Ukuzinyeza kungaba yinkinga ezinganeni zakho uma ungasebenzi ngesikhathi. Kungaba nemiphumela futhi empeleni, noma kubonakala sengathi akukho okwenzekayo isikhashana, kuyenzeka futhi kuyingozi. Manje iyini imiphumela ezinganeni zakho zokuzenyeza?
Benza iphutha lokuthanda ukuzethemba okuphansi
Ngokuzethemba okuphansi, unethemba lokuthi abantu abakuletheli okuhle. Lapho abanye benomusa ngokwanele kuwe, uzizwa ujabulile kakhulu futhi unemizwa emihle ngokungenangqondo. Konke kuhamba kahle. Lokhu kungaphutha kalula ngothando, futhi kungasabisa abantu abangaba nentshisekelo ebunganeni bakho kuphela.
Bajwayele ukubekezelela izinto ezimbi kakhulu ebudlelwaneni babo
Ngoba ucabanga ukuthi umlingani wakho muhle kakhulu kuwe, ubekezelela izinto okungafanele uzibekezelele. Kwesinye isikhathi uze wenze iphutha lokuthanda ukuzethemba. Ngabe uyanikezela ngempela ngoba umthanda kakhulu noma awunasibindi sokukhuluma ulungise izinto?
Kwenza abaqashi bakho bazizwe sengathi awunathalente
Abantu abanokuzethemba okuphansi kwesinye isikhathi banesiphiwo sangempela. Kepha abazi ukuthi bazokhombisa kanjani. Ngesikhathi semihlangano phakathi kwabantu, bayathula, uma bekhuluma bakwenza ngobuthakathaka, ngesikhathi sokuxoxa nsuku zonke bathi "ngiyaxolisa" futhi "mhlawumbe" kaningi kakhulu ... abanye babona ukuthi bangabantu abazenyeza futhi abanamakhono amancane. Yize benethalente ngempela ... Kepha abazi ukuthi bangalikhombisa kanjani kahle.
Kungabangela ukucindezeleka
Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ukuzethemba okuphansi kungaholela ekucindezelekeni ngokusho kocwaningo olwenziwe ngabaphenyi e-University of Basel. Ikona isici esiyinhloko kukho kokubili ukuthuthukiswa kanye nokugcinwa kwengcindezi. Ngalesi sizathu, ukusebenza ngokuzethemba kusuka ebuntwaneni kubaluleke kakhulu.
Konke lokhu kubalulekile ukuthi ukubhekisise nokuthi ungakhuluma ngakho nezingane zakho, futhi ufune usizo uma kunesidingo.