Kuze kube maduze nje bekucatshangwa ukuthi indima yokukhulisa izingane yayiyiyo leyo kamama ngokuphelele. Ubaba, umuntu onzima ngokwedlulele futhi oqhelelene ngokwengeziwe ngokomzwelo ezinganeni, ubonakale esebenza kahle, kepha iqiniso ukuthi lokhu kudale kuphela ukushiyeka okukhulu ezinganeni, manje sezikhulile. Ukushoda ngokomzwelo obekungagwenywa ngokuphathwa okuhlukile kobuzali.
Abazali bebelokhu benendima enkulu futhi basenayo indima enkulu ekukhuliseni izingane zabo. Ziyadingeka ukuze abancane babe nokukhula okuzinzile ngokomzwelo. Ngenhlanhla, kubonakala sengathi lokhu sekuqala ukushintsha nokuthi imindeni isiqala ukubona ukubaluleka kwabo bobabili abazali (ngokulinganayo emfundweni yezingane zabo).
Ushintsho ekukhuliseni
Esikhathini esedlule nangokucabanga kwabantu abaningi nokuphelelwa yisikhathi kwabantu abaningi, bekukholelwa ukuthi into elungile ukuthi owesilisa athathe imali ayise ekhaya nokuthi owesifazane abhekele indlu nezingane, evotele wonke amandla abo njengowesifazane nomuntu. Lokhu, Lokhu akusenjalo futhi akufanele kube sezingxenyeni eziningi zomhlaba wethu namuhla. Abesifazane abangena emkhakheni wezemisebenzi baphoqe imindeni ukuthi ihlele kabusha izindima zayo futhi, ngaphezu kwalokho, umphakathi ukubonile ukubaluleka kwamadoda nabesifazane ekukhuliseni izingane.
Akumangazi ukuthi emakhaya amaningi akhona manje owesifazane uyena kuphela umuntu onikela ngemali ekhaya nokuthi indoda yiyo ephethe indlu nezingane ... Futhi lokhu, impela, ngeke kumphazamise virility, kahle kakhulu okuphambene. Indoda eyaziyo ukunakekela izingane zayo, ikhaya layo, umlingani wayo, ophuma aye emsebenzini, owaziyo ukubaluleka kwesimo sakhe ezimpilweni zezingane zakhe ... Ngaphandle kokungabaza uyindoda enakho konke izincwadi ezikhathalele inhlalakahle yomndeni wakho.
Indima kababa ekukhuliseni izingane
Ukukhulisa izingane kungenye yemisebenzi esabekayo umzali ayoke abe nayo, yingxenye ebaluleke kakhulu yokuphila kwabo. Kunzima kodwa Kuyinto enhle kakhulu owake wayazi. Izingane ziyisipho esihle kunazo zonke sabazali, futhi ukuzibuka zikhula futhi kube nomthelela ekukhuleni kwazo yilungelo elihle kakhulu abazali abangaba nalo. Kungakho abazali kufanele banake ukubaluleka kobudlelwano babo obuthinta imizwa nezingane zabo. Abazali bangabasiza babe nempilo ephumelelayo.
Uma ubaba esebenzisana ngokufanele ekukhuleni kwezingane zakhe, khona-ke bangakhula futhi baphile ngokuzibophezela, bangaba ngabantu abadala abaphumelelayo.
Abazali akufanele basekele umama noma kunini, okungukuthi, banomthwalo ofanayo nomama ekukhuliseni izingane kuzo zonke izici. Abazali, njengomama, kufanele banakekele izingane zabo, babanikeze ukuphepha ekukhuleni kwabo, badlulise amanani futhi babeke imingcele. Obaba nomama kufanele babe sendleleni efanayo emfundweni yezingane zabo, ukuze izingane zikwazi ukubona ukuhambisana nokusekelwa okungenamibandela kubazali bazo.
Ubaba futhi uzohlala eyisibonelo sokwesekwa nokuphepha ezinganeni zakhe, into engangabazeki ukuthi izophazamisa ngqo ebuntwini bezingane, ekuzethembeni ezinakho ngokwazo nasemhlabeni ozizungezile. Izingane zidinga ukuba nobudlelwano obuhle nabazali bazo ukuze zikhule emhlabeni. Bazodinga ukuhlanganyela isikhathi sekhwalithi nsuku zonke nabazali babo, babe nendawo ephephile lapho bezizwa bevikelwe futhi bethandwa ngokungenamibandela.
Ngamandla, kepha ngaphandle kokwesaba
Izindima zishintshile kumuntu ongubaba. Kuze kube kungekudala kwakucatshangwa ukuthi ukuba negunya ezimpilweni zezingane ukuthi bezizwa besaba lapho ubaba ekhuluma. Kepha ukwesaba akufundisi, futhi akukhuthazi igunya elihle, ngaphezu kwalokho, kuyakhathaza ukuthi loluvalo luthinta kanjani kabi ezimpilweni zezingane. Ezikhathini eziningi kuyaqhubeka ukwenzeka ukuthi isibalo sikababa silinganiselwe ekubekeni ukuhleleka ngokwesaba, lokhu kungumdlandla womndeni osenziwa ...
Ngenhlanhla Lo mbono oqinile wobaba uqala ukushintsha futhi ube nombono owenele wokukhula okufanele kwezingane. Abazali bayaqonda ukuthi ukwesaba akufundisi futhi ngaphezu kwalokho, igunya lingatholakala kuphela ngothando nangokuqonda izidingo zezingane. Ukuqina akuhambisani nokumemeza nemikhuba emibi, ngoba lokhu kukhombisa ubuthakathaka kuphela nokungazi ukuthi kufanele kwenziwe kanjani lapho ubhekene nokukhuliswa.
Imisebenzi yasekhaya isatshalaliswa ngokungaqondakali phakathi komama nobaba, into engangabazeki ukuthi izosiza kakhulu izingane. Abazali manje sebenakekela ukunakekelwa kwansuku zonke kwezingane, ekunakekelweni kwabo ngokomzimba kodwa nasekukhuleni kwabo ngokomzwelo. Imisebenzi yomndeni ayihlobene nobulili babazali kepha nokukhula okufanele kwezingane, ngoba ziyinto yokuqala kunoma yimuphi ubaba noma umama.
Inani likababa
Yebo, ubaba unenani elikhulu ekukhuleni kwezingane futhi ngaphezu kwalokho, isibalo sakhe singaba nomthelela omkhulu ekuthuthukiseni ubuntu bamadodana namadodakazi akhe. Umzali oqhelelene ngokomzwelo noma ongabandakanyeki kwimfundo yezingane zakhe uzoshiya isikhala esikhulu ngokomzwelo ezimpilweni zezingane zakhe, okubenza bahlupheke futhi bangazethembi futhi bathambekele ekukhathazekeni.
Inhlanhla ukuthi abazali baya ngokuya bazi ngokubaluleka abanakho ekukhuleni kwezingane zabo, ukuthi kufanele kuhambisane nomama, ukuthi bobabili banesisindo esifanayo ekukhuliseni nasekufundiseni izingane zabo, kusukela lapho izingane ozelwe futhi usezandleni zakho okokuqala.