Abazali abaningi bahlobanisa igama nenhlonipho 'nokwesaba'. Izingane ezifunda ukuthi inhlonipho isho ukwesaba omunye umuntu zizoba namathuba amaningi okuba nobudlelwano phakathi kwabantu abampofu, ngoba inhlonipho yangempela ayihlangene nokubekwa, ukwesaba noma ukubukela phansi ubuntu bomncane kunabo bonke endlini. Futhi, inhlonipho akuyona into efakiwe, inhlonipho yinto okumele izuzwe.
Ukuhlonipha izingane kuyisithuthukisi esiyinhloko sokuthi izingane zihloniphe abazali bazo. Inhlonipho ibalulekile ukuze sikwazi ukwakha ubudlelwano obunempilo phakathi kwabantu futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke, ukuze izingane ezisencane zikhule ngokwanele ngokomzimba nangokomzwelo.
Inhlonipho ayihlangene nakancane nokwesaba
Isikhathi sokuthi abazali baqonde ukuthi inhlonipho ayihlangene nokwesaba. Inhlonipho idala ukwethembela ezinganeni, kungukuthi zizizwa zamukelekile njengoba zinjalo, ukuthi zizwe ukuthi zinokwesekwa okungenamibandela kwabazali bazo, ukuthi bazoziqonda ngaphezu kwakho konke ngenxa yozwela nokuqiniseka. Ukuthola inhlonipho yezingane zakho kubanikeza inhlonipho ebafanele ngokuba kwabo uqobo.
Ngaphezu kwalokho inhlonipho ayiphikisani nezinkambiso, imikhawulo nemithetho yasekhaya. Kepha ngaso sonke isikhathi ngaphansi kombhoshongo wenhlonipho yezingane nokuzivumelanisa nezimo lapho ubhekene nezimo ezahlukahlukene ezingavela usuku nosuku. Ngalesi sizathu, kubalulekile ukuthi abazali ababecabanga ukuthi inhlonipho ifana nokwesaba noma ukwesaba, babe nesikhathi sokucabanga ukucabanga ukuthi hlobo luni lobudlelwano abafuna ukuba nabo nezingane zabo: okwakhayo (inhlonipho esekelwe othandweni nasekulinganeni) noma ukubhubhisa (inhlonipho engeyona eyeqiniso esuselwa ekwesabeni). Ngabe usuyazi ukuthi ufuna ubuhlobo bakho nezingane zakho bube njani?