Ingane yakho ingazizwa futhi ilawule impilo yayo futhi ngemuva kokuxhashazwa. Lapho ingane ihlukunyezwa, bayozwa ukuthi impilo yayo ayisalawuleki, ukuthi abanye banesipiliyoni sempilo yabo. Umgibe wokucabanga ovame kakhulu lapho izisulu zokuxhashazwa lapho zihlaselwa yilokhu kuhlaselwa ukuthi azinamandla esimweni ezizithola zikuso.
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi izingane zingamukeli isisulu zicabanga ukuthi zilawula futhi zinaso. Uma ingane igxila ekubuyiseni amandla empilo yayo, iyozwa ukuthi ingasheshe isheshe iphume kuleso simo. Uma ufuna ukusiza ingane yakho ibuye ilawule impilo yayo, ungaphuthelwa yilezi zindlela.
Lawula imicabango yakho nesimo sakho sengqondo
Khumbuza ingane yakho ukuthi isimo sayo sengqondo akudingeki ukuthi sivele ezimweni zayo kepha ngendlela echaza ngayo okwenzeka kuyo. Yize kuliqiniso ukuthi umhlukumezi unesibopho sokuxhashazwa kwakhe, akayena obangela isimo sengqondo ingane yakho esikuso kulesi simo. Nguye ophethe ukuthi usabela kanjani kulokho kuhlukunyezwa. Khuthaza ingane yakho ukuthi ibhekane nemizwa yayo kanye nombono wesimo.
Uma ukwazi ukuba nesimo sengqondo esihle naphezu kwezimo, ukuxhashazwa kuzoba nomthelela omncane empilweni yakho. Lapho umhlukumezi ebona ukuthi ukuhlukumeza kwakhe akunawo umthelela oyifunayo nokuthi akalawuleki kulokho isisulu sakhe esizwayo, lapho-ke ukuhlukunyezwa kungenzeka kuyeke.
Imicabango yakho iyiqiniso
Iningi lezingane alazi ukuthi indlela esibona ngayo isimo ekugcineni ukuthi nazo zizozizwa kanjani. Ngamanye amagama, uma bephikelela ekwehlisweni kokuxhashazwa, bazozizwa belulazekile.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uma becabanga ukuthi bangakusebenzisa kanjani ukuzivikela noma ukuthi bawushintsha kanjani umbono wabo esimweni sokulwa nesiqhwaga, bazozizwa benelisekile. Okusemqoka wukuthi ingane eyisisulu ikwazi ukuvuselela imicabango yayo ngokuxhashazwa. Menze agxile kokuhle futhi agweme ukugxila kokubi kuphela.
Funa ukufunda ekuxhashazweni
Noma yini eyenzekayo, kuhlale kunokuthile okufanele kufundwe esimweni esibi. Kungahle kungacaci enganeni yakho ekuqaleni, kepha ekugcineni, kufanele ikwazi ukubheka emuva futhi ibone lokho ekufundile ekuhlukunyezweni. Ungathola ukuthi unamandla amaningi kunalokho obukucabanga ekuqaleni ... Ungahlala uthola izinto ozifundile ngaphandle kobuhlungu obuzwile.
Vumela umuzwa wentukuthelo
Izikhathi eziningi kakhulu lapho izingane zihlukunyezwa zizama ukufihla imizwa yazo. Khumbuza ingane yakho ukuthi inelungelo lokuthukuthela ngoba inzima futhi leso simo kufanele sime.
Kumele uqiniseke ukuthi uthatha izinyathelo ezifanele ukuze isimo siphele ngokushesha okukhulu. Esikhundleni sokuthathwa intukuthelo, Ingane yakho kumele ikwamukele ukuthi iyayizwa leyo mizwa, iyamukele futhi ifune izixazululo zokuba ngcono kamuva.
Yiba nesandla futhi ungasebenzi
Ukuze ulawule futhi ube namandla wesimo kufanele usebenze kodwa ungasebenzi. Udinga ukuba nohlelo lokusebenza olwehlisa amathuba okuthi uphinde uhlaselwe. Lokhu kungasho ukuphelezelwa esikoleni, ukugwema izindawo ezingaba nezinkinga, ukusondela kochwepheshe abavela esikhungweni semfundo ... Uma uhlushwa ukuhlukunyezwa nge-inthanethi, kungaba umqondo omuhle ukushintsha amaphasiwedi wakho wokuxhumana nomphakathi noma vimba ama-akhawunti wabantu abakukhathazayo kwi-Intanethi. Enye indlela ukugwema ukusetshenziswa kwezingosi zokuxhumana nabantu.
Gxila kokuzayo futhi ube neqiniso
Khuthaza ingane yakho ukuthi ibeke imigomo futhi isebenze ezintweni ezibaluleke kakhulu kuye kunokugxila emizweni engemihle engadala ukuxhashazwa. Kubalulekile ukuthi ingane yakho yazi ukuthi akudingekile ukuthi ithande wonke umuntu nokuthi lokhu kulungile.
Akufanele uchithe isikhathi sakho noma amandla uzama ukujabulisa wonke umuntu noma ukuzama ukuthanda abanye abantu. Esikhundleni salokho, udinga ukugxila ebuqothweni bakho, ube ngumngani omuhle, futhi ube yiqiniso kulabo abakufanele ngempela, noma ngabe bangumndeni noma abangani.
Uma ingane yakho igxila ekubeni ngumuntu ongcono kunokuba izame ukwamukelwa abanye, ubungane bayo nobudlelwano obuhle buzovela ngokuzenzakalela empilweni yayo. Ukuzama ukuzivumelanisa nezimo noma ukuguqula ukulingana okulindelwe abanye akuyona impendulo. Ingane yakho kufanele yazi ukuthi noma ngabe umhlaseli uyayihlasela, inkinga ikumhlukumezi hhayi kuye. Ukuxhashazwa kumayelana nokukhetha okubi kwesiqhwaga. Akuyona inkomba yokuthi kukhona okungahambi kahle ngesisulu.
Ubungane bangempela
Kunesisho esidala esithi abantu bafana nalabo abachitha isikhathi esiningi nabo. Khuthaza ingane yakho ukuthi icabange ngabantu abasempilweni yabo abathola isikhathi nokunakwa kwabo ngokugcwele. Mtshele ukuthi azindle ngokuthi laba bangani bamenza azizwe kanjani futhi ambuze ukuthi labo bangane bayameseka yini, uma engabethemba. Yibe usumtshela ukuthi asuse kubangani bakhe noma ngubani ongesiye umngani omuhle noma ongakhombisi ntshisekelo kuye.
Inani lesibopho
Uma ingane yakho inamathele enkambisweni yokusola abanye ngendlela abazizwa kabi ngayo noma ngokungathokozi kwabo, khona-ke badlulisela ukulawula impilo yabo kwabanye. Kepha uma ingane yakho ifunda ukuthatha umthwalo wemizwa yabo futhi ibambe isiqhwaga siphendule ngokuxhashazwa, bayozizwa sengathi banokulawula okwengeziwe empilweni yabo. Lo msebenzi futhi wakha ukuzethemba nokuzizwa unamandla. Lokhu kuzokusiza ufunde ukwamukela umthwalo wezinto onamandla okuzishintsha ... nokuhlukanisa kulezo zinto angenakwenza lutho kuzo.