Un ingane ngaphambi kwesikhathi ozalwa ngaphambi kwesonto lama-37, angase abe nezinkinga zempilo ezengeziwe phakathi nokukhula kwakhe. Namuhla ikhwalithi ekukhuleni kwalezi zingane iqinisekisiwe kakhulu, noma kunjalo, kuyadingeka bheka ukukhula kwabo phakathi nezinyanga zokuqala. Sihlaziya ukuthi izingane ezizalwa ngaphambi kwesikhathi zikhasa eminyakeni emingaki nokuthi ukuvela kwazo kunjani.
Ngokusho i-Spanish Association of Pediatrics, izingane ziqala ukukhasa phakathi Izinyanga eziyisi-8 neziyi-10. Ngisho nale datha, ingane ngayinye izoncika ekuhlulekeni kwayo nasekuzilawuleni kwayo, njengoba ingase yehluke kwezinye izingane. Izingane ezizalwa ngaphambi kwesikhathi zinenye indlela yokuxazulula ukukhula kwazo ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo, ngoba lokhu sizohlaziya ukuthi zithuthuka kanjani ekufundeni kwazo.
Izingane ezizalwa ngaphambi kwesikhathi ziqala nini ukukhasa?
Ukugqugquzeleka, uthando nokungahlaliseki komntwana Kuzoba yizizathu ezizoqhubekisela phambili umzuzu wokukhasa. Akuzona zonke izingane ezikhasayo, njengoba ezinye zivuma ukuhamba kunokukhasa. Izingane ezizalwa ngaphambi kwesikhathi zigcina isikhathi esinensa kakhulu sokufunda, ngoba zingakwazi ibambezela ukuzimela kwayo kuze kufike ezinyangeni ezimbili ngaphezu kokujwayelekile.
Izingane ezizalwa ngaphambi kwesikhathi zifinyelela ezinyangeni eziyi-10 ukuze ziqale ukukhasa. Cishe cishe izinyanga eziyisi-8 lapho beqala ukuma baqonde, okuyinto eyiqiniso. Uma, ngemva kwezinyanga ezingu-10, ungakafinyeleli izinhloso ezithile, kufanele uzithathe njengedatha, kodwa ngaphandle kokuba uphawu lokukhathazeka.
Ngesikhathi sokuvakashela udokotela wezingane, intuthuko yengane kufanele ibuyekezwe ngaso sonke isikhathi, uma kukhona okungahambisani, yilapho kunesizathu sokwethuka. Akukho ukujaha ngoba ukuhamba kwakho kusenesikhathi, kodwa uma ingane inesikhathi esinzima, kufanele uyisize ukuze imkhuthaze.
Izivivinyo zokukhuthaza ingane ukuba igaqe
Abazali bangasiza ukuzama ukukhasa, ngisho nakwenye intuthuko, njengokuhlala uqondile noma ukukwazi ukuhambisa izandla nezinyawo zabo ukuba zinyakaze. Kuzoba umzuzu wokudlulela lapho kunganwetshwa khona emasontweni ambalwa okuzama, ngesinye isikhathi kuzofeza inhloso futhi ngezinye izikhathi ngeke.
Beka amathoyizi akho owathandayo kude kancane lapho engafinyeleleki khona, ukumkhuthaza ukuthi adlale. Ngale ndlela uzokhasa noma azame ukukhasa lapho efuna ukubabamba. Ungakwazi futhi ukuthi izingane zakubo noma abazali bakhase eduze kwabo ukuze balingise ukunyakaza. Beka indilinga yamakhushini emzungezile futhi umkhuthaze ukuthi azame ukuyibamba.
Ukukhula komntwana owazalwa ngendlela evamile uma kuqhathaniswa nomntwana ozalwa ngaphambi kwesikhathi
Ukubala ukukhula ngokomzimba komntwana ozalwa ngaphambi kwesikhathi kulula. Okulandelayo, sichaza kabanzi ukuthi umntwana ozelwe okuvamile uqhubeka kanjani phakathi nonyaka wokuqala wokuphila kwakhe. Ukubala amakhono omntwana ngaphambi kwesikhathi kufanele ukhiphe amasonto. Isibonelo, uma amaviki angu-16 angaphambi kwesikhathi esohlwini, kodwa ingane yayinamaviki angu-6 ngaphambi kokuzalwa kwayo, kufanele sibambezele lawo maviki angu-6 kusenesikhathi.
- Emavikini ama-4 (izinyanga ezi-2) ingane iqala ukuphakamisa ikhanda. Uqala ukunyakazisa izingalo nemilenze futhi usevele ebambe ezinye izinto ngezandla zakhe.
- Emavikini ama-16 (izinyanga ezi-6) ingane iqala ukukhasa iphakamise imilenze, ibeka izandla emlonyeni, ixhumana nabantu.
- Emavikini angama-32 (izinyanga eziyi-9) Usevele wakhasa wasukuma esizwa izingalo zomuntu omdala. Uzama ukulingisa imisindo ayizwayo futhi usevele esho amagama angawodwa afana nomama nobaba. Uvele ebambe izinto ngezandla.
- Ngamaviki angu-40 (ezinyangeni ezingu-12) ingane isiqala ukuthatha izinyathelo zayo zokuqala. Engeza amagama engeziwe kusilulumagama sakho futhi uqale ukuba nokuzimela okwengeziwe.
Izinkinga zokufunda ezinganeni ezizalwa ngaphambi kwesikhathi
Izingane ezizalwa ngaphambi kwesikhathi zingaba nezinkinga zokufunda ngenxa yobuchopho obungavuthiwe kanye nesimiso sezinzwa. Bangase balethe izinkinga ekuthuthukisweni kwezimoto ukuze kuqhubeke ikhanda, khasa o hamba. Ngisho nalapho ufunda ukudla nokugqoka ngokuzimela. Kulezi zimo, umfana noma intombazane ingase idinge usizo ekwelapheni ngokomzimba noma emsebenzini.