Ukuthunjwa kwengane kuyiphupho elibi kakhulu kumzali futhi uma kuzwakala izindaba zalolu hlobo, akunakugwenywa ukuthi kwenziwe ifindo esiswini. Yingakho kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi kuthathwe izinyathelo zokuyivimba ukuthi ingenzeki nokufundisa izingane ukwazi ukuthi zingazivikela kanjani kwabanye abantu. Kungakho igama elingukhiye lingahle lidingeke ekufundiseni izingane zakho.
Lokhu kusho ukuthi izingane kufanele zifundiswe igama elingukhiye okufanele laziwe kuphela ngabazali nabantu ababaluleke kakhulu empilweni yengane. Ngale ndlela, lapho umuntu onamanga eza ekuthumeni izingane (njengokuthi abazali babo bathole ingozi nokuthi bazohamba nazo), kufanele babuze igama eliyisihluthulelo futhi uma bengalazi, intombazane kufanele iqale ikhalele usizo noma ibaleke.
Igama eliyisihluthulelo kufanele laziwe kuphela kubantu abathembekile emndenini abangalanda ingane, kungaba epaki, esikoleni noma emisebenzini yangaphandle. Kuyadingeka ukuthi ukhulume kusuka lapho izingane zincane ngokuba khona kwabantu abangaziwa, ngabantu abafuna ukwenza izinto ezimbi nokubaluleka kokungathembi noma yimuphi umuntu ongamazi. Kuyadingeka futhi ukwakha uhlelo lokusebenza nezingane ukuze zazi ukuthi kufanele zenze kanjani uma kwenzeka zithola isimo esinjalo..
Ukunciphisa ubungozi, kubalulekile ukuthi izingane zazi ukuthi:
- Akufanele neze bahambe nomuntu abangamazi noma bangene emotweni yabo
- Kufanele baqaphele noma ngubani abangamazi
- Akufanele bathathe uswidi, i-jugutress nanoma yini umuntu abangamazi abapha yona
- Akufanele neze bahambe bodwa phansi komgwaqo, kuhlale kungcono kuhamba nezinye izingane
- Khumbula ukuthi ungasebenza kanjani kwimodi yengozi
- Yazi ukuthi ungalucela kanjani usizo uma kunesidingo