Amakhono amahle okuxhumana nabantu avumela izingane ukuba zijabulele ubuhlobo obungcono nontanga yazo. Kodwa izinzuzo zidlulela ngalé kokwamukelwa komphakathi. Izingane ezinamakhono angcono okuxhumana nabantu cishe zithole izinzuzo ezengeziwe zesikhashana. Ngokwesibonelo, olunye ucwaningo lwabonisa lokho amakhono amahle omphakathi anganciphisa ukucindezeleka ezinganeni abasenkulisa.
Amakhono okuxhumana nabantu adinga ukuthuthukiswa njalo njengoba izingane zikhula. Akuyona into ingane enayo noma engenayo. Lawa makhono angafundwa futhi aqiniswe ngomzamo nokuzijwayeza.. Amanye amakhono okuxhumana nabantu ayinkimbinkimbi, njengokuqonda ukuthi kubalulekile ukugomela esimweni esinzima noma ukuthula lapho ukhuluma ngeke kwenze izinto zibe ngcono.
Indlela yokuthuthukisa amakhono omphakathi?
Zimbalwa izinto ezingakhungathekisa ngaphezu kokubuka ingane yakho ilwela ukuthola abangane noma ukuba nobunzima ekulungiseni izilungiselelo ezithile zomphakathi. Yingakho ke, Abazali kufanele bathathe izinyathelo ezithile zokuvumela izingane zabo ukuba zithuthukise amakhono azo omphakathi. Ake sibone ukuthi yini esingayenza njengabazali.
Yiba nesithakazelo kulokho akuthandayo
Ukujabulela abanye kungokwemvelo uma ingane yenza okuthile okuthakazelisayo kuyo. Yingakho ke, bakhuthaze ukuthi bathuthukise izinto abazithandayo. Noma ngabe idlala umdlalo owuthandayo, ukudlala insimbi yomculo, noma ukujoyina iklabhu oyithandayo, lesi isinyathelo sokuqala sokwakha amakhono omphakathi. Ukuba phakathi kwabantu abanezintshisekelo ezifanayo kuzoba isinyathelo sokuqala sokuthi uqale ukuzizwa ukhululeke kakhudlwana kuzilungiselelo zomphakathi.
Nakuba kubalulekile ukukwazi ukusebenzelana nabantu abanezithakazelo nezithandwa ezahlukene, ukuqala ngezingane ezinomqondo ofanayo kuyindlela enhle yokwakha amakhono omphakathi kalula kakhudlwana. Njengoba behlangana nezingane ezifanayo, bazoqala ukuthola ukuthi kukhona nezinto abangahlangani ngazo.
Bangafunda ukubuza imibuzo
Kwesinye isikhathi lapho izingane ziba novalo zingaba ziningi ama-introverts, futhi ngenxa yalokho, bangase babe nobunzima ezimweni zenhlalo ezizayo. Kodwa kunezindlela eziningana izingane ezingaqala ngazo futhi zilondoloze izingxoxo ezakhayo nabanye. Indlela ebaluleke kakhulu ukubuza imibuzo.
Indlela engcono kakhulu yokwazi abanye futhi wakhe ukuxhumana iwukubuza imibuzo eqondise ngqo kumuntu ingane ekhuluma naye. Ngakho khuthaza izingane zakho ukuba zibuze imibuzo eyinkimbinkimbi engaphendulwa ngoyebo noma cha. Ngale ndlela, ezinye izingane ziyobona ukuthi izingane zakho zinesithakazelo kuzo, futhi ubungane obuqinile buyoqala ukwakheka.
fundisa ukuzwelana
Uma izingane ziyiqonda kangcono indlela abanye abazizwa ngayo, kukhulu kungenzeka ukuthi uzizwe uxhumene nabanye abantu futhi wakhe izibopho ezinhle. Abazali baveza isihloko sozwela ngokuxoxa ngezimo nezimo ezihlukahlukene nezingane zabo. Buza izingane zakho ukuthi abanye abantu bazozizwa kanjani ezimeni ezahlukene.
Ingxenye yokufundisa uzwela siza izingane zifunde ukulalela abanye ngentshiseko. Lokhu kuhilela ukugxila kulokho abanye abakushoyo bese ucabanga ngalokho abakushilo ngemva kokuba ingxoxo isiphelile.
Yazi imikhawulo yengane yakho
Ezinye izingane zinobungane kakhulu kunezinye, ngakho akufanele ziphoqwe. Ingane enamahloni, engenangqondo akufanele ilindeleke ukuthi ihlanganyele ngendlela efanayo nengane ephumayo. Okwemvelo. Ezinye izingane zinethezekile kuzilungiselelo ezinkulu, kuyilapho ezinye zikuthola kulula ukuhlobana nontanga yazo uma zisemaqenjini amancane. Kubalulekile futhi ukuqonda imikhawulo yesikhathi yengane. Izingane ezincane nalabo abanazo izidingo ezikhethekile vele uzizwe ukhululekile ukuzihlanganisa ihora noma amabili.
Yiba yisibonelo esihle
Kubalulekile ukuqaphela indlela osebenzelana ngayo nabanye lapho izingane zakho zikubhekile. Buza imibuzo futhi ulalele futhi. Bonisa uzwela kubangani bakho nomndeni wakho. Akulula ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuba isibonelo esihle ezinganeniKudinga ukuzikhandla nokubona izinto kusengaphambili. Kodwa ungakhohlwa ukuthi izingane zihlala zibuka abantu abadala abaseduze kwazo, futhi zama ukufana nazo.