Lapho kufika ihlobo, abazali baba nengcindezi enkulu ngoba bafuna izingane zabo zenze izinto eziningi futhi zijabule ... zibe nehlobo lokuthi lapho zifika esikoleni ngoSepthemba zingabelana nabangane bazo zonke izimangaliso abazitholile. Njengasesifundweni izingane zimatasa nesikole, ngemuva kwesikole nosuku nosuku ... kubonakala sengathi lapho kufika ihlobo, yonke into iba "yizinyonga" kakhulu.
Ungahle ucabange ngamakamu asehlobo, izifundo ze-workshop noma izikole zasehlobo ukuzivimbela ukuthi zingakhathazeki. Kepha kuyadingeka ukuthi ubavumele bathole isikhala nesikhathi ngaphandle kokwenza lutho, ngoba iqiniso lokuthi bayabhoreka lizuzisa kakhulu kunokuba ungacabanga.
Ukuphumula kuyadingeka kuwo wonke umuntu, unqamula kunqubo ejwayelekile futhi wehlise ijubane lempilo. Uma izingane zikutshela ukuthi zibhorekile, ungakhathazeki ngoba lokho kuyisibonakaliso esihle. Kuyadingeka ukuthi uvumele izingane zakho zibe nesithukuthezi ngezikhathi ezithile ehlobo ngoba lokhu kuzothuthukisa ukukhula kwazo. Uzoba namathuba okukhula mathupha, uthuthukise ubuhlakani bakho futhi cabanga ngokuthi yini okufanele uyenze ngaphandle kokuxoxelwa ngumuntu omdala. Umcabango wakho uzoqala ukuthuthuka ngokweqa nangemingcele.
Lapho izingane zingenanto yokwenza, zibheka indlela yokuzijabulisa, yokudlala nokuzijabulisa. Yilapho beqala khona ukudala ubuciko futhi bacabange izindlela ezahlukahlukene zokuzijabulisa… bangakha imidlalo eyenzelwe noma badlale imidlalo asebeyazi. Okubalulekile ukuthi ukuzimela kwabo nakho kuyathuthukiswa futhi abadingi ukuthi abanye babatshele ukuthi benzeni.
Ngakho-ke, lapho kufika amaholidi ehlobo, vumela izingane zakho zithukuthele, zidlale ngaphandle, zithintane nemvelo ... ukuthi bayakujabulela ukufunda ngendlela yabo, ngenkathi bezijabulisa kule sizini sasehlobo esilindelwe isikhathi eside.