Bonke abantu badinga ukuba namakhaya esizizwa njengesiphephelo sethu, lapho sikhululekile khona futhi singaba yithi uqobo, lapho siphephe khona. Ikhaya lethu lingaba yindawo engcwele, isiphephelo lapho singashiya khona umhlaba wangaphandle sibalekele ezweni lethu elingaphakathi. Omakhalekhukhwini, i-imeyili… konke kuhlala kusixhumanisa nezwe elingaphandle, into eqeda ukuxhumana nemindeni.
Kwamanye amakhaya, ithelevishini isebenza usuku lonke, ivolumu ivulelwe izindaba zezinto eziphazamisayo, idrama, udlame, noma ukufa. Abantu badinga indawo ephephile ukuze baphumelele - ngokomzimba nangokomzwelo. Ngalesi sizathu, izingane zidinga ukubuyela emakhaya, emakhaya azo, lapho ziphephela khona ... ukuze zikhule ngokomzimba nangokomzwelo.
Izingane zidinga ukuzizwa sengathi zingaya emakhaya nganoma yisiphi isikhathi futhi zivikeleke, noma ngabe zivela kubahlukumezi bendawo, abathumbi, inkampani embi, noma ukukhohlwa nje ngosuku olubi. Futhi, izingane zidinga ukwazi ukuthi zingathembela kubazali bazo lapho zifika ekhaya. Izingane zingancamela ukuba nawe kunanoma yini enye emhlabeni.
Noma sebekhulile futhi beyintsha, kuzodingeka nokuthi bafike ekhaya ukuze babe nendawo ephephile futhi babe yibo uqobo, kepha futhi bakwazi ukuxhumana nomndeni wonke ngendlela ejulile, ekhululekile futhi ejabulisayo. Uma indodana yakho ihlale inesikrini phambi kwayo, isikhathi sesifikile sokuthi usebenze ngezici ezingokomzwelo ezingamenza azizwe kabi.
Isipho esihle kunazo zonke ongasinikeza izingane zakho ngaphezu kwesikhathi sakho, ikhaya eliba yisiphephelo sabo, indawo engcono kakhulu emhlabeni kubo. Futhi, uma unamasiko emndenini kanye nemikhuba ethile okufanele ilandelwe yiwo wonke umuntu, kuzoba yikhaya lokwamukela kakhulu bona. Njengokungathi lokho bekunganele, ukuguqula ikhaya libe yisiphephelo kuzokwenza wonke amalungu omndeni abe nomoya ongcono nempilo engacindezeli kangako.
Kepha-ke yini engenziwa kuleli zwe elimatasa nelicindezelayo ukuze kudaleke ikhaya ekhaya futhi wonke amalungu omndeni azizwe kamnandi?
Yehlisa ijubane lempilo
Sonke siyayithanda injabulo, kepha ingcindezi ibulala noma ngubani… uqobo. Ingcindezi iqeda ukubekezela kwethu, amandla ethu okunikeza okungcono kakhulu izingane zethu, nempilo yethu. Ukucindezeleka kusenza sihambe ngokukhulu ukushesha empilweni futhi, ukuze sithukuthele. Uma sithembekile kithina uqobo, siyabona ukuthi senza kanjani izimpilo zethu zibe nezingcindezi ngaphandle kokuthi kube njalo, ngoba nje asizimisele ukwenza isinqumo esizosisiza sehlise ijubane. Uma ufuna izingane zakho ziziphathe kangcono, qala ngokunciphisa ijubane ungafuni ukugijima kakhulu.
Inhlonipho phakathi kwabo bonke
Ukwenza ikhaya libe yindawo yokuphephela, kufanele kwenziwe umsebenzi ukuze wonke amalungu omndeni aphathane ngenhlonipho futhi ngaphandle kodlame- ngokomzimba noma ngamazwi-. Udlame akufanele neze lubekezelelwe, ngaphansi kwanoma yiziphi izimo.
Ikhaya elinemithetho, kepha futhi nokuguquguquka
Amakhaya izingane ezizwa ziphephile kumele abe nemithetho kanye nezinto ezenziwa njalo, kepha akufanele ngabe ziqinile kakhulu. Imithetho iyadingeka, kunjalo… kepha izingane kumele futhi zibone ukuthi ukwenza izinqumo kubaluleke kangakanani.
Ngemikhuba, ebikezelayo
Izingane zidinga ukwazi ukuthi kuzokwenzekani ngokulandelayo ukuze zizizwe ziphephile, yingakho imizila ibaluleke kangaka. Izingane zivame ukuzwa ukuthi zinokulawula okuncane ezimpilweni zazo futhi lokhu kungadala ukungazinzi okuthile, ikakhulukazi uma kunezinguquko zesikhathi. Isakhiwo sibasiza ukuthi bagcine izinto zihlelekile, nasezingqondweni zabo, ngakho-ke bazokhathazeka futhi bazi ukuthi yini elandelayo.
Isikhathi sayo yonke into
Ungagcwalisi izimpilo zezingane zakho ngezinto okufanele zenziwe, khumbula ukuthi nazo zidinga isikhathi sokuphumula nokuba izingane. Zama ukungagcini izimpilo zezingane ngezibopho phezulu kohlu lwezinto okufanele zenziwe ... Ungafaki imisebenzi eminingi kakhulu kubo ngoba bangacindezelwa ngokungadingekile. Izingane zidinga isikhathi sokuba yizingane, ukuba zintsha, ukuba nesithukuthezi, nokuba yikho uqobo.
Qaphela imisindo ekhaya
Imisindo icindezela imindeni kakhulu futhi kuyadingeka ukuthi ukuze ikhaya lakho libe yisiphephelo kunomsindo omncane, umculo othule noma imisindo yolwandle ngemuva. Imisindo enokuthula isenza sizizwe singcono ngokwenyama nangokomzwelo.
Ngalesi sizathu, imisindo ephezulu efana nethelevishini, izindaba, ukuqhuma komculo omkhulu… konke lokhu kufanele kubekwe eceleni ezimpilweni zenu. Ukunciphisa umsindo kuzovikela umndeni wakho ngokwenyama nangokomzwelo. Kubalulekile ukunciphisa ithoni yezwi ukuze wonke umuntu aqonde kangcono omunye nomunye. Uma kunokumemeza noma abantu bekhuluma ngamathoni aphezulu, amanye amalungu omndeni nawo azothambekela ekukhulumeni kakhulu futhi lokhu kungadala ukuthi ivolumu yezwi ikhuphuke ngokungazi, ngaleyo ndlela kwandise amazinga okucindezeleka.
Ukuhlangana komndeni
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi wonke amalungu omndeni azizwe ebumbene ngaso sonke isikhathi lapho ebhekene nobunzima, ngakho-ke, kufanele kuzwakale ukuthi umndeni uyinto ebaluleke kunazo zonke izikhathi. Kuyadingeka ukwakha isibopho esiqinile ngokomzwelo phakathi kwawo wonke amalungu omndeni, lapho uzwela, ukuzimisela, inhlonipho nothando kuyizimbangi kakhulu ebudlelwaneni phakathi kwabo.
Lezi izeluleko okufanele uzinake ukuze indlu yakho iphenduke nokuthi izingane, intsha kanye nabantu abadala bazizwe kahle ekhaya lakho. Ngoba kule mpilo lapho kulawula ukucindezela nezindaba ezimbi, ukuba nekhaya elihle eliphenduke isiphephelo esihle kakhulu kuyinhlanhla eningi kubantu abaningi. Ngoba indawo okufanele uyithande kakhulu isekhaya.