Kuwo wonke lo nyaka sikwazile ukubona ukuthi umphakathi ubushintsha kanjani nokuthi lokho ukuthi ezinsukwini ezingama-365 isikhathi esiningi kunesanele sokuthi abantu baguquke noma bahlale njengoba benjalo. Abazali nabo bebelokhu bethatha izitayela ezithile zokuba ngumzali kulo nyaka nokuthi kubonakala sengathi izohlala unyaka wonke ozayo, futhi ngubani owaziyo? Bangase futhi bahlale isikhathi eside.
Kungenzeka ukuthi ezinye zalezi zitayela zobuzali azikufaneli noma ucabanga ukuthi zifanele nokuthi nawe uzoqala ukuzizama ukuze zijabulele ukuzwana okukhulu komndeni. Umndeni ngamunye wehlukile nokuthi lezi zitayela zobuzali manje sezisefeshini akusho ukuthi kufanele uzilandele ngaphandle kokukholelwa kuzo. Kufanele uthole ukuthi yini okusebenzela kangcono wena nomndeni wakho, kungaba yilezi zitayela zobuzali noma abanye.
Isidingo sokwenza impilo ibe lula
Imindeni namuhla inemisebenzi eminingi kakhulu, ihlale imatasa futhi ayinaso isikhathi sokuxhumana. Abazali nezingane kwesinye isikhathi bamatasa kakhulu ngemicimbi yokuzijabulisa, imisebenzi yangemva kwesikole, noma ezinye izinto kangangokuba bachitha isikhathi esincane sekhwalithi ekhaya. Ngenxa yalokho, imindeni ifuna - futhi idinga - ukuba nezindlela zokuphila ezilula ... ifake amabhuleki futhi ikwazi ukuba ndawonye.
Esikhundleni sokucabanga ukuthi bangakwenza konke, omama baqala ukubona ukuthi akunjalo futhi bafune usizo ngaphandle kwekhaya. Isibonelo, babheka othisha bokuqinisa, izangoma zengqondo, ochwepheshe bokuhlanza ukuze babasize ngemisebenzi yasendlini, ochwepheshe bokwenza amakhekhe ezinsuku zokuzalwa, ababungazi bezingane emaphathini ezingane, njll.
Lo mkhuba wesitayela sobuzali sokushintsha kwemithwalo yemfanelo uvumela abazali ukuthi bakwazi ukubuyela emuva futhi badedele umthwalo omncane wokuchitha isikhathi esithe xaxa nezingane zabo futhi bazinakekele ngokomzwelo. Yize kusobala ukuthi ukuze ukwazi ukucela usizo kwabanye abantu udinga imali ukuze ukwazi ukukhokha imali yalaba bantu.
Abagcini bezingane ababili kunoyedwa
Kubukeka sengathi ukuba nezimbokodo ezimbili yinto enganikezwa kuphela ngabacebile nabadumile, kepha kulo nyaka imindeni eminingi iye yakhetha ukuba nabazukulu ababili kancane kancane. AbakwaNannies basebenza amahora ambalwa futhi amashejuli abo alungele kangcono izidingo zomndeni, ngakho-ke kuyindlela yokudala yokuba nabantu ababili ngamahora ahlukene noma alinganayo ukubasiza kulo lonke isonto.
Lo mkhuba ubonakala uqhubeka nokukhula ngonyaka ozayo, ngoba imindeni ifuna abagada izingane babasize ngakho konke, kusuka ekunakekelweni kwengane kuya emisebenzini yasekhaya. Lokhu kusho ukuthi kukhokhwa isikhathi esengeziwe esingengaphansi futhi kunabanakekeli abahlukene. Ihluke kakhulu ezinganeni futhi unethuba lokuqasha abanakekeli abahlukahlukene ngamazinga okusebenza ahlukile, ngaleyo ndlela uhlangabezane nezidingo ezahlukahlukene emndenini ofanayo.
Inkululeko encane yokuba ngumzali
Abazali abaningi baqala ukukhathala ukulandela izimfundiso noma imfundiso ekufundiseni izingane zabo futhi bacele inkululeko yokuba ngabazali. Abazali bafuna izingane zabo zikhule futhi zikhule ngokukhululeka ngaphandle kokuveza ukulawula okuningi noma ukuzimela phezu kwazo, abafuni ukuba njalo abazali bendiza enophephela emhlane. Imayelana nokwenza izingane zifunde ukuzenzela izinto, abazali kube yisiqondiso sazo.
Le ndlela iya ngomfutho emhlabeni wonke njengoba ingasiza ukufundisa izingane ukuthi zizethembe futhi zibe ngabantu abadala abanekhono. Lokhu kukhuliswa kufuna ukuthi izingane zikhule ngokukhululeka, ziveze imizwa yazo, zibe nokulawula kwazo nokuzimela. Kepha-ke, lo mkhuba ozwakala umuhle kakhulu, udinga ukuqinisekiswa ngabazali. Kulungile ukuthi izingane zibe nokulawula okuthile noma zizwe ukuthi zingathatha isinqumo, kodwa ngaso sonke isikhathi ngaphansi kweso elibukhali labazali bazo. Umqondo omuhle ukusebenzela ukuxhumana okukhulu ngokomzwelo phakathi kwabazali nezingane.
Omama abangabodwa nobaba abangabodwa
Eminyakeni yakamuva, imindeni enomzali oyedwa seyande kakhulu ukwedlula lokho okwaziwa ngokuthi 'umndeni wenuzi' onomndeni owakhiwa ngumama, ubaba nezingane. Namuhla, kunezinhlobo zonke zemindeni enomzali oyedwa ephethwe ngabesifazane noma abesilisa, noma ngabe obaba, omama abakhulisa izingane zabo noma ogogo noma ogogo noma ogogo abakhulisa abazukulu babo.
Noma ngabe sikuphi isimo sakho, uma usungule umndeni womzali oyedwa, unganqikazi ukucela umndeni wakho nabangane usizo ukuze ukwazi ukuqhubekela phambili uma kuyilokho okudingayo ngalesi sikhathi. Khumbula ukuthi ukucela usizo akubuthakathaka nokuthi ukukhulisa izingane, umphakathi uyadingeka.
Hola impilo enempilo
Ukukhuluphala kwengane kukhathaza imindeni eminingi njengoba kukhula kakhulu emphakathini wanamuhla. Izingane eziningi zikhuluphele noma zikhuluphele ngokweqile. Abazali baqala ukubona ukuthi ukukhuluphala kwengane kukhulisa ubungozi bezifo ezingalapheki kamuva empilweni yalezi zingane nokuthi kufanele zilashwe ngokushesha okukhulu.
Ngalo nyaka, abazali abaningi baqale ukwazi ngokudla kwezingane zabo futhi bazama ukunciphisa inani lokudla okungenamsoco - njengama-hamburger, ukudla okusetshenzisiwe, amaswidi noma iziphuzo ezine-carbonated - abazidla nsuku zonke ekhaya. Izinkampani eziningi ziyaqaphela ukuthi ukwandisa ukusetshenziswa kwamakhasimende, kufanele zinikele ngemikhiqizo enempilo.
Lezi ngezinye zezitayela zobuzali eze emphakathini wethu futhi kubonakala sengathi zizohlala. Okucacayo ukuthi abazali baqala ukubona ukuthi badinga isikhathi esithe xaxa sabo, ukuthi usizo olwengeziwe emndenini kwesinye isikhathi luyadingeka, futhi lokho ... impilo yomzimba nengqondo akuyona into okufanele ithathwe kalula.