Nginesiqiniseko sokuthi yonke imindeni emhlabeni ifuna ukuhlala ekhaya elijabulayo nelinobunye. Kubukeka sengathi ngezimpilo ezinengcindezi esivame ukuzihola ngenxa yokusebenza ngaphandle kwekhaya, imisebenzi yezingane yangaphandle, amashejuli ahlukile elungwini ngalinye lomndeni, kubonakala sengathi impilo yomndeni iyisisekelo. Kepha akukho okunye okuqhubekayo kusuka eqinisweni uma ufuna ngempela, ungathola ikhaya eligcwele ukuvumelana.
Ukwakha ikhaya eligcwele ukuvumelana, kubalulekile ukuthi kubhekwe izici eziningi, kusuka kumhlobiso wasekhaya kanye negumbi ngalinye imikhuba yomndeni okumele iqiniswe ukuze isibopho somndeni, ukuxhumana nomsebenzi omuhle welungu ngalinye lenze izibopho ziqine, uzizwe uzwana ngokwengeziwe futhi bobabili abashadikazi bajabule futhi izingane zingakhulela endaweni ezinzile ngokomzwelo.
Imibala ekhaya
Imibala ekuhlobiseni ingadala imizwa ehlukene kubantu abayibonayo, ngenxa yalesi sizathu kubaluleke kakhulu ukubhekisisa lokhu ukuze khetha imibala efanelekile yegumbi ngalinye. Isibonelo, umbala oluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka umbala ozolisayo okhuthaza ubuqambi nokuchuma, okuluhlaza kwakha umuzwa wamandla, ophuzi okhanyayo umbala othulisa imizwa (uma umbala oqinile uletha amandla), i-orange nawo umbala oletha ubungqabavu obuningi. Futhi ngakho nayo yonke eminye imibala.
Ngalo mqondo, kufanele ukuthi imibala ebhekwayo ekuhlobiseni iyimibala wonke amalungu omndeni abekade eyazisa phambilini. Isibonelo, uma ucabanga ukuhlobisa kabusha amakamelo okulala ezingane zakho ngoba sezikhulile futhi azizona izingane, Kubalulekile ukuthi ekuhlanganeni komndeni ukhethe imibala ndawonye ukuze bezwe ukuthi babamba iqhaza kuleso sinqumo esibalulekile.
Ngemibala oyikhethayo ukuba ibe yimibala enikeza ukuvumelana, kuzofanele ukuthi ube yimibala ekhanyayo noma eye-pastel shades. Ukuhlanganiswa kombala kuzoncika kokuthandwayo kepha kuyadingeka ukuthi ucabangele imizwa eziyivezayo.
Yenza imithwalo yemfanelo ekhaya icace
Ukuze izingxoxo ezingadingeki zenziwe ngaphakathi ekhaya ngomsebenzi wasendlini, wonke umuntu osendlini kuzofanele azi ukuthi yini umsebenzi wakhe. Ukwenza lokhu, izingane kufanele zijwayele ukwenza umsebenzi wasendlini kusukela zisencane kakhulu, kuzenze zibhekane nemisebenzi efanele iminyaka yazo kanye nezinga lokuvuthwa.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, kubalulekile ukuthi ukuze kungabikho noyedwa «okhohlwayo» ukuthi kufanele benze umsebenzi wesikole wasekhaya (ikakhulukazi kwabadala, ngoba abancane bahlala bejabule ukusebenzisana), Kufanele kucaciswe ukuthi yini elindeleke kwilungu ngalinye lomndeni mayelana nomsebenzi wasendlini. Izingane kufanele zibambe iqhaza ekwenziweni kwemithetho, imithethonqubo, kanye nemisebenzi yasendlini (ngezinga elithile), ukuze babe nokukhetha kwimithwalo yemfanelo yamasonto onke. Isibonelo, emisebenzini yamasonto onke, ungakhetha izinto ezifana nokuthi: Yini okhetha ukuhamba ngayo nokunakekela inja, ukusula itafula njalo emva kokudla noma ukukhipha udoti?
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, kunemisebenzi okumele bayilandele, njengokuhlanza igumbi labo lokulala, ukuphonsa izingubo ezingcolile zokuwasha noma ukulungisa izinto ezingcolile.
Izitshalo ekhaya
Kungabukeka kuwubuwula kuwe kodwa akunjalo nakancane. Ukuhlobisa amakhaya ngezitshalo kuyindlela enhle yokugcwalisa ikhaya ngokuzola nangokuvumelana. Akudingekile ukugcwalisa igumbi ngalinye ngezitshalo eziningi noma ngaphansi kakhulu, kepha kufanele wazi ukuthi yiziphi izitshalo ozozibeka, uzibeke kuphi futhi uzijabulele nazo zonke izinzuzo abanazo wena namalungu omndeni wakho.
Izitshalo zizokusiza ukuvuselela umoya-mpilo ekhaya lakho ukuze uphefumule umoya omsulwa nohlanzekile. Ngokuphefumula umoya ohlanzekile uzozizwa uzolile, ungacindezelekile futhi ulangazelele ukujabula ngokomoya. Izitshalo zingabangane bethu futhi imvelo isifunela okuhle kuphela. Kepha kuzodingeka ubanakekele! Kubalulekile ukuthi ukuze udlulisele izindinganiso ezinhle ezinganeni zakho, uma uzibophezela ekubeni nezitshalo ezithile ekhaya lakho, kumele uzinakekele futhi uzenze zikhule ziphilile.
Bahleke ndawonye
Ukusho amahlaya, ukubukela amabhayisikobho ahlekisayo, nokufunda ukuzihleka kubaluleke kakhulu ekuhlakuleleni ukuzwana okuhle ekhaya naphakathi kwamalungu omndeni. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi engxenyeni yomndeni kube namahlaya amahle nokubambisana phakathi kwabazali nezingane naphakathi kwezelamani. Ngaphezu kwalokho, i-rose ilusizo kakhulu kuwo wonke umuntu ngoba ngaphezu kokuphila kahle ngokomzwelo kuyasiza ukuqinisa amasosha omzimba wethu nokuthuthukisa impilo yenhliziyo.
Yidla noma udle ndawonye nsuku zonke
Ngokunjalo, amashejuli awakuvumeli ukuthi udle futhi udle ndawonye zonke izinsuku, kepha kubalulekile ukuthi okungenani ngesidlo sasemini noma esidlweni sakusihlwa wonke amalungu omndeni enze umzamo wokuchitha isikhathi ndawonye futhi ajabulele isikhathi ndawonye. Kungakho uma unezingane ezincane, bobabili ubaba noma umama kuzofanela balungise amashejuli ukuze bakufinyelele futhi uma unezingane ezindala, nonke kuzodingeka nenze umzamo. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthola ukuzwana ekhaya futhi ikakhulukazi ukuqinisa isibopho esihambisanayo.
Ukuvumelana kwekhaya kungatholakala kuphela uma isibopho esihilelekile sinakekelwa kahle. Akunandaba ukuthi uzama ukulandela imithetho emingaki yokuhlobisa ikhaya lakho ngokuzwana, uma ungazinikeli ekunakekeleni isibopho esingokomzwelo nezibopho zothando phakathi kwawo wonke amalungu omndeni owodwa, ngeke kube khona ukuvumelana ikhaya. Ukuvumelana nokudlidliza okuhle kuyazwakala futhi kuyabonakala emvelweni.
Yini enye ocabanga ukuthi kubalulekile ukuthi uyibhekele ukuze wakhe isimo semindeni esinobunye? Bhala isibuyekezo sakho!