Ukuphumula kwezingane kungaba yinkinga kubazali okufanele basebenze, Kepha phakathi kogogo nomkhulu, izikole zasehlobo, amaholide okusebenza, nokuqasha abagcini bezingane emakhaya, badidizela isonto ngalinye eholidini lezingane lasehlobo. Kepha imfihlo yehlobo elihle ingaphezu kwakho konke ukwazi ukuthi ungalinganisa kanjani ukuguquguquka nemikhuba.
Izingane zidinga ukwenziwa nsuku zonke ukuze zikwazi ukuzwa ukuvikeleka kanye nokuzinza kwangaphakathi, kepha ngasikhathi sinye, zidinga ukuguquguquka ukuze zikwazi ukulala ngosuku olulandelayo ngoba "kukhethekile", ukuya ezindaweni ezintsha futhi zibe nokuhlangenwe nakho okuhle njengoba umndeni, njll. Kuyacaca ukuthi izindlela ezisetshenziswayo zisisiza ukuba sixhumanise kangcono futhi sihlele impilo yomndeni, kepha lapho kufika amaholide, konke kuyashintsha.
Izindlela ezenziwayo zizohluka futhi kuzoba yithuba lokufunda kuwo wonke umndeni. Ngakho-ke, kuyadingeka ukuzivumelanisa namaholide ezingane nokuthi akubona labo okufanele bavumelane nesikhathi sabo sokuphumula baphile impilo enengcindezi yabazali babo. Kuyadingeka ukuhlela izinto ukuze wonke amalungu omndeni ajabulele.
Abazali bangabeka eceleni inqubo eqinile yekhalenda lesikole futhi benze indlela yokuphumula emzimbeni nasengqondweni, uma nje kungenxa yokuthi izindlela ezenziwayo zihlukile, ngoba baphuma kakhulu behamba amabanga, olwandle noma echibini. Kuyadingeka ukuthi lobu bulukhuni buye ngemuva futhi abazali babeke phambili isikhathi nemisebenzi yomndeni kuyo yonke le sizini sasehlobo.
Ngoba izingane azidingi ukuya eholidini endaweni enhle kunazo zonke emhlabeni, ngoba kubo, okubaluleke kakhulu emaholidini abo ukujabulela imindeni yabo, noma ngabe ikuphi. Lowo ngumlingo wangempela weholide lasehlobo.