Ukuba ngumzali akuwona umsebenzi olula futhi ukukhulisa ingane ukuthi ihloniphe, ibekezele, ibe nomthwalo futhi isebenze kanzima kuyiphupho lanoma yimuphi umzali. Kepha izingane akulula ukuzikhulisa futhi ezikhathini eziningi, zifunda izindlela zokuziphatha (ezinhle nezimbi) ngokubheka abazali bazo. Abazali kudingeka bazi ukuthi ekugcineni babhekene nomsebenzi wokukhulisa izingane zabo.
Kunezindlela ezithile ezilula ongazenza usuku nosuku ukuze izingane zakho zibone kuwe isibonelo esihle. Yizenzo ezincane ezizokwenza izingane zakho ziqaphele indlela yakho yokwenza empilweni yansuku zonke. Khumbula ukuthi izenzo zinamandla amakhulu kunamazwi uma kuziwa ekwakheni izingane zakho. Yini enye, uma amagama engahambi ngokwezenzo lapho-ke kuzoba khona umehluko ongaba mubi kakhulu ukuba yisibonelo esihle ezinganeni.
Thola ngezansi ezinye zezindlela ezilula zokuba yisibonelo esihle ezinganeni zakho futhi ubone kuwe isibonelo esihle. Yizenzo ezincane ezizokwenza ushintsho olukhulu ezinganeni zakho.
Izindlela zokuba yisibonelo esihle ezinganeni zakho
Bamba umnyango wabanye abantu ezindaweni zomphakathi
Akukhathalekile ukuthi usesitolo, umtapo wezincwadi noma indawo yokudlela, isenzo esilula esizosiza ingane yakho ukuthi iqonde inhlonipho yabanye abantu futhi ibhekele nabanye. Kuyindlela yokufundisa izingane ngaphandle kokusho noma yini.
Ukunakekela umuntu ophilayo
Zonke izingane ziyathanda ukuba nezilwane ezifuywayo kepha akuzona zonke ezikwazi ukuzinakekela kahle futhi abazali bagcina sebeziphethe. Kepha ukuba nesilwane (noma isitshalo esincane uma ungafuni ukuthatha umthwalo omningi) kulungile ukuthi ingane yakho ibone ukuthi uyinakekela kanjani leyonto ephilayo nsuku zonke. Khombisa ingane yakho ukuthi ukunakekela izinto eziphilayo kudingekile futhi kunomvuzo. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukunikeza nokubonisa uthando.
Yiba ngumthandi wokufunda
Ngaphambi nje kokuba ulale ungakhombisa ingane yakho incwadi oyifundayo noma ukuthi ufunda kanjani i-athikili ethokozisayo evela kumagazini. Izinzuzo zokufunda azipheli, futhi lapho ingane yakho ifunda ukwazisa nokujabulela amagama, ingane yakho encane ingaba umfundi omuhle futhi ifunde izinto ezinhle ngokufunda.
Musa ukuntula fun
Yazisa ingane yakho ukuthi kulungile ukuzijabulisa nsuku zonke, ukuthi kulungile uma ngengozi engcolisa izingubo zakhe lapho efuna ukudlala engadini. Fundisa ingane yakho ukuthokozela imvula, esihlabathini noma eqhweni. Impilo eqinile ngokweqile ayikufanele ukuphila, futhi kwesinye isikhathi ukuguquguquka kokuzijabulisa nokuzijabulisa nakho kulungile. Ungathatha ikhefu ngezikhathi ezithile kusuka emingceleni ukukhombisa ingane yakho uhlangothi lwakho oluzenzekelayo nolukhululekile.
Yiba nabangane beqiniso
Akudingekile ukuba nabangane abaningi, kodwa abangane onabo kumele babe ngokoqobo. Akusizi ngalutho ukuba nabangane abaningi uma benganikeli ngalutho empilweni yakho. Ingane yakho izobona ukuthi unabo ngempela abangane empilweni yakho noma uma ngezikhathi ezibaluleke kakhulu, uwedwa. Kunezikhathi lapho kuba ngcono khona ukuba nabangane abambalwa nokuthi bangokoqobo kunokuba babe nabaningi kakhulu nokuthi akusizi ngalutho ngoba ababona abangane, kodwa abantu obajwayele.
Kubalulekile ukufundisa ukuthi ungahlukanisa kanjani ubungane beqiniso kulabo abangekho. Khombisa ingane yakho ukuthi uxhumana kanjani nabangane bakho nokuthi kubaluleke kangakanani empilweni yakho. Ngale ndlela uzobe ufundisa ingane yakho esinye sezifundo ezibaluleke kakhulu empilweni: ube ngumngane omuhle bese ugcina lezo ezibaluleke ngempela empilweni yakho.
Yiba nempilo enempilo
Indlela yokuphila ingane yakho enayo esikhathini esizayo izothinta kakhulu indlela yokuphila eye yaziwa ekhaya lakho njengoba ikhula. Kubalulekile ukuthi ube nemikhuba efanele yokudla ekhaya nokuthi wazi ukuthi ukuzivocavoca umzimba kuyingxenye ebalulekile yempilo yansuku zonke yawo wonke amalungu omndeni.
Futhi, Ukuzivocavoca njengomndeni kuyindlela engcono kakhulu yokuthi izingane zikufundise ukubaluleka kwezemidlalo. Khombisa ingane yakho ukubaluleka kokuzivocavoca nsuku zonke noma ngokuqhubekayo. Hlela imisebenzi yezemidlalo ekhaya noma kwenye indawo njengengxenye yempilo yakho yansuku zonke neyomndeni.
Yiba umthengi onokwethenjelwa
Siphila emphakathini wokusaphaza nokusetshenziswa budedengu. Abantu abaningi bathenga izinto abangazidingi ukuthenga nje, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi ingane yakho ibone kuwe ukuthi ungumthengi onokwethenjelwa nokuthi lokho okuthengayo ukwenze ngokuhlakanipha, ngoba Udinga ngempela leyo mikhiqizo ngaphandle kokuthi ube yisifiso esizophelela ekhabetheni.
Uma uya enxanxatheleni yezitolo, tshela ingane yakho ukuthi kufanele uthenge amabhulukwe ngoba uyawadinga kodwa lawo abiza kakhulu awafanele ngaso sonke isikhathi. Kufanele wazi ukuthi ungahlukanisa kanjani phakathi kwekhwalithi nentengo yemikhiqizo, futhi futhi uthenge kuphela lokho okufanele ngempela. Izingane zakho kufanele zifunde ukuthi ukuba nesabelomali sokuthenga kubalulekile nokuthi imali kufanele iphathwe ngokuhlakanipha nangokuzibophezela.
Yiba namahlaya
Ukuhlala uthukuthele noma kukhala izexwayiso akuyona inketho enhle ngaso sonke isikhathi. Ukuba nomqondo omuhle wokuhlekisa kuyinto encomekayo nobuhle okufanele busetshenzelwe futhi bugcinwe. Shiya eceleni ukuphawula okubhuqayo okuthi yize kubonakala kukuhlakaniphe kakhulu kuwe, kuyindlela yokuthukuthela enolaka yokuxhumana nabanye. Akuwona umqondo omuhle ukuhleka abanye kodwa nabanye. Khombisa ingane yakho ubuso bakho obuhle nokubaluleka kokuzihleka wena nabanye.
Lezi ezinye zezibonelo ongaba yisibonelo esihle kuzo izingane zakho, kepha ngokuqinisekile uzothola izindlela eziningi, ungasitshela ukuthi iziphi?