Kungenzeka ukuthi uqaphele ukuthi namhlanje sikhuluma kakhulu ngezihlahla, futhi leyo # WorldTreeDay ... Kulokhu engizokhuluma ngakho tshala izihlahla, noma cishe imisebenzi ehlobene ukwenza nezingane, ngoba engifunda nabo sengikunakekele lokho. Ngizokhuluma ngokuhlakanipha izihlahla ezisinika kona, kwenkululeko kanye nezinqumo okuthi uma kungenziwa ngesikhathi sobuntwana, kungacatshangwa ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.
Akuyona yonke imindeni ehlala eduze kwehlathi, hhayi zonke izingane ezihlala emadolobheni amancane lapho iMvelo iseduze nasekhaya ... Kodwa-ke, bonke omama nobaba bangenza imizamo yokwenza izihlahla zibe yingxenye yezimpilo zezinganes. Kusukela ekujoyineni amasimu ahlangene, ukufaka indawo yokuzithokozisa kwabathengi ngempelasonto ukuhlala emhlabeni wasemakhaya, nokunye okuningi.
Okwamanje, imisebenzi ehlelelwe izingane noma imindeni ivame kakhulu, njengamapaki e-adventure eMvelweni, izinkambo eziqondiswayo, ukuhamba izintaba, ... iminyaka) kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi babe nenkululeko, nokuthi sibanikeze amathuba amancane enkampanini yabangane babo, futhi ngaphandle kwabantu abadala. Ngokusobala ayifani iminyaka eyi-13 neyi-8, noma amakhono noma amandla okuphendula; Kepha lapho bekwazi ukuhlela ngokuzenzekelayo, kuvame ukuba nezingane ezindala ezingakwazi ukunakekela abancane.
Thola imvelo nezihlahla, ngokuhlakanipha
Uma ngibheka emuva ebuntwaneni bezingane zami (futhi azikho ebudaleni obusemthethweni, kodwa izibulo lineminyaka emithathu kuphela esele), ngiyabona ukuthi kwesinye isikhathi bengifuna ukuvikela ngokweqile. Futhi lo mqondo lowo onokuvikelwa ngokweqile, Ingasetshenziswa kahle kakhulu lapho sithola izingane ezingasezona izinsana, futhi azidingi ukugadwa njalo, kepha nokho zinabantu abadala ngaphezulu. Yebo, ngaphumelela noma kancane, ezikhathini eziningi ngikwazile ukuphuma "ogibeni", ngakho-ke Namuhla kunentsha emibili eye yagibela ezihlahleni, yenza amakhabethe ezihlahleni, yahamba ezindleleni eziphakathi kwezihlahla ... futhi azikadingi ngaphezu komunye.
Ngoba izihlahla zibalulekile empilweni yamadodakazi ethu namadodana ethu, nakwezethu, futhi udinga kuphela ukusesha okuncane kwi-inthanethi ukukuqinisekisa: balwa nokuguquka kwesimo sezulu, banikela ngokudla, babeka izinkathi zonyaka, nokuningi okuningi. Kepha ukudabuka kuphela kulwazi olubhaliwe ukuthola konke lokhu kubuhlungu kakhulu. Kuyadabukisa ngoba ukuxhumana nendawo yemvelo kunenzuzo enkulu ezinganeni, kube neminyaka embalwa kukhulunywa ngeNvelo Deficit Disorder (phakathi kwezinye izinto), futhi yinto esingeke sikwazi ukuyishaya indiva.
Ukulinganisela eminyakeni yobuchwepheshe
Asikwazi ukungazinaki izinzuzo zokuxhumana neMvelo, ngaphandle kokuthi kungenzeki ngokuphelele ngathi ukuthi sikwazi ukwenza lokhu kuthintana kwezingane zethu; kepha noma kunjalo, impela lezo 'zimvelo ezincane' zamadolobha amakhulu (amapaki anezinkuni nezinye) zinikeza ingxenye yezinzuzo, ngaphandle kwenkululeko (ngoba isikhala sincane).
Ukudela nokuyeka ukufuna ibhalansi phakathi kobuchwepheshe kuyiphutha, ngoba ukusetshenziswa ngokungakhethi kwezinto zobuchwepheshe kubangela impilo yokuhlala phansi (futhi ngenxa yalokho ukukhuluphala ngokweqile), ukuqeda ukusebenza ngobuhlobo, njll. Angisho ukuthi kufanele sivimbele ithebhulethi noma i-console, ngithi izingane zethu nazo kufanele zazi umhlaba ongaxhunyiwe ku-inthanethi, futhi zibe nokuhlangenwe nakho okuningi 'kwangempela' empilweni. Ngakho-ke bazoqina, bakhule bephilile, futhi bathuthukise amakhono ezenhlalo njengokuxoxisana, ukuxoxisana, ukwenza izinqumo, njll..
Yini enhle kangaka ngamakamelo ezihlahla?
Yize ukukhuphuka esihlahleni kungabonakala njengesenzo esiyingozi, njengoba ukuwa kusuka kumamitha ambalwa kungaba nomphumela obulalayo, ingane eneminyaka eyishumi kungenzeka ukuthi yathuthukisa amakhono anele okuyenza ngokuphepha, futhi kamuva uzokwazi ukudlulisa ubuhlakani bakho kwabancane.
Ngokuqondene namakamelo ... iyiphi intombazane engaphuzi ukuzihlukanisa nezwe labantu abadala nabangane bayo? Phezulu kwezihlahla noma cha, kuyakhuthaza kakhulu ukuthi bayingxenye yezwe lezingane ngoba uma bezakha kumele baqale ubuhlakani, amasu ahlukene okubeka izinto, kumele baxoxe futhi bakhethe okungcono kakhulu, njll.
Futhi manje yebo: yisinqumo sakho: Ngabe ubeka umuthi owodwa noma eminingi empilweni yezingane zakho?Noma kunalokho, ingabe ubanikeza inkululeko yokuxhumana neMvelo?