Njengoba wazi kahle, namuhla usuku lokuhlukumeza, isihlava senhlalo esisithinta sonke, kungakhathalekile ukuthi sinabo yini abantwana esibanakekelayo. Ekupheleni umphakathi ophilile kufanele wonke uqinisekise ukunakekelwa nokuvikelwa kwezidalwaHhayi ngoba 'bekusasa', kepha ngoba bayingxenye ebalulekile yezindawo ezahlukahlukene esihamba kuzo, futhi nangezindlela eziningi (futhi kuya ngeminyaka) abanakho ukuzimela okudingekayo ukuze bazinakekele.
Amantombazane nabafana banikela kakhulu kithi, futhi empeleni, 'ngiphuthelwa' kakhulu ukuthi bavunyelwe ukubamba iqhaza kakhulu emphakathini. Ngemibono namandla abo, sizoba namathuba amakhulu okuthuthukisa ubudlelwano babantu, futhi sithole nezindlela ezintsha ezingokoqobo nezinempilo zokusabalalisa izindawo zasemadolobheni, ukunikeza izibonelo ezimbili. Kepha ake sibuyele esihlokweni esiseduze, futhi sengivele ngimatasa ngikhipha lolu hlobo lwe-skein engikubeke kuyo ngengozi (noma cha?). Ukuhlukumeza akuyona into yezingane, ukuqinela akuyona inkinga kothisha nemindeni kuphela, ukuxhashazwa ngokwengxenye kuyisibonakaliso somhlaba wabantu abadala obonakala uphelele kepha ngandlela thile ubolile ngaphakathi.
Abantu abadala njengesibuko futhi njengesibonelo
Umuntu othile wake wathi (kungenzeka ukuthi kwakungu-Einstein njengoba kushiwo laphaya, kungenzeka kungenjalo) lokho "Isibonelo akuyona indlela yokufundisa, KUPHELA KODWA", futhi ngempela uma sifuna ukungaguquguquki, imiyalezo yethu yokukhuluma kufanele ihambisane nezenzo zethu, ukuziphatha kwethu, ekhaya nasemgwaqweni, noma kwenye indawo.
Abancane (hhayi bona kuphela, noma ngubani omunye ngaphandle kwakho noma mina) bayasibuka futhi kusukela ekubonisweni esikunikezayo bangafinyelela eziphethweni eziningi, ngaphezu kokubaluleka kokuhlangana kwabantu asebekhulile kakhulu. Kuyenzeka futhi ngenye indlela, kukhona ukuphindaphinda okuthile, ngoba ngibheka izingane zami, ngiyabona ubuhle bezenzo zazo, kodwa futhi namaphutha ami nazo.
Futhi yisiphi isibonelo esibanika sona?
Angizukusho ukuthi ngamunye wethu, noma ngabe singothisha, omama, ogogo, noma ngubani onendima yezemfundo (noma cha) nezingane, akazami ukwenza konke okusemandleni ethu. Okwenzekayo ukuthi kwesinye isikhathi silahlekelwa yimininingwane, futhi asinikezi ukubuka konke.
Isibonelo: "Bengingaphindaphinda izikhathi ezingamakhulu ezinkulungwane ezinganeni zami" ukuthi ukuphendulwa akuphendulwa, ukugwema izingxabano ...; Iqiniso ukuthi ngiyakholelwa kulo, kepha kwenzekani uma kamuva bengibona ngigxumela kokuncane lapho 'ngicabanga' ukuthi othile uyangiphikisa noma uyangicasula? Nginazaba zini zokuthi NGINGAHOLI ngesibonelo? Ngabe kusemthethweni yini ukweqa umthetho ngoba sengimdala?
Ingabe imodeli yabantu abadala emphakathini wanamuhla iyimiqemane futhi ilinganiselwe kakhulu?
Ngokunaka ukuthi sifuna ukudlulisa noma singahlosile izindinganiso ezingalungile ezifana nodlame, ukuncintisana, ukungabi nozwelo, inzondo, njll. Ngingasho ukuthi kunalokho kuningi okumele sikwenze, yize iqiniso ukuthi konke kungahamba, futhi sonke sinenhlanhla enkulu yokukwazi ukuguqula nokuthuthuka (uma ufuna, kunjalo).
Ukuziphatha ngezingane okungahle kudale isimo sengqondo sokungazweli kontanga
Abanye bathi lokhu kungumongo wendaba. Uzobona: uma njengoba besengabantwana izidingo zabo eziyisisekelo azinakwa; uma isikhathi esanele singanikezelwa kubo ukuze kucace ukuthi babalulekile (khohlwa ngesikhathi sekhwalithi); uma imizwa yakho, imizwa yakho, impumelelo yakho ingavunyelwe; uma bephathwa kabi ngamazwi noma ngokomzimba; uma behlazeka; uma singayinaki imibono yabo… yini ezoguqulwa ibe nokuzwela okukhulu nethemba ingane eza ngalo emhlabeni?
Ngamafuphi, ngicabanga ukuthi asibaphathi 'ngokunakekelwa' nobumnandi obubafanele, sibheka umzuzu wokuziphendukela kwemvelo abakuwo; Futhi ngiyahlanganisa, kepha futhi ngifuna umzamo owengeziwe kimi ukuze ngithuthukise njengomuntu nanjengomama, ngoba kuphela uma ngiguquka, bazokholelwa kulolo shintsho futhi bazolulandela.