Iminyaka yobusha ingaba isikhathi esingakhululeki kakhulu empilweni yomuntu, Futhi kungenzeka ukuthi ingane yakho ihlushwa ukungazethembi ngokomzimba. Izinguquko zebhayoloji nokuqala kokuthomba kungenza osemusha azenyeze futhi kumholele ekugwemeni noma yini engamenza avelele.
Kungaba nzima ukugxila ekuhlaleni usebenza uma ufuna ukungabonakali! Ukucindezela kontanga kule minyaka nakho kungaba nesihluku, Futhi ingane yakho eyeve eshumini nambili kungenzeka ukuthi ibhekene nezingcindezi zenhlalo esikoleni ukuzivumelanisa nalokho manje okubhekwa njengokuhle.
Ungadinga ukusiza ingane yakho ukuthi ithole umsebenzi ezizwa iphephile kuwo. Cabanga ngamandla onawo bese wakhela kuwo. Gcina izindlela zokuxhumana zivulekile ukuze akwazi ukumsiza axazulule noma yiziphi izingqinamba ngokuzethemba kwakhe okuphansi. Nikeza usizo lwakho lapho eludinga, futhi umqinisekise ukuthi uyakwazi ukuphumelela.
Uma ingane yakho isithathe isinqumo ngomsebenzi, kufanele uqiniseke ukuthi uhlela kusengaphambili futhi unikezela isikhathi kukho. Intsha ivame ukugcwala kakhulu ngomsebenzi wesikole, imisebenzi yomphakathi, njll. Uma wenza umzamo wokwenza ukuzivocavoca umzimba kube lula enganeni yakho, maningi amathuba okuthi bakubone njengengxenye yenqubo yabo yansuku zonke.
Izingane ezincane zivame ukukholelwa ukuthi lapho zizama kanzima, ziyoba ngcono kakhulu. Kodwa njengoba izingane zingena ebusheni, ukucabanga kwazo kuyashintsha; Baqala ukukholelwa ukuthi lelo khono lilungisiwe ukuthi ukuzama kanzima kusho ukuthi abanamakhono amancane okukwenza.
Ngokusobala, leli phuzu lokubuka lingangena endleleni yokugqugquzela. Ngemuva kwakho konke, kungani uhamba ibanga elide uma ungaqinisekisi ukuthi uzokuthola kahle? Khumbula ukukhumbuza ingane yakho ukuthi akudingeki ibe ngumdlali wezinkanyezi, noma okuhlukile ikakhulukazi emsebenzini owukhethile. Okubalulekile ukwenza umzamo nokuzijabulisa.
Yiba yisibonelo sabo
Ngaphezu kwakho konke, khumbula ukuba yisibonelo sengane yakho. Abazali bayisibonelo esibaluleke kunazo zonke ezinganeni zabo, ezijwayele ukulingisa izindlela zabazali bazo. Ngokwenza imikhuba enempilo nokwamukela amandla akho, ubeka isibonelo sokuthi ingane yakho ayilandele, ngethemba lokuphila.