Akunandaba ukuthi ingane yakho ineminyaka emingaki, uma kufanele uhlobise ikamelo lakhe lokulala kungenzeka ukuthi uzobona ukuthi kunzima ukuthola imiphumela emihle, kepha iqiniso ukuthi ngokucabanga ngokucophelela ngezinketho onazo ungakwazi yenza ikamelo lokulala lengane yakho libe yindawo yokuphumula, ezokungcebeleka nobumnandi komncane.
Kungenzeka ukuthi uma ingane yakho ikhule ngokwanele ukuthi ingazithathela izinqumo, ucabanga ukuthi kuzoba nzima kakhulu ukuhlobisa igumbi layo lokulala nokuthi nayo ihlangabezana nezidingo zayo, kepha uma uyilalela futhi ngasikhathi sinye uthathe akhawunti umhlobiso kanye nezidingo zakhe, ngokubambisana ungafinyelela umhlobiso omuhle. Uma kufanele uhlobise ikamelo lokulala lengane yakho kodwa ungazi ukuthi yini okufanele uyibheke, landela lezi zeluleko futhi uzobona ukuthi konke kuqala ukuba lula kakhulu.
Ukuqala kuphi
Ngaphambi kokukhathazeka noma ukuxoxa ngamatimu nokuhlobisa nengane yakho futhi ningafinyeleli esivumelwaneni lapho nobabili nizwa ukuthi niyavumelana, kufanele niqonde ukuthi kuyini. ingane yakho ezohlala ngaphakathi egumbini futhi ozochitha isikhathi esithe xaxa laphoLeyo kuzoba yindawo yabo nesiphephelo sabo futhi kuzoba ingane yakho okufanele izizwe kahle ngaphakathi kwalezo zindonga ezine.
Igumbi lakhe lokulala kuzoba ukuphela kwendawo ekhaya lapho ingane yakho ingaveza khona ubuntu bayo, ubuhlakani bayo futhi ikwazi ukuzwa ukuzola nokuvumelana nempilo yayo kanye nayo uqobo.
Ubuntu nokusebenza
Kunezici ezimbili ezibalulekile okufanele uzicabangele lapho uhlobisa igumbi lokulala lengane yakho, ngiqonde ubuntu bengane yakho nokusebenza kwegumbi lokulala. Zombili lezi zici kumele zihlangane ukuze wakhe ikamelo lokulala elifanele ingane yakho. Igumbi lakho lokulala ngeke libe yindawo yokulala kuphela, lizophinde libe yindawo yokubonisa futhi ubalekele iqiniso lansuku zonke. Futhi kuzoba yindawo yokufunda futhi yokujabulisa abangani bakho abakhulu ngezikhathi ezithile zenkampani.
Njengoba ukwazi ukubona, igumbi lengane yakho libaluleke kakhulu futhi kufanele uliphathe ngokubheka zonke lezi zinto. Ngaphezu kwalokho umhlobiso wekamelo lokulala lengane yakho kumele ube ngokuvumelana nazo zonke lezi zici ukuze uhlangabezane nezidingo zawo nokuthi ungasijabulela isikhala sakho ngaphakathi kobumfihlo bekhaya lakho. Qiniseka ukuthi uthola ukuthi kube isikhala esikahle, esisebenzayo ingane yakho eziziqhenyayo ngokusikhombisa.
Khuluma nendodana yakho
Okokuqala kuzofanele uhlale phansi ukhulume nengane yakho futhi uthole ukuthi yini efuna ukuyizwa egumbini layo lokulala, ubhale phansi izinto ezithandayo, imibala eyithanda kakhulu nayo yonke imininingwane okufanele uyicabangele ukuze ukwazi ukusisebenzisa ekuhlobiseni. Ngokuya ngokuthanda kwakho, isabelomali kanye namathuba okuthola ekamelweni lokulala, ungaqala ukucabanga ngalokho okuzodingeka ukuthenge uma kunesidingo, phinda usebenzise uma unethuba lokwenza kanjalo futhi uhlele isikhala.
