Kuze kube kungekudala, abesifazane babehlala emakhaya ukuze banakekele izingane zabo. Ngenhlanhla, namuhla, lesi kungaba yisinqumo esenziwa ngabesifazane ngokukhululeka ngaphandle kokuba yisibopho emphakathini. Kunabantu abaningi abacabanga ukuthi ukuhlala ekhaya unakekelwa ngumndeni nezingane kuyimpilo yokunethezeka (Noma sikhumbula ukuthi awukhokhisi i-euro ukukwenza), kepha ukuthi akudingeki ukuthi 'usebenze', awudingi ukubekezelela 'abaphathi' futhi ungaphila ngaphandle kwengcindezi amahora angama-24 ngosuku.
Lokhu akulona iqiniso ngokuphelele, futhi kuyadingeka ukuthi uqale wazi ukuthi yiziphi izinzuzo, kepha nobubi bokuba ngumama ohlala ekhaya onakekela izingane nendlu. Ngale ndlela, ungakhetha ngokukhululekile uma lokhu kuhamba nawe noma cha.
Uzohlala useduze nezingane zakho
Lesi yisona sizathu esikhulu esenza ukuthi owesifazane nomama bakhethe indlela yokuhlala ekhaya. Ine-pro yokuthi njengomama uhlala ekhaya futhi uzohlala usohlangothini lwendodana yakho lapho ikudinga. Kepha kunenkinga yokuthi ukuhlala useduze nezingane zakho njalo kungakwenza uzizwe uvalelekile. Ungahle uthande ukuba ngumama ohlala ekhaya, kepha kuzoba nezikhathi lapho ufisa sengathi ungazintshontshela imizuzwana embalwa.
Ukuze ube nokulinganisela kubalulekile ukuthi ube nezikhathi zakho, zokunakekelwa komuntu siqu nangokwengqondo. Ukunakekelwa kwakho ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo kuncike: ekulaleni ngokwanele, ukudla kahle, ukuzivocavoca, nokuba nesikhathi sokuphumula.
Awungedwa
Uzohlala njalo unezingane zakho eduze. Ine-pro yokuthi izingane zakho zizoba nawe cishe njalo ehoreni losuku, uzoba lapho kukho konke: izinyathelo zabo zokuqala, amagama abo okuqala, ukuwa kwabo kokuqala ... Kepha kunengozi yokuthi awusoze waba wedwa , okungukuthi awusoze waba wedwa ngokoqobo ... Awukwazi ngisho nokuya endlini yangasese uwedwa.
Ukuthola ibhalansi Kuzofanele ubeke imingcele ethile yomuntu siqu, lokhu akukubi, kepha kufanele ukwenzele impilo yakho yengqondo.
Awusebenzi ngaphandle kwekhaya
Ngenxa yokungasebenzi ngaphandle kwekhaya, unganikela nge-100% lesikhathi sakho namandla akho ezinganeni zakho ngoba awukhathazeki ngezinsuku zomsebenzi, noma isiminyaminya somgwaqo, noma umphathi okuhlukumezayo. Lokhu kunenkinga yokuthi ulahlekelwe ukuxhumana nabanye abantu abadala, ukuthi ulahlekelwe umuzwa wokwenza umsebenzi omuhle, ube nomholo futhi ugqoke kahle ukuya ehhovisi.
Ukuthola ibhalansi ungakuthola lokhu kwaneliseka futhi uxhumane nabanye abantu abadala uma uvolontiya esikoleni sezingane zakho, ezinhlanganweni zomphakathi emphakathini wakho. Ungaba futhi nemali encane uma uthola umsebenzi wesikhashana ekhaya noma wenza uhlobo oluthile lomsebenzi ozimele njengokwenza ubuciko noma izindlela zokupheka ukuze uzithengise kamuva.
