Ke ngoko, ukuba ngumama emva kweminyaka engama-30 okanye engama-40 kongeza umngcipheko. Ngokukhawuleza nje ukuba iingcali ezisingatha eli tyala zigqibe ekubeni zenze unyango, Amachiza afanelekileyo anokuwanika abasetyhini abakhulelweyo, ngaphandle kokonzakalisa umntwana ongekazalwa okanye umama.
Ayisiyiyo kuphela i-oncologist kunye nogqirha okanye umbelekisi oncedisa umama kufuneka avume unyango, uluvo lowasetyhini okhulelweyo malunga nendlela emayilandelwe lubalulekile. Ukuthatha inxaxheba kweengcali kubalulekile. Kwiminyaka eyadlulayo umama wacetyiswa ukuba angaqhubeki nokukhulelwa okanye anganyangelwa umhlaza de emva kokubeleka. Namhlanje iimeko ezininzi zabasetyhini abakhulelweyo bayanyangelwa umhlaza ngaxeshanye xa behamba nokukhulelwa kwabo, nangcono kunabo bangakhulelwanga.
Ukuze uziphathe kakuhle kwaye uziphathe kakuhle, kuya kufuneka uyazi imiba emininzi, efana:
-Uhlobo lomhlaza.
-Size ithumba.
-Isantya sokukhula.
-Sasaza okanye hayi kwethumba.
-Imidlalo apho isifo sifumaneka khona.
Imbali yobudala kunye nezonyango yesigulana.
-Iinyanga zokukhulelwa kukamama.
Unyango olucetyiswayo.
Ukwazi nokuvavanya iimeko zikamama, kokubini ngokwasemphefumlweni nasempilweni, izigqibo kufuneka zenziwe kwaye zenziwe ngokufanelekileyo. Ayichaphazeli impilo yakhe kuphela, kwaye umama uyayithathela ingqalelo ngamaxesha onke, ukuba ayisiyiyo eyomntwana wakhe. Into edla ngokubeka kuqala oomama. Yale Isigqibo sokugqibela somfazi kufuneka siqondwe kwaye sixhaswe, ngaphandle kokuxabisa okanye ukubeka phambili uluvo lomntu.
Kukho unyango lokusombulula umhlaza, nangona kunjalo, iimvavanyo zokuthintela ezinje nge yootyo kwimeko yomhlaza wamabele, zibalulekile, ngaphandle kwepesenti esezantsi yokufumana umhlaza ngexesha lokukhulelwa. Kuyenzeka nokuba ukukhulelwa kuphele ngolonwabo emva kokuba sinyangiwe isifo. Emva kwekota yesibini yesibini, ngakumbi eyesithathu, xa umntwana ekhulelweyo akhule ngokwaneleyo, azinangxaki kangako ukufaka ichemotherapy. I-Biopsy, i-ultrasound, i-mastectomy, kunye ne-anesthesia ngokubanzi ayilimazi umntwana.
Uloyiko lomntu okhulelweyo ojamelene nomhlaza
Wonke umntu obhinqileyo ujongana nesi sifo ngendlela. Abanye bayawa, kunzima ukuba bavuke balwe, abanye ukusuka kumzuzu wokuqala bafumana amandla kwaye bangalahli, banethemba kwaye bahlala benyusa. Ngokwenene akukho nolingano oluchaza indlela yokujongana nokujongana nesi sifo xa ukhulelwe okanye xa ungekho.
Kholelwa ekubeni awuyi kubakho ukukhathalela umntwana wakho, nomhlaza inokuba lilifa lemfuza ... inokumzinzisa umama kwaye imntywilisele kuloyiko olunzulu. Yiyo loo nto Ukuba awusebenzi kunye neqela elomeleleyo lokhathalelo lwempilo olukuxhasayo kwaye likukhokele, kuya kufuneka ufumane elinye iqela, abanye abasebenzi abathi badlulise ubunzima ecaleni komfazi kwaye bahambe kunye. Ukuzihlola ngaphambi kokuba ukhulelwe lukhuthazo kunye noxanduva. Ngokukodwa kwimeko yokuba nembali yosapho yomhlaza.