Ezinye izesekeli ezibalulekile
Wonke amakamelo okulala ezingane kufanele abe nezesekeli ezithile ezingeke zilahleke ukwenza ikamelo lokulala eliphelele, elinethezekile futhi elisebenzayo. Ukuze wenze lokhu kufanele cabangela abakuthandayo kodwa futhi nezindawo ezibaluleke kakhulu zokulala. Njengesibonelo ungaziqondisa ngezinto ezilandelayo:
Okwendawo yokulala
Endaweni yombhede awukwazi ukuphuthelwa amashidi amahle nokulala okuhle, amakhushini nethoyizi noma isilwane esigxotshiwe ngaphezulu kombhede uma ufisa.
Okwendawo yodonga
Odongeni ungabeka iwashi elihle, izithombe, isibuko esizokusiza ukuthi uzibuke noma kunini lapho ufuna khona kanye nekhalenda elihle ukuze ukwazi ukubona izinsuku.
Okwendawo yaphansi
Ukuze ikamelo lokulala likwazi ukuthokomala kakhulu, lizodinga ukhaphethi othambile ukuze izinyawo zalo zihlale zifudumele, futhi isikhwama semali kanye nezihlalo zaphansi ngeke kuswele lapho ingane yakho ifuna ukuchitha isikhathi phansi yodwa noma enkampanini labangane bakhe abakhulu.
Okwindawo yewindi
Emafasiteleni ngeke ukwazi ukuphuthelwa amakhethini amahle futhi amahle asiza ukuba nobumfihlo nokuthi ngasikhathi sinye ahlobise igumbi.
Okwenzelwe indawo yokufunda
Kubalulekile ukuyinakekela kahle indawo okufundelwa kuyo yingakho uzodinga ukuba nedeski elihle, isihlalo esinomhlane omuhle, ukukhanya okuhle, ukhokho wokubeka izinto ezidingekayo, ibhasikidi kadoti kanye nezesekeli zedeski.
Ukuthinta komuntu siqu
Uma ufuna ukuthi indawo ithintwe nguwe uqobo, unganqikazi ukusebenzisa ubuciko kanye nezinto ezithandwa yingane yakho ukuze njalo lapho ingena, izwe ukuthi le ndawo "indawo yayo". Kufanele uzizwe usekhaya futhi uyisiphephelo njalo uma ungena ekamelweni lakho lokulala, yindawo lapho ungakhula khona ngokomzwelo.
Ukuhlobisa igumbi lokulala
Lapho uhlobisa igumbi lokulala, kufanele ucabangele ukuthi kufanele kube nohlelo oluphelele lokusabalalisa ngaphambi kokuthenga noma yini noma ukuqala ukuhlela kabusha ifenisha nezinsiza. Futhi ngaphambi nje kokuthenga noma yini, kuzoba yisikhathi sokusho imibala yodonga nezesekeli eziyinhloko. Ungasebenzisa imibala, amaphethini nokwakheka nge isu lama-60/30/10 ukuthola umhlobiso ngokuqinisekile.
Ngecebo lama-60/30/10 kuzofanele ukhethe umbala ozohlala ku-60% wegumbi lokulala (isibonelo izindonga), omunye umbala ofana no-30% (izindwangu) nombala ogqamile ozohlala ku-10% lokulala (in izesekeli kanye nemininingwane). Ngale ndlela uzobe uqinisekisa ukuthi imibala ekhethiwe izohlangana ngokuphelele nokuthi kuzoba nokulingana kwe-chromatic ngaphakathi kwegumbi. Khetha imibala ngokuqapha kepha ukuthi yimibala ethandwa ingane yakho, ephumuzayo futhi emsizayo ukuba azole futhi azole egumbini lakhe lokulala.
Ucabangani ngale mibono ukuhlobisa ikamelo lokulala lengane yakho futhi uzuze imiphumela emihle kakhulu? Ngabe ufuna ukwabelana nathi ngomuzwa wokuhlobisa kanye nengane yakho? Sitshele ngesipiliyoni sakho nemiphumela!