Bheka nje nxazonke ukuze ubone ukuthi kuya ngokwanda amawele azalwayo. Akekho owaziyo ngempela isizathu salesi simo. Abanye bathi kubangelwa ukuba ngumama sekwephuzile kanye nokwelashwa okuningi ukuze ukhulelwe. Abanye ngokungahleliwe. Iqiniso ukuthi kunamawele amaningi kunakuqala. Ukusiza labo bazali izimpilo zabo ziguquka ngokuzumayo futhi ngaphandle kokulinda, namhlanje sikulethela ezimbalwa amathiphu okunakekela nokukhulisa amawele, umsebenzi ongekho lula odinga umzamo omkhulu nokubekezela.
Uma uke waba nengane noma uke waba nayo, ungakucabanga ukuphila ngezidalwa ezimbili ezikhale ngasikhathi sinye bese zivuka kaninginingi phakathi kwamabili? Akungabazeki ukuthi nangale kwemiphumela, kufanele sishayele ihlombe i- abazali bamawele, abathi usuku nosuku banqobe izithiyo eziningi zokukhulisa izingane ezinempilo. Ngaphakathi kwe-European Union, iSpain iyizwe elinesibalo esiphezulu se- ukuzalwa okuningi: Ukuzalwa kwamawele okungama-27 nokuzalwa okuphindwe kathathu kokukhulelwa ngakunye kwabangu-1.000 XNUMX, ngokusho kweNational Institute of Statistics.
Ungawanakekela kanjani amawele abafana
Ukugxila namuhla kubo, izingane ezinobuzalwane obuyingqayizivele, ezingafani nje kuphela ngokomzimba kodwa futhi ezihlanganyela nenqubo yokukhula. Yini okufanele uyenze nazo? Ungayihlanganisa kanjani imikhuba yansuku zonke yokulwa nempilo yansuku zonke? Kunabantu abaphikelela ngokunikela amathiphu okunakekela nokufundisa amawele. Kodwa-ke, azikho izindlela zokupheka zomhlaba wonke, iphuzu ukuthi, okokuqala kunakho konke, ukwazi izici zomndeni uqobo, imikhuba nezindlela zokuphila ebezikhona ngaleso sikhathi ukuhlanganisa amandla ezinsana nakwezinye umndeni.
«Ngizwe injabulo enkulu lapho besitshela, kodwa futhi ne-vertigo eningi. Besincamela ingane entsha kunezimbili ngasikhathi sinye, kodwa sibuye sakhetha ezimbili kunalezo ", kusho abanye abazali abadlule kulokhu okuhlangenwe nakho okuhlukile. Lapho i- izingane ezingamawele kulindelekile, inhlangano ilula kepha lapho impilo imangaza abazali lapho-ke kuba nzima kakhulu ukujwayela umbono futhi usebenzise inqubo ngokuya ngawo. Kunabazali abakuthola kunzima ezinyangeni ezimbalwa zokuqala ngoba, phela, akuyona into abayikhethile. Futhi kulokhu kufanele sengeze icala lokuphila lo muzwa ...
Ukubaluleka kwengxoxo
Kungakho omunye wabakhulu amathiphu okunakekela nokukhulisa amawele ukulungiselela ukulungiselela ngokwengqondo nangokomzwelo ukufika kwayo, ngaphandle kokulahlekelwa umoya ngezikhathi ezinzima kakhulu, kugxile emzuzwaneni ekugcineni ozodlula. Futhi, ungesabi ukucela usizo. Ngokuphambene nalokho, yisikhathi esifanele sokuphendukela emndenini nakubangane futhi sazi ukuthi sidinga ukuphumula, ukugeza nokuthola okunye ukuphumula.
Ingxoxo yabashadikazi ingenye yefayili ye- amathiphu okukhulisa nokunakekela amawele ngempumelelo. Kubalulekile ukuthi abazali bachithe isikhathi bekhulumisana futhi befunda ngemizwa yomunye nomunye. Kubalulekile ukuzwelana, ukuphelezelana futhi nisebenze njengabasizi lapho elinye ilungu lombhangqwana likhungathekile yisimo. Ngisho nakwimibhangqwana eqinile, ukuzalwa kwamawele kuyi-tsunami yangempela yemizwelo nokushintsha okuphelele kwemikhuba. Ukuxoxisana okuhle kubalulekile ukunqoba isiphepho, ikakhulukazi phakathi nezinyanga zokuqala, lapho ukulala kabi kuyisiphatho esingafaki isandla kulesi simo.
Uhlelo, ukhiye wokunakekela amawele
Uma sikhuluma ngokuzijwayeza, amathiphu amahle kakhulu okukhulisa nokunakekela amawele faka inhlangano ethile. Yini? Kuhle ukuqinisekisa ukuthi amashejuli azo zombili izingane aqondana ukuze, kancane kancane, amahora izingane ezidla futhi alale ngazo afane futhi ngaleyo ndlela abazali baphumule kangcono. Kwezinye izimo, lokhu kulungiswa kutholakala kancane kancane, "kuqhuba" amashejuli angaphakathi ezingane.
Ekugcineni, iseluleko esihle esivela kodokotela bezingane abaningi ukuthatha isikhathi sokuzijabulisa. Ukuhambahamba nezingane, ukuphuma ngaphandle nokujabulela imisebenzi yangaphandle evunyelwa izingane kuhle amathiphu okunakekela nokukhulisa amawele endaweni enempilo nengacindezelekile. Ngaphandle kusiza ukusula abantu abadala nezingane ngakho-ke kuyisincomo esihle, ikakhulukazi lapho umndeni ucindezeleke kakhulu endlini.