Ukhulisa izingane zakho
Uzogxila kakhulu ekukhuleni kwengane yakho, futhi empeleni, lokhu akukhokhelwa ngemali. Ine-pro yokuthi izingane zakho zizoba nawe cishe ngaso sonke isikhathi futhi ngeke kube ngomunye umuntu okhulisa izingane zakho ngoba kufanele ube ungekho ekhaya. Unquma ukuthi badlani, amashejuli abo namanani abafunda kuwo. Unesibopho sezimpilo zabo njengoba bekhula. Okubi ukuthi ungakha i-bubble cishe unganakile futhi uzihlukanise nomhlaba, futhi uhlukanise izingane zakho unganakile.
Ukuthola ibhalansi kungcono ukuthi ngezikhathi ezithile uhlangane nabangane bakho, ukuthi uhlelele izingane zakho nabangane babo umdlalo wakusihlwa ekhaya ... ukuze nonke niziveze ngendlela enempilo ezindaweni zenhlalo ngenkathi nisakhulisa izingane zakho.
Nguwe ogijima ekhaya lakho
Ukuphathwa kwekhaya kuyingxenye yokuhlala ekhaya yomsebenzi womama. Kunenzuzo yokwazi yonke into ethinta ikhaya lakho: ukukhokha izikweletu, ukuhlanza, ukuyisa izingane yonke indawo, ukugcina ikhalenda yomndeni ilawulwa… Kepha okubi ukuthi isisindo sonke sekhaya siwela kuwe. Noma umlingani wakho enguzakwethu ohamba phambili emhlabeni, Kuzoba nezikhathi lapho uzozizwa ucindezeleke kakhulu uzama ukuhambisana nakho konke ngenkathi ukhulisa izingane.
Ukuze uthole ibhalansi, nika omunye umlingani wakho imisebenzi ethile. Ngokuqondene nezingane, uma wenza kanjalo, uzobe uzifundisa amakhono empilo abalulekile nokuziphendulela uma zisiza ngokuwasha izingubo, ukuhlanza nokupheka, ukubala nje ezimbalwa.
Unegebe ekuqaleni kwakho
Lo mphakathi awuqondi, kepha kuyiqiniso. Uma unakekela izingane zakho uzoba negebe ku-resume yakho futhi ngeke kusakhombisa ukuthi ubusebenza ngokuqhubekayo. Lokhu kungaba yi-pro ngoba lapho ufuna ukubuyela emsebenzini wakho kungahle kube nemisebenzi lapho kusiza khona ukufinyelela, kepha ngokungahambisani, ungathola izinkampani ezingakuboni ngamehlo amahle futhi ungaqondi ukuthi kungani ukwenzile. Kuzofanele futhi uncintisane nabantu abancane kunawe futhi ube nokuhlangenwe nakho kwakamuva kakhulu.
Ukulinganisa lokhu, kuwumqondo omuhle ukuthatha izifundo, umsebenzi wokuzithandela noma umsebenzi ozimele ongawenza ekhaya ngenkathi unakekela izingane zakho. Ngale ndlela, lapho ufuna ukujoyina kabusha impilo yomsebenzi, ngeke ube negebe elikhulu kangaka.
Unemizwa exubile
Uzoba nemizwa exubile ngoba ngeke ukwazi ukufaka isandla ukusiza umndeni ngokwezezimali futhi lokhu kungadala ukuthi ube nemizwa ephikisanayo ngaphakathi kwakho. Lokhu njenge pro ukuthi ngakolunye uhlangothi ungagcina uphethiloli, ama-kangaroo, izingubo, njll. Kodwa okuphambene nalokho ukuthi imali engenayo yabantu ababili yehliswa ngomunye. Umnotho ungalimala futhi kuzoncishiswa izindleko zenyanga zonke.
Ukuthola ibhalansi kuzodingeka ube nesabelomali somndeni esicatshangelwe kahle futhi usungule ukwehlisa ingcindezi yezomnotho futhi wenze izinqumo ezilula zomnotho. Kuyadingeka ukukhumbula ukuthi kufanele ube nesibopho esihle sezezimali.